stressing!

charlee_a
charlee_a Posts: 11
edited November 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
Im going out with my 3 best friends tomorrow night but every time we go out I dread it! I feel the fat one all night (they are all skinnie minnies) and I feel that I stand out like a sore thumb. I try my best to look nice and fit in but always feel like a blob next to them and spend the whole night fidgeting and feeling uncomfortable - aasrrgghh! Wish I had told them I busy now! Im dragging my wardrobe out looking for something halfway decent to wear x

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  • Emilia6909
    Emilia6909 Posts: 309 Member
    Go and have a blast. Put yourself in an invisible bubble and zip it up! Remember, what people have to say about you is none of your business! :wink:

    Life is short!!! Don't get me wrong... I'm with you on that blah feeling, but I too have learned that whilst everyone is out having fun, I was the one sitting at home.

    Nope, you go and have fun!!! You're on a path to change your life. Whoever meets you tomorrow night, will be doubley impressed to see you when they meet you again in the near future!!

    Looking foward to your update on Sunday morning!! :tongue:
  • inge88
    inge88 Posts: 184 Member
    Confidence makes up for a lot. Just go and enjoy yourself. Stop thinking what strangers will think off you. You will never see them again. Have fun and enjoy, and people will enjoy looking at you!
  • sexyminxinthemaking
    sexyminxinthemaking Posts: 451 Member
    awwww babe dont feel like that but i do sympathise im exactly the same apart from i have 4 friends we all go out together and 2 of them are bigger than me so i dont feel too bad. dont let it stop you though you have done very well so go have a blast girlie xx
  • heidi2004
    heidi2004 Posts: 35 Member
    I dread going out all the time, but you know what at the end of the day I don't give a *kitten*!!! the only person that matters is yourself!! So get up, get dressed and get you don't give a *kitten* attitude on and have a blast!!! Have agreat night out!!!
  • Cris725
    Cris725 Posts: 81
    You've been working hard. Maybe its time for a little treat/pick-me-up. Do you have a Torrid where you live? That store is amazing. They have awesome clothes for women who are large but also clothes for women who are only slightly larger than average. :) And thier shoes are killer! When you walk in the room, you'll turn heads. And NOT in a "I'm bigger than my friends" kind of way. Go rock it girl!
  • Roshams
    Roshams Posts: 77
    Im going out with my 3 best friends tomorrow night but every time we go out I dread it! I feel the fat one all night (they are all skinnie minnies) and I feel that I stand out like a sore thumb. I try my best to look nice and fit in but always feel like a blob next to them and spend the whole night fidgeting and feeling uncomfortable - aasrrgghh! Wish I had told them I busy now! Im dragging my wardrobe out looking for something halfway decent to wear x

    Think thin honey, don't worry about what others think!

    Take what you got and work with it :D

    " Think highly of yourself, because others take you at your own estimate"
  • lmelangley
    lmelangley Posts: 1,039 Member
    Stop stressing. While you're obsessing on your weight, another friend is probably stressing over her hair, and another over her shoes. We all tend to be hyper critical of ourselves, and have a thing that really gets us down. Accept yourself for what you are - a real person trying to make herself healthier. Everything takes time and you'll get there. In the meanwhile, stressing and obsessing is doing nothing but making your life miserable. Why do you have to be as thin as them to have fun? Who cares what other people think?
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