Okay, guys, I need your feedback on Leap Day tradtion...

jcstanton
jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
Okay, so there's this guy I've been crushing on for a while now. I don't really know him very well and I don't see him very often, but from what I have seen, he seems like a really nice guy. I'd really like to get to know him better, but I'm not very bold when it comes to talking to men. I'm very old-fashioned in that I prefer to let the guy take the lead. On the rare occasions that I do see him, it's usually on Wednesday afternoons. Today is Wednesday and also Leap Day. Traditionally on Leap Day, the gender tables are turned and the woman takes the lead (usually regarding marriage proposals, but I think some people apply it to dating roles as well). I just would like to know what you guys would think if I came up to you and said, "In keeping with Leap Day tradition, I'd like ask you a question. If you're not already spoken for, may I have your phone number?" Would you be okay with that, or would it make you think I was a total nutcase? Like I said, I've never been one to make the initial approach so I'm totally clueless as to what's acceptable and what's not. Of course, this could be for naught anyway...he could be married for all I know. I've never seen him wear a wedding ring, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything these days. Anyway, your constructive criticism or helpful advice would be appreciated. Thanks. :smile:

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  • KJVBear33
    KJVBear33 Posts: 628 Member
    Okay, so there's this guy I've been crushing on for a while now. I don't really know him very well and I don't see him very often, but from what I have seen, he seems like a really nice guy. I'd really like to get to know him better, but I'm not very bold when it comes to talking to men. I'm very old-fashioned in that I prefer to let the guy take the lead. On the rare occasions that I do see him, it's usually on Wednesday afternoons. Today is Wednesday and also Leap Day. Traditionally on Leap Day, the gender tables are turned and the woman takes the lead (usually regarding marriage proposals, but I think some people apply it to dating roles as well). I just would like to know what you guys would think if I came up to you and said, "In keeping with Leap Day tradition, I'd like ask you a question. If you're not already spoken for, may I have your phone number?" Would you be okay with that, or would it make you think I was a total nutcase? Like I said, I've never been one to make the initial approach so I'm totally clueless as to what's acceptable and what's not. Of course, this could be for naught anyway...he could be married for all I know. I've never seen him wear a wedding ring, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything these days. Anyway, your constructive criticism or helpful advice would be appreciated. Thanks. :smile:

    I would just go up and ask........they know its leap day..........so just buck up your courage, ask if they'd like to go for coffee or dinner ect, and get to know them. If he's married or has a girlfriend he'll let you know. And most guys that I have known, are pretty good at being nice with whatever their response back is.......just do it cause life is way too short!!

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  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,786 Member
    Go for it.
  • cantjustcant
    cantjustcant Posts: 1,027 Member
    or propose and then say or just go out with me we can discuss marriage next leap year....you will either get a date or a restraining order!
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    Great lead in, take the LEAP (tongue in cheek). :love:
  • kandrews24
    kandrews24 Posts: 610 Member
    I like it. Definately go for it. Truly, you have nothing to lose. But your pick up line needs some work.

    How about:

    "Hi, forgive me for being so bold, but I've been wanting to ask you for your phone number for quite a while, assuming you aren't taken, of course. It is leap year, after all."

    Let us know how it goes :blushing:

    You can do this!
  • ket_the_jet
    ket_the_jet Posts: 1,257 Member
    It's 2012. You don't need for it to be a specific day to take a chance.
    -wtk
  • LuckyLeprechaun
    LuckyLeprechaun Posts: 6,296 Member
    Go big! Do it.

    Worst possible outcome? He screams out loud, and runs in the opposite direction. Which is NOT very likely, eh?

    Best possible outcome? You have an adorable "how we met" story to tell your kids.

    Likely outcome? You get his number!
  • atsteele
    atsteele Posts: 1,358 Member
    Okay, so there's this guy I've been crushing on for a while now. I don't really know him very well and I don't see him very often, but from what I have seen, he seems like a really nice guy. I'd really like to get to know him better, but I'm not very bold when it comes to talking to men. I'm very old-fashioned in that I prefer to let the guy take the lead. On the rare occasions that I do see him, it's usually on Wednesday afternoons. Today is Wednesday and also Leap Day. Traditionally on Leap Day, the gender tables are turned and the woman takes the lead (usually regarding marriage proposals, but I think some people apply it to dating roles as well). I just would like to know what you guys would think if I came up to you and said, "In keeping with Leap Day tradition, I'd like ask you a question. If you're not already spoken for, may I have your phone number?" Would you be okay with that, or would it make you think I was a total nutcase? Like I said, I've never been one to make the initial approach so I'm totally clueless as to what's acceptable and what's not. Of course, this could be for naught anyway...he could be married for all I know. I've never seen him wear a wedding ring, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything these days. Anyway, your constructive criticism or helpful advice would be appreciated. Thanks. :smile:

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    I've never heard of the tradition of reversing gender roles on Leap Day but I say go for it!! Even if he is spoken for, I'm sure that he will be flattered. :)
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    Okay, so there's this guy I've been crushing on for a while now. I don't really know him very well and I don't see him very often, but from what I have seen, he seems like a really nice guy. I'd really like to get to know him better, but I'm not very bold when it comes to talking to men. I'm very old-fashioned in that I prefer to let the guy take the lead. On the rare occasions that I do see him, it's usually on Wednesday afternoons. Today is Wednesday and also Leap Day. Traditionally on Leap Day, the gender tables are turned and the woman takes the lead (usually regarding marriage proposals, but I think some people apply it to dating roles as well). I just would like to know what you guys would think if I came up to you and said, "In keeping with Leap Day tradition, I'd like ask you a question. If you're not already spoken for, may I have your phone number?" Would you be okay with that, or would it make you think I was a total nutcase? Like I said, I've never been one to make the initial approach so I'm totally clueless as to what's acceptable and what's not. Of course, this could be for naught anyway...he could be married for all I know. I've never seen him wear a wedding ring, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything these days. Anyway, your constructive criticism or helpful advice would be appreciated. Thanks. :smile:

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    I've never heard of the tradition of reversing gender roles on Leap Day but I say go for it!! Even if he is spoken for, I'm sure that he will be flattered. :)

    Ever watched the movie Leap Year? That's what the whole movie is based upon.
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    or propose and then say or just go out with me we can discuss marriage next leap year....you will either get a date or a restraining order!

    You totally crack me up! :laugh:
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    Okay, so I totally had myself psyched up to talk to him today, but things did not go according to plan. :frown: I saw him at the usual place, but he was leaving as I was going in and I was on the phone with my mom at the time. :grumble: He did make a point to give me a little wave and a smile, though. Made my heart do a little flippy flop. :blushing: I felt like a little girl with a school yard crush. LOL
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Did you do it?? Sounds like a cute tradition. I could never be that bold but I admire women who are. (I just texted a guy and believe me that's a big deal.)

    ETA - Just saw your post and aw dang!
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,434 Member
    Shucks and dang it!!! now you gotta wait 4 more years!!! :sad: lol!!! hey, he noticed you!!!:love:

    I did it...:flowerforyou: he probably thinks it's a joke... tho' I did it as such because I know how he is... I text'd him this morning... no response... :ohwell:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member

    I did it...:flowerforyou: he probably thinks it's a joke... tho' I did it as such because I know how he is... I text'd him this morning... no response... :ohwell:

    Don't worry I texted a guy today too and I got nothing back, and now I'm regretting it!
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