Unconsolable (Sp?)

I am so sorry for your loss. You need time to get through your grief. I think it was nice that he was feeling so much better before he passed. You probably had some nice moments together that you can cherish.

I am really sorry to hear about your dad!

I am very sorry for your loss. It is so difficult to lose a parent. Take care of yourself and be extra patient with yourself. I am sending you hugs.

Honey I cannot imagine what your going through! There is no explaination as why these things happen! All I know is we serve God that brings good out of every situation and no matter how hard this is, he is with you! And Good things will happen.. Food is not your comfort and I am sure you dad would not want you to destroy your health! I am sure if he could speak to you he would tell you that He wants you to take good care of yourself so that you are around as long as you can be for those babies! Hurting yourself because you are hurting is not the answer! You have so many of us on here praying for you! You will get through this! You will go over and not Under! There is a light at the end of this dark tunnel! Hugs to you! Trust Jesus, Let him be your strength in your weakest moment! Remember footprints in the sand.. Jesus is walking with you so there are always 2 sets of foot prints, But all of a sudden you only see One set of footprints and that is when you are too weak to walk on your own and he picks you up and carries you! He will carry you though this! Just hang on! Let those babies fill you with love! Find comfort in them!

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I'll be blunt, because losing anyone close sucks high water...

You have 2 paths of mindset to take...the one your on, or the more positive...he is no longer in a battle. Keep close the memories, always talk about him with pride. Step through life as he would want you to...its what I do.

I'm so sorry you're hurting friend... Then this.. ^^^

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I'm so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing; it's obviously having a tremendous impact on you and I don't suppose there are any short-cuts to the grieving process. It's just going to take time - to absorb, to accept, to grieve and to adjust.

Your eating is maybe not the highest priority in the very early days but it's obviously on your mind as you've posted on MFP. That takes some strength of purpose in my book. I don't think anybody would say anything to you about 'falling off the wagon' right now, but I'd say that whilst your eating is in your mind, if you can make some healthy choices in addition to the comforting ones, the results maybe won't be as bad and at least your body will be getting what it needs to keep you going.

I'm sure your Dad was so very proud of you and what you've achieved all through your life; he'd want you to 'get back on the horse' as soon as ever you're ready and carry on doing what's good for you. I'll say a prayer for him.

As a final thought, weight is so very easy to gain and much, much harder to lose - we all know that. It would be a crying shame if you had to re-lose a significant weight gain just when you're coming out into the light again. You have friends here and much support. Thinking of you and your family right now and rooting for you. xx

Hope you feel better and get through these hard times, try to stay focus and know that he would want the best for you

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Try and find other solutions to easing your pain. (I gained alot after my brothers death) Sometimes walking helps and especially having the opportunity to talk about the person you have lost. I hope you have someone near you to talk through all this.

Kind regards
JR