change in attitude??
ludogx87
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hey skinny guys n gals
just wondering if anyone out there had noticed a change in your best friends day to day attitude/behaviour towards you since you started lookin amazing and skinny??
for example.... "best friends" have stopped inviting you out to lunch and dinnier dates, nights out because your "on a diet" ??????
has anyone asked them why?????
just wondering if anyone out there had noticed a change in your best friends day to day attitude/behaviour towards you since you started lookin amazing and skinny??
for example.... "best friends" have stopped inviting you out to lunch and dinnier dates, nights out because your "on a diet" ??????
has anyone asked them why?????
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Maybe they think they are being 'helpful and supportive' by not asking you to restaurants incase it disrupts your diet.
Or.........................................
Maybe they are jealous of the new fantastic looking you xx0 -
i used to weigh 282 pounds and me and my friends would go out for meals and get all the takeaways u can imagine. but then i decided to eat healthier and lose some weight and im down to about 168 now and they dont really invite me out for meals anymore but its only cos they know i wont eat the food there, they usually come pick me up after their meal and we all go for drinks and stuff:).
i do go for meals with them occasionaly and we always end up at a chinese buffet cos i know they have steamed fish and loads of chicken and vegetables so i eat as much as i want:) lol but with some other friends iv noticed they keep tellin me im too skinny and that i look like im gona snap in half, even though i still want to lose weight and get down to 150 so god knows what theyre gona say about me when i get there!
they dont leave me out but theyre a lot more negative towards my appearence now, when i was morbidly obese noone ever told me i looked horrible but now iv lost weight they tell me i look disgusting. i dont understand why they do this surely they must know im not confident otherwise i wouldnt be on a diet trying to change the way i look lol. who knows, i think its best we just try to ignore people sometimes! x0
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