Dreamblockers suck

I know it is one thing to be realistic and another to be a total jerk. I hate people that discourage me from a goal saying... you will never look like that again. Especially when its the most important person in your life. I wonder if that comment is made from fear of you evolving into a better person and the thought of it makes them insecure. Maybe my expectations about myself are too high looking 8 years younger is not a hard goal I think and with my genes it is doable. I know the effects of stress leave their mark on people and I have been through a lot these past 2 years. I think it gives me more of a drive to try harder to prove them wrong. Nothing more ugly then a human pigeon that has the need to poop on everything.