What makes someone sexy?

A man who picks up after himself .... gets me everytime

I love a rugged look as well, aahhh there's just something so carnal and sexy about that! Also, nice hair is super sexy to me. A great butt, mmm, toned and muscular but not on some Arnold thing.

Dark hair, eyes that smile, sexy latino accent, mmm, I love my boyfriend! Everything about him is sexy

What makes a person sexy to ME?? Intelligence, a good sense of humor, compassion, a solid work ethic, and a desire to make a positive difference in the world by being the best person they can be.

Notice nothing in the above refers to looks. I have been attracted to men (and women) of every conceivable size, shape, and color. It's the person, not the package that gets me.

Humour, good taste in music/films/books, love for animals, socks without holes in them (!!)

Gotta have some muscles. Good shoulders and biceps. Sense of rhythm wouldn't hurt, either. Strong hands.

Other than that, big smile and that *spark* in his eyes when he looks at me.

Tattoos are fine, as long as they aren't from photos of ex girlfriends, deceased wives/mothers, tributes to crap bands, nazi or very scary ones.


Oh, and not jealous. Can't be doing with someone who freaks out because rehearsal has run ten minutes over time and assumes I have to be out the back with the lead singer.



[And if he turns out to look and sound like Marlboro Man should, well, that's just fine by me.....]

Being confident in who and what they are.
And I'm a sucker for a manly man.

DITTO!!!! yum.

I prefer him to be taller than me, at least some facial hair, have a sparkle in his eyes be it his sense of humor or that he finds me sexy doesnt matter. A man with sense of humor who I dont have to explain what I think is funny. So sarcastic, snarky, not too PC. Self confidense but not too cocky. A little rugged or rough, a man who works with his hands.. Needs to be naughty at least in private, a back bone and can make decisions. A man not afraid to show he cares, has to have enough intellegence to carry on a conversation. a nice smile and has good hygiene. Cares enough to take care of himself. Deep voice and can fill out a tight pair of jeans a real plus...

sexy is different to attractive...

gorgeous
volumptuous
*****y

(its very difficult as there are so many attractive women out there), one day like curvy, the next slim, one day blondes, the next brunettes.

These however are not what i base a relationship on.., i just like a nice looking girl who likes to live a simple life and values things that money can't buy over those silly material things many of us chase. Also someone i click with.

Smiles a lot
Laughs a lot
Warm personality
Respectable job (Does not mean high paying, just something that provides something positive to the world)
Ambition (Don't care in what, career, fine arts, athletic pursuits, anything...)

Ooh this is such a hard question. First off, I think confidence is extremely sexy, and a good smile!!

confident, intelligent, outgoing, and good looking, but not self absorbed, egotistical or condescending toward others. If he's full of himself, he's full of *kitten*.

Sincerity in all aspects of their being. Kindness, sense of humor, spiritual...someone who is comfortable in their own skin.
A nice *kitten* works too.

Good sense of humor. Nice broad shoulders. I'm also very attracted to bigger guys (think Vin Diesel or The Rock) with bulky muscle. I also love nerds.

Being not an a-hole is a good thing. Nothing more disgusting than a guy who treats other people like crap or talks trash about others behind their backs.

I've always been attracted to smart, borderline 'nerdy' guys. I dont know why.

Cross the border. It's more fun. :happy:

~ Character ~ He can be the best looking man in a room, but if he has no character, no personality and doesn't carry himself well ... forget it !

Oh yeah ... A well spoken man is totally HOT !

Totally agree!!

I have a thing for intelligence too.