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  • ashleylynnexo
    ashleylynnexo Posts: 51 Member
    I have seriously never met, people as kind as you all are, EVER. I added everyone who sent me a request, and I'm going to keep my friends list to a point where I can help support everyone in it as much as I can.


    I hope everyone is having a good night, and good luck tomorrow, and remember I'm here for anything, it doesn't have to be only weightloss related.
  • anetap2000
    anetap2000 Posts: 116 Member
    I'm sorry about your dad, you need some time to heal, it will be better over time.
    We are here for you, people here are very supportive, they care about you because they are in your shoes, no matter if they have to lose 10 or 110 lb. They understand you .
    Just take one day a time.
  • Amf5627622
    Amf5627622 Posts: 93
    I am sorry for your heartbreak. Time does have a way of helping. You never get over it and you will never stop missing him but time and life will march on...it will just be different. I found it toughest as time went on because people tend to move on and get back to their lives but the loss was still raw for me, even 6 months later.

    I will offer you this advice - keep working on your journey to get healthy - and lean on all the people here for support. I grieved for my mother in the fridge and then had to grieve for the body I lost! Sometimes the support of a stranger is more helpful than anything.

    I am proud of you for reaching out and am happy to support you. I will add you and we can do this together!
  • SandersWifey
    SandersWifey Posts: 387
    MFP and my husband! Those are the only places that I get support from!
  • Elizabeth_M
    Elizabeth_M Posts: 562 Member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Between grieving for your father and trying to establish and maintain a healthy lifestyle (which is a feat in itself) is no easy task.

    Take it one day at a time.

    Add me as a friend if you want some support.

    You can do this. You will do this.

    Take care.
  • Divagettinfitin2011
    Divagettinfitin2011 Posts: 500 Member
    My fitness pals!!
  • buddy529
    buddy529 Posts: 41 Member
    Adding you...and I'm sorry for your loss. Feel free to vent all you want. We're all in this for similar reasons and I'll gladly give all the support I can :)
  • mgleason01
    mgleason01 Posts: 78 Member
    I'm sorry for your loss. When you start to feel alone, think of all the great times you had with your father and all the wonderful advice he provided. Keep him in your heart and you will never be alone!

    P.S. Feel free to add me for additional support!
  • Sixtyby60
    Sixtyby60 Posts: 11 Member
    Oh....I'm so sorry about your Dad. It is so hard to lose a parent. The emotional drain is like an undertow that just sucks all the energy and breathe out of us, especially after the wake and funeral are over, the family has gone back home, and you just don't realize how much energy it takes to put one foot in front of the other to get through the day. But, it will pass and I think conscious breathing, and eating helps me, at least. I hope things ease up for you soon but don't expect so much of your self for the next little bit, hold your own while you grieve instead of pressuring yourself.
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