Anyone trying to get their resistant partner to join them?

Do you do the cooking and shopping? That is how I have changed my husband's diet. I do ALL the cooking and shopping, and I simply told him that I was going to cook healthy, and If he doesn't like it, he can cook his own food (which he has yet to do).
He still eats too large of portions, but it's still far better than he used to eat.

I am in a similar boat. My partner of 7 years and gained "comfort" weight together. While I have lost some of it after having our son, he keeps getting bigger and less healthy as the time goes by. He will now admit that he has to lose weight but he really is too lazy to do anything about it (his words) and he refuses to try eating healthy. He has so many health issues that run in his family and for the past few years he's been sleeping with a CPAP because of his sleep apnea......Sorry I can't offer any advice, I'm still trying to figure it out myself.

Let me know if you find anything that works.....

I know how you feel, my partner is the same. The hardest part is the only veges he will eat are potatos, carrots and silver beet. He may sometimes eat an apple but not very often. He is also the biggest takeaway junky ever! He eats 3 burgers!!!! Its really hard cause whenever we in town he has to get takeaways, and i feel myself failing because they are just soo good! I manage to balance out and stick under my calorie goals, but i don't feel it counts cause they not exactly that healthy ( i try to have the healthiest option)
He's all for me getting to a skinnier size, but i just don't feel i have full support.:grumble: