My Husband...my boyfriend

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  • sherrirb
    sherrirb Posts: 1,649 Member
    This is soo cool!

    I think somewhere in the time you put on the weight, you BOTH forgot about the "sexiness" that you saw in each other. Now that you are losing weight for yourself AND your family, he is seeing the progress and the hard work you are putting into this.

    He's seeing the sexy you again! The more you lose, the MORE the two of you can enjoy your marriage and life together and the MORE things you can DO together!

    Congratulations on your AWESOME NSV!! Keep up the hard work lady, you are TOTALLY worth it!!
  • wickedcricket
    wickedcricket Posts: 1,246 Member
    that's wonderful and sounds like you hit the jackpot. I am not so lucky in love but I'm still on a mission to be the best me I can be.
    Great that you have such support at home
  • russellma
    russellma Posts: 284 Member
    I love this! My husband is the same way! Congrats and keep up the good work!
  • mom2mozart
    mom2mozart Posts: 307 Member
    So sweet... I'm glad that he is being supportive and encouraging your children to recognize your efforts.

    My husband is wonderful too. Never complained about my weight (which I gained with each of 5 pregnancies - and it took time for it to come off each time). He is always supportive, saying that I'm beautiful. But, I notice that he is really appreciating my efforts to get us healthier. He said although he is not losing weight like I am, he feels much better - has more energy and doesn't feel like he is swollen from water retention. I'm watching my sodium (which means - he is too)... I've been cooking and giving him left-overs for lunch. It is also saving us money - not having to buy take-out every day for lunch.

    This is not just about us, it makes a difference for our families as well.

    Thank you for sharing.
  • Cobb_66
    Cobb_66 Posts: 65 Member
    Oh my goodness is it bad that that made me tear up a bit? I don't know you or your husband, but you have certainly found an amazing man.
    It's so nice to hear when the male in the relationship is supportive like this. We all know how most men are visual creatures, so when they put that aside because they truly love us, it makes it that much sweeter.
    SO happy for you!! And keep up the good work!! (The way I see it, good men deserve to have a woman looking her best - that's part of my motivation. My boyfriend is some kind of angel - I didn't think they made men like that anymore haha)
  • Lary_babe
    Lary_babe Posts: 47 Member
    That is so amazing! Good to know there are men like that out there. What a beautiful family you have- you are truly blessed among women- not many ladies can say the same. I hope I marry that type of man someday!
  • ryanpayne4
    ryanpayne4 Posts: 64 Member
    My husband and I have been married for many, many, MANY years...he's always been so good to me, always. Even as my weight ballooned up and up and UP over the years (after we started having children late in life), he's never criticized nor really complained about my looks and always brought home my favorites chocolates, goodies and all kinds of fattening treats for me, because he knew I loved them. He's (of course) still almost the exact same slim and trim size and as handsome as when we were in High School, and looks even better now then he did way back when. Even though he's my husband, I've always called him my "boyfriend" too.

    Well, things are changing in him, something fabulous these days of my shrinking. He's telling me things that he NEVER has before, although he never complained about my weight, he never really verbally expressed himself the way he's been doing everyday now. He's now telling me things that are so tender and encouraging and romantic. He's really acting like the childhood sweetheart that he was many moons ago, and it's mind blowing and sooooo terrific. He and the family have totally forsaken the ways of our past S.A.D. Diet (Standard American Diet) and are eating healthy and going along with tasting, eating and drinking the "weird" stuff I am. He's no longer bringing home "baddies/so-called goodies" and treats anymore and is now bringing home my new love goodies (Organic fruits and veggies and healthy stuff for me and HIM and the kids)!!!!!

    I heard him tell the children last night, (I went to bed while they watched a movie) "mommy's on a mission and we all have to do everything in our power to help mom out more and more around here and make her life easier so that she can concentrate more on what's she's doing and to keep her happy as we can and at peace because SHE"S REALLY LOOKING GOOD".

    WHAT?????? Even though I've been I call my husband my boyfriend for years, he's really more and more turning into my boyfriend and I LOVE IT!!!! Wow, this lifestyle change is bringing in tremendous benefit, far more than kicking ugly excess pounds and inches to the pit where they belong, but also PEACE and LOVE is coming right along with it--WOA, that's a super duper NSV for and to me.


    That's so awesome. Thanks for sharing.
  • grumpy2day
    grumpy2day Posts: 198 Member
    What a wonderful love you have!! Cherish it always, and personally I would probably change it to lover/husband!!
  • kwest_4_fitness
    kwest_4_fitness Posts: 820 Member
    Awwww...you got me all misty eyed! What he said to the kids is just fantastic. Congratulations on having a great "boyfriend"! :wink:
  • samanthajshep
    samanthajshep Posts: 14 Member
    Awesome! How great for you both :) glad you have such a supportive hubby, and wishing you many more years of happiness!
  • Rose200
    Rose200 Posts: 48 Member
    I cried when I read that. I love that story.
  • NewLIFEstyle4ME
    NewLIFEstyle4ME Posts: 4,440 Member
    Ya guys know what?!?

    You :heart: :heart: :heart: ALL :heart: :heart: :heart: are also a major contributing factor to the success, inspiration and encouragement of so many. For you ALL to take the love, time and care to post...WOW, that's so beautiful and kind and you guys all are such WINNERS--thank you for sharing my joy, you beautiful people YOU!!


    P.S. :flowerforyou: To you ALL :happy:
  • tkaawa
    tkaawa Posts: 302
    Thankyou very much for sharing....I too have been feeling the same thing too lately..my husband has never complained about my weight gain at all in the 13 years that we've been together..mind you i was a size 1 when we first started dating....but he's stuck by my side the whole way through......but now that i've been losing all the weight, i feel secure and he's been showing me a lot of attention too......Life is good

    but really, such a beautiful story and may you guys continue on this road of happiness and healthy lifestyle...
  • PunkyRachel
    PunkyRachel Posts: 1,959 Member
    You have a great! "boyfriend" I'm glad you have him in your life, cause I know so many women who complain about their man and stuff. I have my complaints for my husband too, but I'm lucky like you and my husband is my high school sweetheart, and even though we've been married almost 8 years, every still says we act like boyfriend and girlfriends. He is praising me and getting me the things he knows I love. Even when I was a size 20 he knew once complained about my weight, Now that I'm a 16 and he knows I'm trying to seriously lose weight. He encourages me and just the other day he put his arm around me in bed, to cuddle and he said he could feel that I'm lose weight. That's the best feeling in the world right there! Like your man, he also swapped my old old favorite sweets, for my new favorite "healthy" snacks. I'm glad someone else is as blessed as me. I let this post get too long. Sorry bout that
  • shygirlnot4u
    shygirlnot4u Posts: 26 Member
    I'm so happy for you! This is great motivation for you to just keep going! I'm lucky enough to have a hubby like yours. and although we dont have children yet, we are really looking forward to it no matter how much weight i gain I know he will love me the same if not more!...
  • daisytripp
    daisytripp Posts: 527 Member
    That is so beautiful that I almost cried. Good for you - and your amazing relationship!
  • Erika_Ecka
    Erika_Ecka Posts: 50 Member
    Awwwwww.... I loved reading this. So cute. :). I'm happy for you.
  • charm_quark
    charm_quark Posts: 315 Member
    Lucky woman!!! Lucky wife, lucky girlfriend, lucky mother!

    You are all this!

    Be proud for you, him and your family!
  • bushidowoman
    bushidowoman Posts: 1,599 Member
    Thank you for sharing this! Yay for boyfriends! :heart:
    I have a very similar experience with my hubby. He has always been loving and affectionate, never complained about my weight, but now that I've gotten lean, the things that he says to me just make me melt! Not only has my increased fitness put a twinkle in his eye, but it has spurred him to start working out as well. All this extra energy between the two of us=more sparks than ever before! Wowza.
  • deedog007
    deedog007 Posts: 89 Member
    bump.. for later
  • FORIANN
    FORIANN Posts: 273 Member
    Wow. This is really really neat. Thanks for sharing. It's nice to hear about two people sharing something this tender and wonderful.
  • beach_chelle
    beach_chelle Posts: 221
    Oh I :cry: there for a moment. That is so incredibly sweet!
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    Just made me happy and gave me some hope back that there are great partners out there somewhere :)
  • jeyko
    jeyko Posts: 368 Member
    What a beautiful story! You are lucky indeed!
  • embersfallen
    embersfallen Posts: 534 Member
    Beautiful!!!! SO sweet what he told your kids too :) You got yourself a good one! so sweet!
  • shutterbug282
    shutterbug282 Posts: 588 Member
    That is so cute!!
    Thank you so much for sharing. :) That's such so sweet.
  • MarilynGrube
    MarilynGrube Posts: 75 Member
    Oh I love your story!!! :flowerforyou:
  • njmp
    njmp Posts: 277 Member
    Sooo sweet. I LOVED this post. Thanks for sharing. Sounds like you found your true love long ago ;)
  • hkulbacki
    hkulbacki Posts: 187 Member
    That's the best thing I've read on these forums in months.
  • luvmycandies
    luvmycandies Posts: 489 Member
    we call each other boyfriend/ girlfriend too. He says its more romantic!
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