COME ONE, COME ALL [the venting thread]

I must say, the last thread I was on (worst negative comment you've received) nearly had me in tears at the memory until I saw your little flash video XDD.

I hate how all my skinny friends complain about their weight in front of me!!!!! I'm not huge... But they know I'm trying to lose weight. My closest friend was really upset that she had gone up to 135. I stared her down and reminded her that I was trying to GET DOWN to 135...

my batwings are so bad like that!!! ugh.... when i do yoga and we have to hold our arm up in the air - stretching if overhead, the skin either touches my nose if I'm looking toward my arm or if I'm looking straight forward it actually lays against my ear and i cant hear. that's damn well disgusting.

my rant is about my support group.... my workout buddies have all been standing me up lately. if they don't want to come with me, ok.... just say so ahead of time. don't give me promises to show up then never show and avoid me later. that's just rude.

First of all, this gif is so friggin funny!! LOL!

I hate that it's so easy to gain, relatively easy to lose, but so hard to maintain.

I hate that I can go along perfectly fine and be really content eating regular portions and healthy foods that I enjoy, and then all of a sudden I'm offered something unhealthy and I binge. It's not even because I'm hungry - it's because I act like I want to make sure I get a lot of it as if I have to horde it and store it because I will never have it again. My partner mentioned to me that I do this, that sometimes I eat really quickly and defensively, and I'm not sure why - I never had to worry about having food taken away from me. But when I binge like I did last night, I eat like it's the end of the freaking world.

I know I do it, I realize I do it WHEN I'm doing it, but I don't feel like I have control. The rest of the time I have control - and I just get so MAD at myself, because I know I won't feel well afterward. It isn't even about weight, I know I will just get SICK.

And I wish I could get up off my rear and go to the gym more often! I've been working out at home but for some reason the idea of dragging my butt to the gym is impossible.

I hate when I try to tell someone that I am unhappy with my weight and they reply "You're fine the way you are"
Did you not hear me I am UNHAPPY, I don't need your condescending bull****, especially when you talk about my weight behind my back.

I'm pissed at myself as I forced my body to run yesterday instead of listening to the twinge in my thigh and now I've given myself a serious injury. Doc says its an intramuscular contusion and sending me to a specialist on Thursday but until then to stay off it.

HATE it when my colleagues offer me something I don’t wanna eat (usually cookies, cakes, muffins… etc. the usual ‘tea-break’ stuff) and when I reject the offer, they make comments like “why don’t eat? You so skinny already, diet for what?” or go around telling others “look at her, underweight already still diet” (pardon the ‘Singlish’ – that’s how we informally speak here lol). Telling them that I’m simply not hungry or that I don’t even like to eat those stuff to begin with will be met with rolling eyes or more snarky remarks.

Well. I’m not skinny, neither am I underweight. I’ve never once told them I’m trying to lose weight. I did mention I’m trying to lose flab (my problem areas are the tummy, butt & thighs - I just cover them up pretty well with the type of clothes I wear but I cringe when I look at myself in the mirror lol), which is a totally different thing! The ‘mockery’, intentional or otherwise, irks me A LOT. Just cos they aren’t interested in doing anything about their health, doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be doing anything with mine!

Ugh. I just think it’s pretty unfair to be getting such reactions, and I just got a few this morning when I refused to eat pineapple tarts (I don’t like them!).

I hate the fact that the belly seems to be the last thing to go aside from the batwings of which I have both. I really hate the fact that although my youngest child is three years old - I STILL LOOK PREGNANT!!!:sad: :ohwell:

I hate that people want me to eat crap with them and when I don't join in they say "go on , one wont hurt" etc. and try to coax me into it. I don't like it - it's junk! I like good quality food!!! I'm not eating it.....
I just get more stubborn!
Then they complain to me about their fat *kitten*....

I hate that my husband was out doing yardwork today, then when he came into the garage, he walked right thru the center of MY half of the garage (carpeted) and, not realizing he'd stepped in dog poo outside, tracked it right down the center of my workout area. I politely pointed it out to him. He said "Oh, [loaded expetives]!! I'll clean it up." Well, his cleaning leaves a lot to be desired. So I cleaned up after he did; down on my hands and knees, scrubbing, sanitizing, blow-drying and vacuuming the carpet. I guess I should consider myself lucky that his legs are so damn long, resulting in fewer steps it takes him to get across a room. And that he stepped in the poo with only one foot rather than two. It took me 45 minutes to get it back to good again. I logged in 30 minutes of it as vigorous cleaning. I don't usually log ANY cleaning, but this one pizzed me off!

I hate the fact that I have worked so stinking hard to loose all this weight to have had a two month set back. I have lost over 100lbs over 4 years. I havent gained that I know of but I am so pi**ed off at myself grrrr.

I hate that I have to work tonight. I have a week of vacay week after next and I just want it to happen now. Waah.

Thank you for posting this, my Grandson is 14 yrs old and over-weight, I call him big guy all the time. I don't say it to be mean or refer to his weight, he is also very tall. But maybe he is offended and I don't realize it, I will be more sensitive in the future.

I hate that some people can eat anything they want and not gain weight. Why couldn't I be one of those people......... I hate when people say or you look fine. I do not look fine, I hate the way I look.

I hate it when people tell me i'm "obsessed" because I enjoy my workouts or am always striving to do better. I post on fb that i'm psyched about a workout and people actually tell me I need an intervention. Where was that *^*%^& intervention when I was 50 lbs overweight!!

I believe many of our "friends" hate that we remind them of their bad habits. I've already lost a friend or two over this.