When I reach my UGW.....

Hikaru001
Hikaru001 Posts: 52
edited November 12 in Motivation and Support
So, my friend and I have a little motivational tool that we use and I wanted to share it with everyone. We like to go back and forth telling each other what we wanna do, or what we are looking forward to when we reach our Ultimate Goal Weight (UGW).
So, I wanna know what everyone is looking forward to when they reach their UGW too!!! Whether it be a bikini, being lifted off the ground by your hubby, or if your already fit; maybe to see some musle definition!!
Comment below and let everyone know what it is...... GO!!!
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  • Hikaru001
    Hikaru001 Posts: 52
    I am looking forward to wearing American Eagle jeans. I am currently a size 22/24, and AE jeans only go up to 18. I have a pair of size 18s as motivation!!!
  • tageekly
    tageekly Posts: 3,755 Member
    Maybe even before my UGW, I'd like to feel confident enough to wear shorts. I'm not even going to torture myself (or others!) with imagery of a bikini, but I haven't worn shorts since I was a kid. So shorts and tank top this summer! :noway: Ah, that still scares me...
  • kayci5288
    kayci5288 Posts: 22 Member
    :)))) I like this meagerz! The most special thing I am looking forward to is looking HOTT in my wedding dress. But I am also looking forward to wearing a cute swimsuit this year to Galveston or South Padre!!!!!!
  • Hikaru001
    Hikaru001 Posts: 52
    Maybe even before my UGW, I'd like to feel confident enough to wear shorts. I'm not even going to torture myself (or others!) with imagery of a bikini, but I haven't worn shorts since I was a kid. So shorts and tank top this summer! :noway: Ah, that still scares me...

    Yeah shorts!! I wanna wear shorts that actually go above my knee lol! And I've NEVER wore a tank top in public, so that would be nice too!
    Good luck!!
  • Hikaru001
    Hikaru001 Posts: 52
    :)))) I like this meagerz! The most special thing I am looking forward to is looking HOTT in my wedding dress. But I am also looking forward to wearing a cute swimsuit this year to Galveston or South Padre!!!!!!

    Guuuurl, you already look hot in your wedding dress! And yeah, we are gonna look good on the beach this year FO-SHO!
  • whitneyann0
    whitneyann0 Posts: 327 Member
    Maybe even before my UGW, I'd like to feel confident enough to wear shorts. I'm not even going to torture myself (or others!) with imagery of a bikini, but I haven't worn shorts since I was a kid. So shorts and tank top this summer! :noway: Ah, that still scares me...

    I know what you mean!!! I never wear shorts. I have always hated my legs. :( It's really uncomfortable wearing jeans when its 90+ degrees out though. I want to be confident enough to wear shorts in public!
  • MehiraDeOro
    MehiraDeOro Posts: 117 Member
    When I reach my UGW I'm going to try to dress more feminine with things such as skirts and dresses.

    I'm just a regular t-shirt and jeans kind of girl
  • stacymay13
    stacymay13 Posts: 95 Member
    When I reach my UGW I'm going to try to dress more feminine with things such as skirts and dresses.

    I'm just a regular t-shirt and jeans kind of girl

    Same here!!
  • raindropwishes
    raindropwishes Posts: 182
    To hopefully have lost enough weight on my chest to look androgynous and not like a girl trying to cover up massive boobies. :frown:
  • oh_resilience
    oh_resilience Posts: 18 Member
    I hope to be stronger.
    Strong and healthy is the new 'skinny'!
  • JacksMom12
    JacksMom12 Posts: 1,044 Member
    I'm only 3 lbs from my goal, finally... and since I was 200 lbs when I gave birth to my son last may, I was hiding my body all summer long. I can't wait to wear shorts and tank tops this summer!!
  • Moin78
    Moin78 Posts: 41 Member
    I hope I don't reach my UGW before I get pregnant...that's what I'm hoping for. :happy:
  • maranatha777
    maranatha777 Posts: 145
    I'm with you all on the wearing shorts. I haven't worn shorts in years and I am tired of jeans all the time. Also, I would love to wear some pretty sundresses and skirts and not be ashamed of my legs. And ultimately, I want to be smaller than my husband!
  • ariant23
    ariant23 Posts: 161 Member
    When I reach my UGW I'm going to try to dress more feminine with things such as skirts and dresses.

    I'm just a regular t-shirt and jeans kind of girl

    Same here!!

    yup ditto ditto. my hubby misses "girl me" not t-shirt / jeans me. i tried on some of my old stuff the other day, it's better.... baby #2 turns 1 in a month, so i'm trying to be back to my pre baby weight by then, i'm 7 lbs away. i can do it if i quit having off days like today (all my 2 year old wanted to do was snack, so i ended up snacking with her.), i know i can do it. I'm hoping to be at my UGW by our 5 year anniv in lat oct. i'd love to be able to put my wedding dress on (and look hot) just to say hi, and then wear some super sexy clothes on our date weekend we've already started planning.
  • Hikaru001
    Hikaru001 Posts: 52
    Another thing I wanna do is ride amusement park rides. I've been saying for years that I'm afraid- but thats not true.....well maybe a little ;-) . I wanna actually go to six flags when friends invite me, and not skip out because I'll be afraid that I won't fit.
  • SueGremlin
    SueGremlin Posts: 1,066 Member
    Being able to sit with my knees to my chest and breathe at the same time.
  • apilant
    apilant Posts: 87 Member
    I hope to be stronger.
    Strong and healthy is the new 'skinny'!

    this is exactly right! I'm 10 lbs away from my goal and I realized my goal isn't actually a number, but a feeling! I too hope that with the goal weight, also comes a toned and fit lady (that can wear short shorts :-))
  • Hikaru001
    Hikaru001 Posts: 52
    I want to feel confident at all times, not just when I spend hours on my hair and makeup = D
  • Carolynne1
    Carolynne1 Posts: 4
    I want to be able to shop in any regular size store and not have to look for the plus size section!
  • DianeG213
    DianeG213 Posts: 253
    I'm going to get a tatoo. And maybe wear sun dresses.
  • kidakiwi04
    kidakiwi04 Posts: 238
    I want to be able to shop in any regular size store and not have to look for the plus size section!

    This!! A million times this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • leomentlines
    leomentlines Posts: 440 Member
    Haha I never thought of that, but it is a goal of mine too! I haven't worn a tank top (by itself at least) outside somewhere since I was a pre teen. I've always been so self conscious about my old lady hang+stretch marks to wear them. Once I drop enough body fat to show muscle definition, I'll know that I have reached my goal :-)
  • oh_resilience
    oh_resilience Posts: 18 Member
    I hope to be stronger.
    Strong and healthy is the new 'skinny'!

    this is exactly right! I'm 10 lbs away from my goal and I realized my goal isn't actually a number, but a feeling! I too hope that with the goal weight, also comes a toned and fit lady (that can wear short shorts :-))

    Thanks!
    Good luck to you:)
  • fguillory
    fguillory Posts: 291
    I want a demonic back wings tattoo. I also love corsets so I will be wearing more them. After a body lift and probably boob lift I will be wearing a bikini for the first time ever.
  • tashakk86
    tashakk86 Posts: 81
    o i want to wear a bikini for sure!!! just to have more confident in my body would be great
  • kmshred
    kmshred Posts: 393 Member
    i'll be soaking up the sun on a beach in the maldives.
  • lidybug1984
    lidybug1984 Posts: 71 Member
    I can't wait to wear shorts and a tank top, to go for a run and enjoy it, to shop where there are good sales/things that catch my eye rather than just the plus size store. But what I'm most excited for, is to sit in a chair and not have my rear/thighs hang over the edge...!!! It's the little things :)
  • ksmith2187
    ksmith2187 Posts: 53
    Hoping when I reach my UGW that I can stand in front of my partner completely naked for the first time since we have been together (6 years) without the fear that he will vomit and leave me :(

    I'll get there.. physically.. I think mentally its going to take a lot longer though :(

    anywho.. YAY for losing weight
  • ANGIRAMSEY
    ANGIRAMSEY Posts: 2
    I WOULD LIKE TO MAYBE BE COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO TRY TO FIND A DATE (SINCE I PUT ON 70LBS IN 6 MONTHS AFTER MY HYSTERECTOMY IN 07) I HAVE NOT BEEN ASKED OUT NOR HAVE I LOOKED CAUSE I CANT SEE HOW ANYONE COULD SEE ME AS PRETTY IF I DONT MYSELF.... SO MY GOLE IS TO LOSE 50 LBS AND GET A DATE.... LOL I AM JUST STARTING THIS ADVENTURE I HAVE LOST 3 LBS IN 2 WEEKS
  • 7bel0
    7bel0 Posts: 192 Member
    Maybe even before my UGW, I'd like to feel confident enough to wear shorts. I'm not even going to torture myself (or others!) with imagery of a bikini, but I haven't worn shorts since I was a kid. So shorts and tank top this summer! :noway: Ah, that still scares me...

    I know what you mean!!! I never wear shorts. I have always hated my legs. :( It's really uncomfortable wearing jeans when its 90+ degrees out though. I want to be confident enough to wear shorts in public!

    What are shorts again? They're absolutely not in my VOCABULARY at this point in my life. This summer, YES. Hopefully.
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