Boys vs Girls-Would u get with your friend?

BIGJIMMYU
BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
edited November 11 in Chit-Chat
I can almost guarantee the votes will be more yes for men and no for women. You have a plutonic friend of the opposite sex. If you were single would you "get" with them?
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  • _greeneyedgirl_
    _greeneyedgirl_ Posts: 84
    Only if he could spell.
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
    Only if he could spell.
    Platonic. How's that?
  • _greeneyedgirl_
    _greeneyedgirl_ Posts: 84
    Only if he could spell.
    Platonic. How's that?

    Much better, thank you. :bigsmile:
  • danibabs
    danibabs Posts: 298 Member
    Already did. We've been together 2 years :)
  • Anomalia
    Anomalia Posts: 506 Member
    Obviously that would depend on the person. As a general rule, I don't "get" with anyone I am not in a monogamous relationship with.
  • lilfurson
    lilfurson Posts: 190
    I have some friends who are girls I would not. Others I would in a second. :) I guess it's whether I find them attractive or not. lol
  • alyson820
    alyson820 Posts: 448 Member
    I would and have, but it depends on him and on our chemistry.

    Also, there are plenty of people out there who would get with friends of the same sex. Heterosexism ain't cool :wink:
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
    I would and have, but it depends on him and on our chemistry.

    Also, there are plenty of people out there who would get with friends of the same sex. Heterosexism ain't cool :wink:
    This is true and I am not. However, the poll wouldn't make sense.
  • MrsFelton2010
    MrsFelton2010 Posts: 339 Member
    YES! I have some really HOT MFP female friends I would get with lmbo. Mainly to get bodies like theirs but they HOT so most aren't single anyway lmao.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    It depends.. Last time I did that it didn't go so well lol
  • BandForAlyAnne
    BandForAlyAnne Posts: 321 Member
    if i had an attractive friend who wanted to get with me in a relationship? HELLS YEAH!
  • HWeatherholt
    HWeatherholt Posts: 283 Member
    I have a friend, and we have "hooked up" for lack of better terms off and on for 18 years. Sometimes we are strictly platonic sometimes we have had more of an emotional affair/relationship, sometimes we have been . . .
  • Zodiacsmom
    Zodiacsmom Posts: 105 Member
    Nope, not unless I want to risk losing th friend in the long run... :)
  • mixedfeelings
    mixedfeelings Posts: 904 Member
    Yeah, my boyfriend was my friend for 6 years, best friends for 3, in that time he was even married they then split up, I'd been in and out of relationships and had never really thought of him romantically. He convinced me it was a good idea and we've been together for nearly 3 years.

    It does feel a bit weird sometimes.
  • cruiseking
    cruiseking Posts: 338 Member
    Ever hear the expression "you don't *kitten* where you eat"? Getting laid is easy enough without ruining a friendship.
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    Only if he could spell.
    Platonic. How's that?

    better, since I don't have any friends from Pluto :)))))

    sorry...had to be said. :bigsmile:
  • kunibob
    kunibob Posts: 608 Member
    Hypothetically, if I were single: sure, if I was reasonably attracted AND if I was sure it was just a FWB situation for both of us.
  • yag1630
    yag1630 Posts: 92
    It depends. I'll think about it.
  • samcee
    samcee Posts: 307
    If I had no feelings for them than I'm not just going to 'get' with them just because they're there lol
  • quietlywinning
    quietlywinning Posts: 889 Member
    Not a chance. Why destroy a friendship? Becoming a couple is one thing, but just "getting with" is entirely different.

    Even becoming a couple can ruin a good friendship, for that matter, but at least that might be worth the risk.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    Plutonic friends are outta this world. Yes, maybe.
  • mikey1976
    mikey1976 Posts: 1,005 Member
    if i had an attractive friend who wanted to get with me in a relationship? HELLS YEAH!

    i love this answer. i don't do one night stands and never have sad but true
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    It would depend on the friend. A couple of them I would some I see too much as friends.
  • rachcamp88
    rachcamp88 Posts: 88 Member
    YES! My ex and I were friends first and we were together for 3 years. I've also 'hooked up' with a few friends and not had it affect our friendship! I'd rather sleep with a friend that I trust than have a one night stand with a random!
  • Sunscreenandsweat
    Sunscreenandsweat Posts: 190 Member
    I have before but we ended up dating but I don't know if I would go down that road again. It was my best relationship ever but I miss him as a friend.
  • foremant86
    foremant86 Posts: 1,115 Member
    No. I like my guy friends but in a strictly platonic way.
  • woou
    woou Posts: 668 Member
    I'm bisexual and would not get with a close friend of the same or opposite sex. If I see them as a close friend, they're like my brother or sister. I can see them as attractive people but not attractive in a I would like to see your clothes off kind of way.
  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
    All you people saying 'no' dont have pretty enough friends.

    Roll into one of your sexy male/female celeb threads and try tellin me youd turn down one of them if you were platonic.

    Hurts so good, eh Mellencamp
  • jwalker30
    jwalker30 Posts: 282
    Its usually not a good idea. Most of my friends are females. Fwb has happened a couple times, and I lost a really good friend one of those times. I think if you're going to start that situation, you have to talk a lot first & have a plan for how things will work & end.
  • kittenmitton
    kittenmitton Posts: 231 Member
    Not with a male friend, but maybe with a female friend. And even then, only if both of us were single. Or if not, then she'd have to be willing to have my boyfriend join in rsrsrsrs. Also, lots of alcohol would likely have to be involved rsrs.
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