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TDGee
TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
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In your relationship (married or dating), who does the driving when you go places together? (Stolen from the wall of a friend)

In my case, it's me who is compelled to drive. I was in a really bad car crash when I was 18; could have died bad, and since then, I am a very nervous passenger.

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  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,985 Member
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    Hubs. Unless he's drunk. in which case, it's me.
  • cklbrown
    cklbrown Posts: 4,696 Member
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    Husband- although I am a better driver. He constantly complains about the way I drive. I'm never going fast enough or taking the correct route or whatever . I don't care how we get there a long as we arrive!
  • BeetleChe13
    BeetleChe13 Posts: 498 Member
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    My husband does, mostly because I can't afford to waste gas, and he is terrible with directions. The only time I drove somewhere a good distance away, we got lost because he failed to give me any directions at all. Definitely not happening again.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
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    Yep me, everywhere...anywhere we go I get handed the keys.
  • debs_7
    debs_7 Posts: 2 Member
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    Me because I'm the only one who has a licence.
  • liog
    liog Posts: 347 Member
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    I often drive because I can't stand the way my husband drives. He hates driving so he's fine with it.
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,845 Member
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    I drive as often as possible..and of course if my husband's drinking..I always drive.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,663 Member
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    In your relationship (married or dating), who does the driving when you go places together? (Stolen from the wall of a friend)

    In my case, it's me who is compelled to drive. I was in a really bad car crash when I was 18; could have died bad, and since then, I am a very nervous passenger.
    I usually do the driving.............unless I'm sleepy.

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  • jennafluff
    jennafluff Posts: 54
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    Hubs. Unless he's drunk. in which case, it's me.
    Haha, sounds familiar!!!!!
  • deeharley
    deeharley Posts: 1,208 Member
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    He drives - I navigate. And yes, I love telling him where to go. :laugh:
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
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    As a motorbike rider, I am really stressed and bored in cars... So I normally hand over the steering wheel as much as possible (I don't like to drive cars basically).
  • kp_88
    kp_88 Posts: 53 Member
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    I drive, my husband is a horrible driver. I was also in a bad accident, which has made me more nervous to be a passenger.
  • revren10
    revren10 Posts: 116
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    im the chaufeer like in driving miss daisy
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
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    The OH drives me around. She gets travel sick. I don't. I don't like the smell of sick in the car :laugh:
  • katkins3
    katkins3 Posts: 1,360 Member
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    My husband drives; I put on my sun glasses and close my eyes, (so I don't keep doing the "brace for impact" flinch).
    I've done this maneuver since my son learned to drive.
    They tell me I'm so mellow in the car, never ruffled. Little do they know; I've got my eyes Closed!
    (I confessed to my son about the eyes closed and he reaches over now and then to lift my sun glasses and check if they are.)

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