Lights on... or Lights off?

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  • MissFit0101
    MissFit0101 Posts: 2,382
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    Either is fine by me ... :heart:
  • love4fitnesslove4food_wechange
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    IF i were having sex...they'd be off. for sure.
  • SilverStrychnine
    SilverStrychnine Posts: 413 Member
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    I prefer the lights on. Boyfriend likes them off. So we try and find a happy medium.
  • tatertotfishstick
    tatertotfishstick Posts: 91 Member
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    dim lights, yes. And not because I don't want to "see" myself, just because the "runway" lights are too damn bright and irritate my eyes!
  • nk17
    nk17 Posts: 141 Member
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    Off, because after 27 years we know what we look like.
    (Of course, if it is daylight, we are stuck looking at each other.) ;->
  • ShoeZilla
    ShoeZilla Posts: 21 Member
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    Always on!!!
  • Pink_turnip
    Pink_turnip Posts: 280 Member
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    makes no difference to me as long as it's not pitch black...
  • kittenmitton
    kittenmitton Posts: 231 Member
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    makes no difference to me as long as it's not pitch black...

    Ooo pitch black (or even blindfolded) is fun if you've never tried it! All your other senses get heightened because you can't see and every little touch feels sooooo much more amazing!
  • AggieLu
    AggieLu Posts: 873 Member
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    Back in the day it would always have to be off.. as I'm more in love with more body, on!
  • weightloss12345678
    weightloss12345678 Posts: 377 Member
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    Dont matter, some light is always good bc I like to see
  • Troy67
    Troy67 Posts: 556 Member
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    I like mood lighting for ambiance. I don't want it lit up like Wrigley Field, but I want to be able to look into my sweetheart's eyes.
  • ummlovelovesyou
    ummlovelovesyou Posts: 1,024 Member
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    Dim lighting. How can you have sex in the dark?! I would kick him in the face or something stupid like that haha
  • brindlechewy
    brindlechewy Posts: 84 Member
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    Oh my goodness...OFF. In a cave, underground, in the pitch black of the darkest, deepest, blackest night, during a blackout. And try not to touch me if it's at all possible. :sick:
  • xxTAMxx
    xxTAMxx Posts: 614
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    On, that's what blind folds are for!
    This^^^
    Blinds are for sissies. Especially if you're proud of who you're sharing the moment with :bigsmile:
    Don't knock it until you try it....
  • abrn93
    abrn93 Posts: 77 Member
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    depends on who i'm with...
  • CanuckTracy
    CanuckTracy Posts: 245 Member
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    off, one day they will be on...lol
    This!!
  • Iffer75
    Iffer75 Posts: 2,817 Member
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    I like candle lite. It is somewhere in the middle and it also sets the mood. :bigsmile:
  • xSophia19
    xSophia19 Posts: 1,536 Member
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    lights off defo, i dont fancy having people walk past my bedroom window and seeing a head bobbing up and down :laugh: (my curtains are quite thin!)

    also, a note to self and everyone else - if you do it in the daytime, close your curtains! - few months ago, i accidently left my curtains open and the window cleaner popped up to clean my windows! *cringeeee* :blushing: to this day i just cant look at our window cleaner in the same way!
  • Iffer75
    Iffer75 Posts: 2,817 Member
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    Ooo pitch black (or even blindfolded) is fun if you've never tried it! All your other senses get heightened because you can't see and every little touch feels sooooo much more amazing!

    Will definitely have to give this a try... :bigsmile:
  • catfish9
    catfish9 Posts: 138
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    Candles, candles, and more candles! :)