Have Horrible Anxiety Need Help Fixing

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  • hellokittiexx
    hellokittiexx Posts: 6 Member
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    I was glad to see this post because anxiety is all too familiar! I was diagnosed with PTSD and as a result had panic attacks that left me in the ER 110% sure I was dying! I've gone through more tests than I care to remember most neurological and everything came back fine so that's when I got my diagnosis. I've tried group therapy and was on Prozac for about 7 months that caused quite a bit of weight gain so once I found a good therapist I was able to get off the medication and made up my mind to get healthy mentally and physically! I still have moments of anxiety and times when I feel a panic attack coming but I've learned a lot of ways to help myself.

    This is actually, ironically, my first post here and I've been using my fitness pal for a while now but I felt I had to contribute since anxiety became a very big part of my life over the past year and it was actually very comforting to see there are others here not only battling anxiety but also weight loss! Especially considering how alone anxiety and panic attacks can make you feel. I feel like I've come to the right place for support, more than i even thought! I'm still new to this site but anyone who would want to add me please do so I think it would me amazing having buddies who understand. :)
  • gina1971
    gina1971 Posts: 71 Member
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    I also have panic disorder since a bad experience. I would suggest seeing a therapist that has experience in cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). CBT can help you work through your attacks and the therapist should be able to guide you and help determine what your triggers are. Medications are also an option. I take Lexapro daily and Xanax as needed for more severe attacks. I've been taking Lexapro for 2 years and I hope to one day be able to manage my attacks through CBT without medication. So far, I have not had to take the Xanax in almost a year so I can see improvement in managing my attacks.

    My thoughts are with you. Know that you are not alone and there are treatment options.
  • crazy4him4552
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    I have. When I got a diagnosis of Panic Attacks, I googled everything I could find on it. Everything from Aspartame consumption to Hormones to Mitral Valve Prolapse could cause them. I started jotting down the times and dates I would get them, and come to find out. It may be a Hormonal thing. Lucky me....NOT :-( After showing my journal to my doctor, he agreed that it could be PMS. Well, I said it had to be a severe case of it. He never agreed to it being Pre-Menopause. Which, I tend to believe rather than PMS.
    I do plan on talking to my Cardiologist on my next check up. I really pray that I don't have any more attacks. They are really freaky.
  • crazy4him4552
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    oops. I was trying to reply to CruiseKing, but I guess I haven't figured out how to do that.
    My last entry was in response to CruiseKing asking me about Anxiety and Mitral Valve Prolapse

    :-)
  • Megclark37
    Megclark37 Posts: 111
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    I'm in the same situation- honestly the best thing to do is to KEEP YOURSELF BUSY. The more off time you have the more chance you'll start getting anxious. Also, cardio has helped me out a ton- it's the only thing that really gets everything off of my mind. If nothing works you may want to try taking medication: I started a year ago- works WONDERS!
  • zasiiniya
    zasiiniya Posts: 100 Member
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    I Recently had an incident happen to me and caused to give me Horrible anxiety and havnt been able to cope with it much ive tried some meditation and that helped but wanna know if anyone else on here Deals with This every single day like i do.........my incident made me feel like i was dying
    I experienced an event that gave me PTSD. It's now been more than 3 1/2 years and I still get triggered by certain things (unfortunately things that I see in every day life, especially in media). So I think about the event basically daily, whether I want to or not. I've gone to 2 school counselors and a psychologist and though it's gotten better, it still just really sucks and it's not gone. (According to the psych, it can never be actually gone, just lessened so the images aren't as emotionally painful.)

    So yep. I know that feeling...
  • MaryDreamer
    MaryDreamer Posts: 439
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    Finally got on meds here. Have been on my daily pill for 3 yrs now. I was at my wits end, last straw. I tried natural/herbal remedies first but unfortunately nothing worked.I get my prescription from my Internist. She has them herself and is on the same med so she understands. Best wishes dont wait much longer mine got worse as I got older.
  • Trophyyf
    Trophyyf Posts: 218 Member
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    I have anxiety bad for a number of reasons. I had a traumatic event happen a long time ago which seems to be the root cause of my anxiety and it just has gotten worse over the years of not dealing with it.

    I can tell you that you can take every medication in the world and they are most likely going to make you gain weight and also feel tired all the time. What helps me now is exercise exercise exercise. My doc use to tell me that but I was on so much medication I didn't have the energy. Well I stopped the meds and now I exercise all the time and I feel sooooooo much better. Although I find I have a lot of anxiety when I sleep because I clinch and grind my teeth bad and always wake up with a headache now. I could take medication to help me relax when I sleep but then I wake up all tired. So I just deal with it. It's much better then it use to be when I wasn't exercising.
  • abbigail_r
    abbigail_r Posts: 283 Member
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    I had panic attacks everyday for about a yr. i went to a therapist they explained self talk and I learned right away how to talk myself out of them. occasionally they still get out of hand but not so bad and it really worked. If you are spiritual at all I suggest praying to God or reading the bible, that worked for me also.
  • SkinnyShadow
    SkinnyShadow Posts: 106 Member
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    Something that really helped me... vitamins. lol, seriously though. Especially the B vitamins. When I am regularly taking my "100B complex" I never get anxiety.. and I used to get it really bad. I've been in emerg on a few occasions thinking I was going to die - lol, I "knew" it was a panic attack, but it still ~felt~ like I was dying, and whatever, if my body is telling me that I'm dying, I'm going to do something about it :ohwell:
  • Jme2012
    Jme2012 Posts: 106 Member
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    My cardiologist also linked it to mitro valve and woman with anxiety. I didnt want to take meds so I try to refocus and sip ICE COLD water, I read this is an old Japanese technique to calm down woman. It may be mind over matter but I feel so much better when Im sipping that ICE water , sipping not gulping.... also was told it was Reflux that made me feel that my heart was racing which made me panic. Also taking a nice relaxing walk always helps so does reading. Hope this helps.
  • AvonLucyR
    AvonLucyR Posts: 124 Member
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    I have suffered anxiety and depression since childhood after repeated sexual attacks and abuse. I have been treated for anxiety for 35 years. I haven't had a serious panic attack for 30 years and I have been through some pretty traumatic experiences. There are definitely many answers for it. Yes, panic attacks can make you feel like you are dying. There are many different relaxation methods they can teach you and psychotherapy techniques that can help. If you need it, there are also medications. Exercise can help reduce anxiety, too. I find long quiet walks were probably one of the best things for me, but I also have been on medicines for many years. I have reduced the amount of medication with the doctor's help because they can be so addictive and they can make you lose your inhabitions. Please get some help...you never need to suffer another severe attack! I know many people who were treated early on who have been able to take care of it with all natural treatment, obviously the best choice. Best wishes to you. Know you will get past it and you can live a "normal" life. :flowerforyou:
  • babslulu
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    I had anxiety attacks that started when i was 13 yrs old. Felt like I couldn't breathe which made me hyperventilate until I actually passed out a few times. What helped me was to breathe into a paper bag; Breathe IN slowly thru your nose, nice and slow and deep then Purse your lips into a very small opening And Very SLOWLY breathe OUT thru your mouth. After a few minutes you'll equalize your blood gasses and start to feel calmer. While u do this be sure to tell yourself that you are going to be OK and think calming thoughts. I actually repeated in my head, "Calm---Calm---Calm." Keep the paper bag over your nose + mouth while u do this. Eventually u can cup your hands over nose + mouth and breathe into them. I went on to have a career as a hospital nurse + didn't have to resort to anti-anxiety meds. If this doesn't help then by all means go see your doctor! There are many ways to treat anxiety + meds are helpful for many people. Good luck to you and don't give up, get help.
  • JonGrandi88
    JonGrandi88 Posts: 137
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    I Would Love to thank every single one of you who posted on here and it makes me feel at ease that i am not an only person in this fight against this disorder.......I will put every ones opinions to great use........i dont think there really is anything linked to my anxiety which is strange when i first got it honestly......i was home alone kinda depressed bc of relationship problem so i decided to smoke marijuana and actually remember eating crappy mcdonalds before than(havnt eaten since:smile: ) and like literall 5 minutes later my heart raced and i was going insane pacing back and forth thinkinh i was having a heart attack bc of the mcdonalds so i called my friend over a 1a.m. he arrived but i had to call my gf and tell her to dial 911 for me right away my friend tried calming me down and told me im not having a heart attack im just having a horrible reaction to the weed bc a. it was laced or b. i have not smoked in soooooo long my heart started to race right away.........so ever since that night i havnt been the same
  • SilentRenegade
    SilentRenegade Posts: 245 Member
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    I feel your pain... my first severe one was very frightening and they still are because they are so sudden!

    I was diagnosed with having severe panic attacks about 2 months ago. My Dr. gave me Lorazepam, but I didn't think I needed them (I am not a meds person..). However, when school started up again, they got worse, so I did start taking it and it made me feel better at first.... I would have them multiple times a day, it was affecting my job and I even would try to find new ways to drive to work or school because I was scared to death of going down the highway. I also went to the emergency room at one point because I seriously thought I was having a heart attack.

    I also have suffered from depression throughout my life and have found ways to cope with it. Keeping yourself busy is very important... but obviously not to the point of burnout or stressing out horribly.

    I was put on a leave of absence because my manager said I was acting in "ghost mode," as in, I wasn't "me" anymore because of this. He understood, though, because he suffered from them and he is coping with the fact that his 9 year old son has them as well. It has helped tremendously to exercise every day, and I am also going to counseling.

    I was taken off of Lorazepam because I was having some pretty strange side affects from it (not eating, feeling sick and tired all the time, and my depression came back out of nowhere). Right now I am not taking anything. Instead I am writing a lot of what I feel down and reading it over later so I can try and figure out what caused it. Exercising has helped tremendously as well.

    As for my driving, I get in my car now and drive randomly and tell myself this mantra "You are in control of the car, you own it. This car does not control you." And I do some slow, deep breathing exercises, and in the last few days I haven't had a really hard time driving.

    I have not completely gotten over them, and as my manager told me, you live with anxiety forever, but you learn how to control it to an extent... You can retrain your mind. Think of dieting in a sense.. it's a lifestyle change. You must train your mind to eat healthy for a lifetime, not just while trying to lose weight. You also must train your mind to learn to cope with the attacks.
  • cruiseking
    cruiseking Posts: 338 Member
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    I Would Love to thank every single one of you who posted on here and it makes me feel at ease that i am not an only person in this fight against this disorder.......I will put every ones opinions to great use........i dont think there really is anything linked to my anxiety which is strange when i first got it honestly......i was home alone kinda depressed bc of relationship problem so i decided to smoke marijuana and actually remember eating crappy mcdonalds before than(havnt eaten since:smile: ) and like literall 5 minutes later my heart raced and i was going insane pacing back and forth thinkinh i was having a heart attack bc of the mcdonalds so i called my friend over a 1a.m. he arrived but i had to call my gf and tell her to dial 911 for me right away my friend tried calming me down and told me im not having a heart attack im just having a horrible reaction to the weed bc a. it was laced or b. i have not smoked in soooooo long my heart started to race right away.........so ever since that night i havnt been the same
    This is why I don't smoke 420. I would have to lock myself in a closet until the buzz subsided. My drug of choice is Irish Whiskey now.
  • SilentRenegade
    SilentRenegade Posts: 245 Member
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    I Would Love to thank every single one of you who posted on here and it makes me feel at ease that i am not an only person in this fight against this disorder.......I will put every ones opinions to great use........i dont think there really is anything linked to my anxiety which is strange when i first got it honestly......i was home alone kinda depressed bc of relationship problem so i decided to smoke marijuana and actually remember eating crappy mcdonalds before than(havnt eaten since:smile: ) and like literall 5 minutes later my heart raced and i was going insane pacing back and forth thinkinh i was having a heart attack bc of the mcdonalds so i called my friend over a 1a.m. he arrived but i had to call my gf and tell her to dial 911 for me right away my friend tried calming me down and told me im not having a heart attack im just having a horrible reaction to the weed bc a. it was laced or b. i have not smoked in soooooo long my heart started to race right away.........so ever since that night i havnt been the same
    This is why I don't smoke 420. I would have to lock myself in a closet until the buzz subsided. My drug of choice is Irish Whiskey now.

    Alcohol is interesting for me now that I've developed the anxiety issues. Sometimes I will be fine and it'll be like any night of drinking. Other times I will freak out the next day because I keep thinking I forgot the night. This is a new thing for me, so I haven't really been drinking, though it was at one point in my life quite a hobby to go out and live it up. I also find I "black out" a lot more and a lot easier too. So I am very careful with it.

    Also note that if you're ever put on anti-anxiety meds, you shouldn't drink anyway... I am off of them now so I may feel more comfortable drinking again, but I'm still giving it some time. And no, I did not drink that much while on them, I pretty much drank water while everybody else was living it up out of the bottle of wine, which kind of sucked. What I mean is that even before the meds I was having a problem with alcohol, and would almost always have an attack the next morning :(