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    • Boys vs Girls-Would u get with your friend?

    Posts: 1,221 Member
    edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
    I can almost guarantee the votes will be more yes for men and no for women. You have a plutonic friend of the opposite sex. If you were single would you "get" with them?

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    • Posts: 84
      Only if he could spell.
    • Posts: 1,221 Member
      Only if he could spell.
      Platonic. How's that?
    • Posts: 84
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      Platonic. How's that?

      Much better, thank you. :bigsmile:
    • Posts: 298 Member
      Already did. We've been together 2 years :)
    • Posts: 506 Member
      Obviously that would depend on the person. As a general rule, I don't "get" with anyone I am not in a monogamous relationship with.
    • Posts: 190
      I have some friends who are girls I would not. Others I would in a second. :) I guess it's whether I find them attractive or not. lol
    • Posts: 448 Member
      I would and have, but it depends on him and on our chemistry.

      Also, there are plenty of people out there who would get with friends of the same sex. Heterosexism ain't cool :wink:
    • Posts: 1,221 Member
      I would and have, but it depends on him and on our chemistry.

      Also, there are plenty of people out there who would get with friends of the same sex. Heterosexism ain't cool :wink:
      This is true and I am not. However, the poll wouldn't make sense.
    • Posts: 330 Member
      YES! I have some really HOT MFP female friends I would get with lmbo. Mainly to get bodies like theirs but they HOT so most aren't single anyway lmao.
    • Posts: 2,262 Member
      It depends.. Last time I did that it didn't go so well lol
    • Posts: 321 Member
      if i had an attractive friend who wanted to get with me in a relationship? HELLS YEAH!
    • Posts: 283 Member
      I have a friend, and we have "hooked up" for lack of better terms off and on for 18 years. Sometimes we are strictly platonic sometimes we have had more of an emotional affair/relationship, sometimes we have been . . .
    • Posts: 105 Member
      Nope, not unless I want to risk losing th friend in the long run... :)
    • Posts: 904 Member
      Yeah, my boyfriend was my friend for 6 years, best friends for 3, in that time he was even married they then split up, I'd been in and out of relationships and had never really thought of him romantically. He convinced me it was a good idea and we've been together for nearly 3 years.

      It does feel a bit weird sometimes.
    • Posts: 338 Member
      Ever hear the expression "you don't *kitten* where you eat"? Getting laid is easy enough without ruining a friendship.
    • Posts: 2,916 Member
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      Platonic. How's that?

      better, since I don't have any friends from Pluto :)))))

      sorry...had to be said. :bigsmile:
    • Posts: 608 Member
      Hypothetically, if I were single: sure, if I was reasonably attracted AND if I was sure it was just a FWB situation for both of us.
    • Posts: 92
      It depends. I'll think about it.
    • Posts: 307
      If I had no feelings for them than I'm not just going to 'get' with them just because they're there lol
    • Posts: 889 Member
      Not a chance. Why destroy a friendship? Becoming a couple is one thing, but just "getting with" is entirely different.

      Even becoming a couple can ruin a good friendship, for that matter, but at least that might be worth the risk.
    • Posts: 1,497 Member
      Plutonic friends are outta this world. Yes, maybe.
    • Posts: 1,005 Member
      if i had an attractive friend who wanted to get with me in a relationship? HELLS YEAH!

      i love this answer. i don't do one night stands and never have sad but true
    • Posts: 6,063 Member
      It would depend on the friend. A couple of them I would some I see too much as friends.
    • Posts: 88 Member
      YES! My ex and I were friends first and we were together for 3 years. I've also 'hooked up' with a few friends and not had it affect our friendship! I'd rather sleep with a friend that I trust than have a one night stand with a random!
    • Posts: 190 Member
      I have before but we ended up dating but I don't know if I would go down that road again. It was my best relationship ever but I miss him as a friend.
    • Posts: 1,115 Member
      No. I like my guy friends but in a strictly platonic way.
    • Posts: 668 Member
      I'm bisexual and would not get with a close friend of the same or opposite sex. If I see them as a close friend, they're like my brother or sister. I can see them as attractive people but not attractive in a I would like to see your clothes off kind of way.
    • Posts: 1,842 Member
      All you people saying 'no' dont have pretty enough friends.

      Roll into one of your sexy male/female celeb threads and try tellin me youd turn down one of them if you were platonic.

      Hurts so good, eh Mellencamp
    • Posts: 282
      Its usually not a good idea. Most of my friends are females. Fwb has happened a couple times, and I lost a really good friend one of those times. I think if you're going to start that situation, you have to talk a lot first & have a plan for how things will work & end.
    • Posts: 231 Member
      Not with a male friend, but maybe with a female friend. And even then, only if both of us were single. Or if not, then she'd have to be willing to have my boyfriend join in rsrsrsrs. Also, lots of alcohol would likely have to be involved rsrs.
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