Not how I wanted to look...(pics)

roguex_1979
roguex_1979 Posts: 247 Member
edited November 9 in Motivation and Support
Ok, so I know I am no model, nor am I a mannequin, but this is the dress I bought for the xmas party last year:

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And this is how I looked in it beginning of December:

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YUCK! That's how I feel when I look at that picture of me, and I'd already lost 18lbs by then.

Ok, so when I showed my mother, she told me I'm not dressing in the right clothes. I should not have worn a dress with no straps/sleeves, and since I have mahoosive boobies, I should be wearing a better bra rather than the one I was attempting to wear in that pic, but couldn't because it didn't have straps/sleeves.

I have bought another dress that I hope will fit me better for future corporate events. Here is a pic of it, and as soonas I get it, I will put it on and upload a pic of me in it.

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What do you think?
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  • tsherm3850
    tsherm3850 Posts: 353 Member
    I love the purple dress. It's quite striking and I think your upper body will fit better for you. Can't wait to see a pic of it.
  • Gwen7121
    Gwen7121 Posts: 126 Member
    I think both are beautiful!
  • evansproudmama
    evansproudmama Posts: 493 Member
    I think the purple dress is gorgeous!! and its going to flatter you in all the right places! I love dresses that have the extra material running through the midsection because even though its tight and hugs you the extra material hides the unflattering parts :-) Gorgeous!!
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    underwear is the key! You should watch "how to look good naked" he says that all the time. make sure you have at least 2 nude bras, one strappless and one with straps..a seamless bra, a black bra and a sports bra. and my personal favorite, although I have massive boobs too, I buy padded bras so my nipples don't stab someone in the chest.
  • LessMe2B
    LessMe2B Posts: 316
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  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
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    I think I misunderstood this post - sorry ladies....
  • LovingCruz
    LovingCruz Posts: 634 Member
    I love them both, but please let me know where you ordered the purple one from? just love it!!
  • SimplyDeLish
    SimplyDeLish Posts: 539
    What a noticed was the belly pouch and the dress so tight you could see your belly button. You'll have the same issue in the purple dress if it's not the right size. I do think the purple one will be more flattering in the bodice.
  • roguex_1979
    roguex_1979 Posts: 247 Member
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  • SassyCalyGirl
    SassyCalyGirl Posts: 1,932 Member
    too clingy for professional outings in my opinion.
  • audram420
    audram420 Posts: 838 Member
    I love both dresses, but the purple one I especially love!!
  • babydull
    babydull Posts: 727 Member
    You'll look great, no doubt, but maybe avoid the clingy fabrics? Go for something more structured with a good cut on your chest and waist?
  • 2dogsnocats
    2dogsnocats Posts: 15
    Unless your belly is TOTALLY flat, women should avoid dresses that are form fitting across the abdomen, they really make your belly look fat! You have to stop worrying about fashion and wear what looks good on your body type!
  • OkieinMinny
    OkieinMinny Posts: 834 Member
    I think its hard to tell on a barbie doll.....
  • shalinimunjal
    shalinimunjal Posts: 192 Member
    I love both...you have great taste!!
  • jfluchere
    jfluchere Posts: 346 Member
    Great dress!!!
  • CheleLynn44
    CheleLynn44 Posts: 339 Member
    I really like the purple dress.
  • raylenebrooks
    raylenebrooks Posts: 137 Member
    yep a nice a line and can wear a good bra will look better and more profesional no belly hugging unless it is flat
  • stevemcqueengirl
    stevemcqueengirl Posts: 189 Member
    You may want to avoid clingy fabrics (jersey, satin, etc) which can show every lump and bump. A structured dress with a high-quality fabric and an A-line design would flatter any type of body such as a sheath dress which never goes out of style. Think a la the "little black dress" that Audrey Hepburns where from Breakfast At Tiffany's - the style is timeless.

    The good thing about the purple dress is that it has straps which would provide more support for the chest area. As Stacy London from What Not To Wear would say, "focus on the fit and not the size". I wish you immense success on your fitness journey and hope the dress fits well for you.
  • garnet1483
    garnet1483 Posts: 249 Member
    Yeah, I think the second one is going to be a lot more flattering. It'll help balance your upper half. I may be shot for saying this, but I wouldn't dream of wearing either dress (even a skinny me!) without Spanx. Two reasons: one, because I detest being able to see someone's navel through a dress, and shudder to think that someone could see mine--even the purple dress on the model (mannequin?) shows the shadow of the navel, and two, it ensures a clean line down the thighs. Good old fashioned control top pantyhose will do the same thing, but those always roll down on me.
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    buckobuckobucko Posts: 65
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  • Tara4boys
    Tara4boys Posts: 515 Member
    I think the shirring in the waist of the purple dress is just like the shirring in the waist of the red dress - and its not doing you any favors.

    I agree with others that has said a non-clingy fabric in an a-line or empire waist will hide your tummy a lot better - and maybe some shapewear???
  • tameko2
    tameko2 Posts: 31,634 Member
    if you really love those dresses, spanx will fix your tummy issue. They are MAGICAL. Holy crap. Just bought my first pair for a dress I have the same problem with (fits but you can see my belly pooching out) and it really does fix that problem.

    I agree the top on the purple will be a little nicer but the red isn't atrocious on you so wear it if you like it.
  • LastHopeForMe
    LastHopeForMe Posts: 17
    The red one is great for parties!

    You have a wonderful skin and I think you are beautiful in it.
    I think in few weeks of MFP, you'll look more and more beautiful.

    You shouldn't check the mannequine picture, but a picture of you before starting diet and this one you posted.
    I felt so happy when I started to loose weight and I watched myself in the mirror wearing an old pair of trousers to find them... a little bit bigger :blushing:

    I suggest you to put the red one on again every 4 - 5 weeks and take a picture. Print them and put it all together.
    The most important thing is to know your own body, so you shouldn't hope to become a mannequine :wink:

    P.s. the purple one is great and you can use it, after the party, to meet friends and so on, if you use a big beads necklace =)
    It will become more "casual". (e.g. http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1339/863722832_cdc347f57b.jpg -NOT suggesting to buy or make this one, only to show you what I mean with big beads, as I don't know if it's understandable in English... I'm Italian...)
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    Yeah, I think the second one is going to be a lot more flattering. It'll help balance your upper half. I may be shot for saying this, but I wouldn't dream of wearing either dress (even a skinny me!) without Spanx. Two reasons: one, because I detest being able to see someone's navel through a dress, and shudder to think that someone could see mine--even the purple dress on the model (mannequin?) shows the shadow of the navel, and two, it ensures a clean line down the thighs. Good old fashioned control top pantyhose will do the same thing, but those always roll down on me.

    There's a reason why everyone buys unsexy underwear for weddings, and it's to wear sexy dresses :P Believe me, I've worked in a lingerie store.

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    No offense, but I think you could do better. I think you'd be hotter in something else. The dresses you're picking out seem to be designed for a different shape (flattering for those with large hips). Tho the shorter one is probably the better of the two. I have a fitted dress in mind that a friend has that is absolutely stunning (and it's ripply) but I'm not sure what it's called or who makes it or what the styles like (kinda like the purple but in satin). I recommend satin.

    I did a google search for prom dresses and think this style would be hot on you (just an opinion that works in my brain but maybe not in person lol):
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    I also think there's nothing wrong with the strapless idea, just the shape of the dress. Guys love booby dresses.
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  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    Yeah, I think the second one is going to be a lot more flattering. It'll help balance your upper half. I may be shot for saying this, but I wouldn't dream of wearing either dress (even a skinny me!) without Spanx. Two reasons: one, because I detest being able to see someone's navel through a dress, and shudder to think that someone could see mine--even the purple dress on the model (mannequin?) shows the shadow of the navel, and two, it ensures a clean line down the thighs. Good old fashioned control top pantyhose will do the same thing, but those always roll down on me.

    There's a reason why everyone buys unsexy underwear for weddings, and it's to wear sexy dresses :P Believe me, I've worked in a lingerie store.

    ----

    No offense, but I think you could do better. I think you'd be hotter in something else. The dresses you're picking out seem to be designed for a different shape (flattering for those with large hips). Tho the shorter one is probably the better of the two. I have a fitted dress in mind that a friend has that is absolutely stunning (and it's ripply) but I'm not sure what it's called or who makes it or what the styles like (kinda like the purple but in satin). I recommend satin.

    I did a google search for prom dresses and think this style would be hot on you (just an opinion that works in my brain but maybe not in person lol):
    draft_lens2403783module13717132photo_1294689422plus-size-prom-dress.jpg
    I also think there's nothing wrong with the strapless idea, just the shape of the dress. Guys love booby dresses.
    41.jpg
    fuchsia-Strapless-mermaid-prom-gown.jpg


    that green one is smokin' hot...you're built just like me, and halter style and maxi style dresses are super flattering. the raised waist makes me look 8 months pregnant because i'm all belly...just keep that in mind too...but yeah maxi, a-line, halter style are built for us
  • bgillis7
    bgillis7 Posts: 124
    i love it:)
    just make sure you get a good size that flatters your mid segstion not points it out.
  • CoderGal
    CoderGal Posts: 6,800 Member
    that green one is smokin' hot...you're built just like me, and halter style and maxi style dresses are super flattering. the raised waist makes me look 8 months pregnant because i'm all belly...just keep that in mind too...but yeah maxi, a-line, halter style are built for us
    I think the raised waist with the poofed bottom makes everyone look pregnant, I freakin' hate them but they're popular now :P

    She's all boob too so the high waist might suit her.

    And isn't it! I have one that's kinda has the same colors and styling but I'm totally inlove with the material and neckline.

    I swear this actually looks good when it's not put next to that dress haha
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  • roguex_1979
    roguex_1979 Posts: 247 Member
    WOW! That green dress is amazing!!!!!! Gorgeous.

    Thanks for all the comments guys. Already bought the purple one before I posted initially, so too late to stop the order (it's from china/ebay), but I'm sure I could pull it off, especially after I get to my goal weight. But I have defo taken on board everyone's comments. I actually have a halterneck dress I'm hoping to wear for my dad's 70th birthday party in July, although hoping to be much closer to goal weight by then, but I'm sure I'll still be all boob.
  • ctalimenti
    ctalimenti Posts: 865 Member
    That's cool but do wear a "Nancy Ganz" undergarment with it. It'll shove everything into place. They are commonplace in Hollywood, really! I have a couple. They smooth everything out.

    http://bodynancyganz.com/
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