Lights on... or Lights off?

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  • Troy67
    Troy67 Posts: 556 Member
    I like mood lighting for ambiance. I don't want it lit up like Wrigley Field, but I want to be able to look into my sweetheart's eyes.
  • ummlovelovesyou
    ummlovelovesyou Posts: 1,024 Member
    Dim lighting. How can you have sex in the dark?! I would kick him in the face or something stupid like that haha
  • brindlechewy
    brindlechewy Posts: 84 Member
    Oh my goodness...OFF. In a cave, underground, in the pitch black of the darkest, deepest, blackest night, during a blackout. And try not to touch me if it's at all possible. :sick:
  • xxTAMxx
    xxTAMxx Posts: 573 Member
    On, that's what blind folds are for!
    This^^^
    Blinds are for sissies. Especially if you're proud of who you're sharing the moment with :bigsmile:
    Don't knock it until you try it....
  • abrn93
    abrn93 Posts: 77 Member
    depends on who i'm with...
  • CanuckTracy
    CanuckTracy Posts: 245 Member
    off, one day they will be on...lol
    This!!
  • Iffer75
    Iffer75 Posts: 2,817 Member
    I like candle lite. It is somewhere in the middle and it also sets the mood. :bigsmile:
  • xSophia19
    xSophia19 Posts: 1,536 Member
    lights off defo, i dont fancy having people walk past my bedroom window and seeing a head bobbing up and down :laugh: (my curtains are quite thin!)

    also, a note to self and everyone else - if you do it in the daytime, close your curtains! - few months ago, i accidently left my curtains open and the window cleaner popped up to clean my windows! *cringeeee* :blushing: to this day i just cant look at our window cleaner in the same way!
  • Iffer75
    Iffer75 Posts: 2,817 Member
    Ooo pitch black (or even blindfolded) is fun if you've never tried it! All your other senses get heightened because you can't see and every little touch feels sooooo much more amazing!

    Will definitely have to give this a try... :bigsmile:
  • catfish9
    catfish9 Posts: 138
    Candles, candles, and more candles! :)
  • Iffer75
    Iffer75 Posts: 2,817 Member
    I have finally met the man of my dreams and he makes me feel beautiful inside and out, so I do love to be able to see him before, during and after. I don't feel ugly when I am with him, so I don't mind him seeing me. :bigsmile:
  • Danpellizzari
    Danpellizzari Posts: 130
    It makes no difference to me.
  • Sphelps14
    Sphelps14 Posts: 8
    BOOO yea, nice job. I like that, when my wife n i had a mirror in our room it was AWESOME!!! then the mirror went all weird and started bending the reflection like the ones in the carnival... made us look like stretched out and awkward body shapes...it was weird so of course, even though everyone else looked fine in it, for some odd reason it didn't make us look right, so its in the closet until it's fixed. ;);):bigsmile: :bigsmile: :tongue: :laugh:
  • HeidiMightyRawr
    HeidiMightyRawr Posts: 3,343 Member
    Either, but mostly on :D
  • shanlynt
    shanlynt Posts: 718 Member
    At this point I will take it any way it comes
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    For a long time it was off...now I want to see and be seen...so dim light. Maybe someday soon I won't mind if the light very bright.
  • Hmrjmr1
    Hmrjmr1 Posts: 1,106 Member
    When my wife was alive mixed it up pretty much but once the kids were grown and out of the house Sunday after noon was Romper room school and plenty of light.
  • bigredhearts
    bigredhearts Posts: 428
    on or off works for me, they are usually on tho, especially in the shower, that **** can be dangerous if you're doing it right! :wink:
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    on or off works for me, they are usually on tho, especially in the shower, that **** can be dangerous if you're doing it right! :wink:

    Oh to be young! I remember this...damn!
  • OSC_ESD
    OSC_ESD Posts: 752 Member
    ~ Every moment is determined by the intensity .... if there is food involved or moving from room to room ... shine a little light .. if it's an intimate night in the bedroom ... candles are perfect ! For those nights in the bath or shower ... lights on ! Basically, the mood ... the moment .. the night ... determines the light ! :wink:
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    You take the time to alter the lighting?
  • rollycollysmama
    rollycollysmama Posts: 143
    Really depends where the mood strikes, Lol. Obviously if its in a movie theater the lights are at least dim. I'm a freak though. Lol
  • sarahness
    sarahness Posts: 80 Member
    off, one day they will be on...lol

    this is how i feel!! lol
  • Jellyphant
    Jellyphant Posts: 1,400 Member
    Either or.. just with a shirt on. D:!
  • a21smp
    a21smp Posts: 26 Member
    Well my boyfriend always wants the lights on, I don't get a choice. I guess it's ok though since he loves to look at me :wink:
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    On, but a lamp, not overhead lighting.
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    both, or sunlight, car interior light, streetlights, lol...i'm not picky.
  • morgansmom02
    morgansmom02 Posts: 1,131 Member
    Oh the lights will always be off! And there better not be any light shining in through the curtains either or the deal is off!
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    I'd say either but if I had to pick one it would be on.
  • doctor_mike
    doctor_mike Posts: 70
    Whatever she wishes.......is my command.....
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