Hubby does not like chicken breast. what to do

ladyhawkgg
ladyhawkgg Posts: 26
edited November 10 in Food and Nutrition
Hubby does not like white meat of chicken or turkey. I have tried it different ways to the sunny comes up. Still will not eat white meat. He will eat legs and thighs. Loves dark meat. What else can I serve this man other then dark all the time. He is on low fat cause of heart problems and needs to watch the fat intake as well. Any help please.
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  • maddymama
    maddymama Posts: 1,183 Member
    Cook for yourself and your health. If he wants dark meat, he can cook for himself.
  • Will he eat turkey? Fish?
  • yesthistime
    yesthistime Posts: 2,051 Member
    Will he eat seafood? Thin pork chops? Lean beef?
  • lexagon
    lexagon Posts: 495 Member
    Can he have lean meats? Fish?

    Switch any ground beef with ground turkey (tacos, chili, pasta sauce).
  • hexrei
    hexrei Posts: 163
    All the things these people have said. Fish is a great choice, and pork and beef are fine as long as you are trimming/draining the excess fat (assuming your goal is to keep the calorie counts low)
  • LATeagno
    LATeagno Posts: 620 Member
    Um... I don't recommend not cooking for him. That would be pretty rude. My husband eats ground beef and absolutely nothing else. No turkey, no chicken, no fish, no pork, no nothing. Not even steak. Seriously, it's ground beef or nothing. :/ I just try to be creative with ways to make it so we can both eat healthily.

    Why are you afraid of dark meat (unless you just don't like it, that is)? There is nothing bad about the dark part of the bird. I've lost weight just fine eating both types of meat. That said, why not just make an occasional whole chicken? Everybody will be happy that way. :)
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    Have you tried beans? Legumes in are good sources of protein, and relatively low in fat if you prepare them that way.
  • AnninStPaul
    AnninStPaul Posts: 1,372 Member
    Personally, I also prefer the taste of dark meat. It gets a bad rep, but with the skin removed isn't that much "worse" than white:

    Calories Carb(g) Protein(g) Total Fat(g) Sat. Fat(g)
    Chicken - Dark Meat Roasted (1 Cup Diced) 249 0 32.6 12.3 3.4
    Chicken - Light (White) Meat Roasted (1 Cup Diced) 214 0 38 5.7 1.5
    Turkey - Dark Meat Roasted (1 Cup Diced) 262 0 40 10.1 3.4
    Turkey - Light (White) Meat Roasted (1 Cup Diced) 220 0 41.9 4.5 1.4

    from http://www.diet-blog.com/07/dark_meat_vs_white_meat_whats_the_difference.php

    Perhaps there are other items he would be more willing to compromise on?

    note: I really did space out the table, but it all got collapsed by MFP!
  • quickfin
    quickfin Posts: 78 Member
    I've been using boneless skinless chicken thighs in place of breast... you can cook the two together and give him the dark meat and save the breast for yourself.
  • Kimmer2011
    Kimmer2011 Posts: 569 Member
    My husband is allergic to poultry, so I deal with this all the time. You can do almost anything with a boneless pork chop that you can with a boneless chicken breast.
  • He will not eat fish. Can not have shell fish nor a great deal of red meat cause of cholesterol. He has had a triple bypass and has to be careful what he eats. Dark meat has more cholesterol then white. Only pork if its breaded and fried. lol. Not getting that very often. Beans lol its not meat to him..... sorry these seem like a great ideas but have tried these methods. lol... Keep them coming maybe someone will hit it. thanks ...:happy:
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    Honestly, I'd tell him to stop being a three year old and just suck it up and eat the damn chicken, because I'd rather a grumpy husband who didn't like his dinner than a dead husband.
  • AnninStPaul
    AnninStPaul Posts: 1,372 Member
    He will not eat fish. Can not have shell fish nor a great deal of red meat cause of cholesterol. He has had a triple bypass and has to be careful what he eats. Dark meat has more cholesterol then white. Only pork if its breaded and fried. lol. Not getting that very often. Beans lol its not meat to him..... sorry these seem like a great ideas but have tried these methods. lol... Keep them coming maybe someone will hit it. thanks ...:happy:

    Well if he's gonna be that way about it, he can eat what you serve or help himself to a bowl of cheerios.
  • taso42
    taso42 Posts: 8,980 Member
    Surely he can eat some dark meat poultry and still stay within the doc's prescribed fat zone. If not, there always pork.
  • EbbySoo
    EbbySoo Posts: 267 Member
    Cover the white meat in a darker sauce so he thinks it's dark meat... hehehe, lots of yummy korean homemade sauces you can make that are low in saturated fat, treat it like your cooking for a child, hide it. ;)
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    Perhaps you serve him dried out chicken. You could try pan roasting it, then putting marinara on it with a little cheese and finish under the broiler.

    Coq au Vin is also easy and healthy and won't be dry.
  • maddymama
    maddymama Posts: 1,183 Member
    Um... I don't recommend not cooking for him. That would be pretty rude.

    Why is that rude? If I make a healthy dinner for me (and for him, if he wants it) and he acts like a baby or a spoiled brat and says he won't eat it, then why would I cook for him?
    My husband knows that if he doesn't want to eat what I cook, then he can cook for himself. I'm his wife, not his mother.
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    Any help please.

    Ok this advice may seem off the wall but hear me out. Tell him to hold his nose when eating white meat. It will cut off the olfactory receptors and give the food a more neutral flavour.

    Alternatively he could just place more importance on his health and eat what is good for him.
  • MissyJessy
    MissyJessy Posts: 1,279 Member
    i am no ones personal chef you dont like my cooking then to bad im cooking to be healthy you want something else make it yourself.

    If its dry put some salsa on it...
  • MissyJessy
    MissyJessy Posts: 1,279 Member
    Any help please.

    Ok this advice may seem off the wall but hear me out. Tell him to hold his nose when eating white meat. It will cut off the olfactory receptors and give the food a more neutral flavour.

    Alternatively he could just place more importance on his health and eat what is good for him.

    Thats what i tell my 3 year old... a grown man can make his own food.:laugh:
  • Mom0fTwo
    Mom0fTwo Posts: 326 Member
    I am not the biggest fan of it either so I buy maple leaf, boneless skinless chicken thighs, 100 cal each on average and I love them they are so tender
  • aiyana1228
    aiyana1228 Posts: 100 Member
    I have been cooking whole chickens in the crock pot. Its cheeper and the crock pot makes it fall off the bone totally tender. Maybe you could get him to try it like that. You can also do things like marinate them to make them more tender. Most people that do not like white meat think its too dry. The other issue here is that boneless skinless chicken breasts can get overcooked very quickly. Its kind of like fish. Just cooked through and its moist and tender, cook it too long and it becomes dry and chewy. About 20 minutes is really all it usually takes in the oven. I cut into one at this point and if there is any pink it gets another 5 minutes at a time until its just barely ready.

    If he likes southwest food another cool meal is to shread the chicken and cook with salsa. You can then make soft tacos, burritos, etc. Good luck. Its hard to get someone else to eat differently until its what they want. If all else fails, cooking the dark meat with the skin removed is still a better choice.

    Like all of us if we look at all that would have to change to get healthy it can feel totally overwhelming. Remember that as scary as heart problems are even little changes will make a big impact. Loose just 10% of your body fat and you make a big impack on your health. Don't focus on the big number at the end. Help him focus on one or two little changes for today. Let him take it a day at a time. He didn't get there overnight and will proably not be willing to fix it all overnight. If you push too hard (we all know our wonderful men) he will probably just push back. Make a few little changes at a time, encourage him to try different things. Try to cook the foods he likes in a healthier way. Go for walks together. Remind him that you love him and want him to stick around for a long time but even on the days he totally blows it- love him anyway.
  • YassSpartan
    YassSpartan Posts: 1,195 Member
    He will not eat fish. Can not have shell fish nor a great deal of red meat cause of cholesterol. He has had a triple bypass and has to be careful what he eats. Dark meat has more cholesterol then white. Only pork if its breaded and fried. lol. Not getting that very often. Beans lol its not meat to him..... sorry these seem like a great ideas but have tried these methods. lol... Keep them coming maybe someone will hit it. thanks ...:happy:

    How old is he? lol Sorry I ask but he's behaving like a little kid. When someone is limited towards what they can eat because of their health, there's no reason why he should be behaving like that. He better take suck it up, stop giving you a hard time and start eating clean.

    What most people are failing to read is that he needs to watch his diet and some of the options mentioned are high in cholesterol and fats.

    My only two advices to you are:

    1- Try to find a book (or more than one) specifically written for people who need to eat healthy like he does
    2- Tell him that if he really cares about himself and about you, to eat the awesome food your cooking for him even if he "doesn't like it". It is either that, or take more medications and the possibility of getting more sick.
  • when I make chicken breast I boil it in chicken broth frist, then I make it into what ever I need it for. Like tacos, I then put the seasoning on it like it says too, and tell whoever is eating it that it is dark meat, they will never be able to tell, very juicey.. and tricky
  • CuteAndCurvy83
    CuteAndCurvy83 Posts: 570 Member
    I usually make him a leg/thigh and myself the breast..
  • timmymon
    timmymon Posts: 304 Member
    Easy! Find new hubby :laugh:
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    Does he need meat at all?
  • mrschappet
    mrschappet Posts: 488 Member
    give him 3 choices

    1- eat it
    2-make his own damn meal
    3- go hungry

    :-) problem solved
  • Missjilly1025
    Missjilly1025 Posts: 146 Member
    Ground round, yes it's tofu but your hubby will never know because it looks and tastes like ground beef. I use it to make vegetarian chili of this website www.alive.ca.

    Also, depending on where you live you could also use deer, moose, and rabbit in recipes.
  • Make it a team effort. Sounds like there's a list of things he can have. Have *him* write down what he can't have. Then have him write down what he CAN have.

    From what he CAN have, have him write down what he doesn't like. If you can get it out of him, have him talk about WHY he doesn't like. I've found a few times I've built up a prejudice against a food because of bad experiences eating it. Doesn't mean I might not like it prepared differently.

    Then finally make a list of the things he CAN have and DOES like.

    If it's limited, make sure he understands that, and that if he doesn't want to be flexible and try new things, he might be choosing to eat a limited selection of items.

    Anyway, that's my vote. Try a team approach, that puts some responsibility and acceptance back on him. After all, you're making the effort to cook. He should make the effort to accept what he can eat and either try harder to be flexible (and work with you on it) or understand the din-din rotation might be limited. :wink:
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