Stunned expressions regarding my weight loss...

jcstanton
jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
edited November 12 in Success Stories
So, I went to my future sister in law's bridal shower on Sunday afternoon (my brother Sam's fiance, Ashley). Her friends and family haven't seen me since Sam and Ashley's engagement party last spring. I've lost 45lbs and about 3 dress sizes since then. Everyone of them did a double take when they saw me. All afternoon everyone kept saying things like, "Wow! You've really lost some weight! You look great! How much have you lost?" It felt soooo good to get that reaction from people who don't really know me all that well, and who haven't seen me in a year. The whole experience really validated all of the hard work I have put into myself, and it really reiterated to me how much my body has changed in the last year. There's something more valid about getting that kind of response from near strangers. Not that I don't appreciate the kind words and encouragement from my friends and family, and I certainly don't doubt their sincerity. However, it's just that they're my friends and family, they love me, they see me on a regular basis, and I tend to feel like they have rose colored glasses on when it comes to the way I look. When a casual aquaintance who hasn't seen you in a year nearly drops their jaw to the floor, you KNOW it's a genuine, honest reaction. Just makes me want to work that much harder to reach my goal. 45ish pounds down, only 120ish to go! :happy: :drinker:
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  • Jyster
    Jyster Posts: 74 Member
    I like this.
  • JoolieW68
    JoolieW68 Posts: 1,879 Member
    Congratulations!
  • cressievargo
    cressievargo Posts: 392 Member
    Congrats!! =) What a great story !!
  • vjrose
    vjrose Posts: 809 Member
    Gratz and I agree, nothing like startling folks to make you realize you really have changed.
  • karenx30
    karenx30 Posts: 90
    CONGRATULATIONS on your weight loss AND on your great attitude. Keep up the hard work! Its paying off!
  • kathleennf
    kathleennf Posts: 606 Member
    That's awesome! It reminds me of one time a number of years ago when I had lost weight and I went to my brother's house for a party with a bunch of his friends. One of them didn't even recognize me- thought my brother had two sisters!!
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    I like this.

    MEEE TOOOO!!!! :wink: :happy:
  • Nanee24
    Nanee24 Posts: 21 Member
    Awesome story! Congrats on the weight loss! Keep that positive attitude up!
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    That's awesome! It reminds me of one time a number of years ago when I had lost weight and I went to my brother's house for a party with a bunch of his friends. One of them didn't even recognize me- thought my brother had two sisters!!


    Hahaha! Love that! That's the kind of reaction I'm looking forward to getting in a year or so. :happy:
  • katiebythebay
    katiebythebay Posts: 611 Member
    Nicely put and well done!
  • marekdds
    marekdds Posts: 2,233 Member
    Marvelous, congratulations! Feels so good doesn't it. Keep at it, you can do it.
  • bcc112986
    bcc112986 Posts: 362 Member
    That is so great. I cannot wait to make some jaws drop!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    This is lovely. Things like this keep you going, don't they? :smile:
  • onewhodiets
    onewhodiets Posts: 67 Member
    Good stuff! I know what you mean. Good luck in your quest.
  • thatgirl125
    thatgirl125 Posts: 294 Member
    That is awesome! I can only imagine how you feel! Cant wait to see my grandparents in the summer, last summer they said about my son "I hope he has is daddys genes.." : /
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    That is awesome! I can only imagine how you feel! Cant wait to see my grandparents in the summer, last summer they said about my son "I hope he has is daddys genes.." : /

    Awww...I'm sorry they said that to you. That's awful! There's a difference between telling someone the truth they need to hear, and being downright cruel. That was just mean. I hope they feel really foolish when they see your success. :happy: :flowerforyou:
  • Gottastop
    Gottastop Posts: 67 Member
    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS!!!! :heart: :heart: :heart:

    & it's also really encouraging to me because you took it slow. Encouraging to see where I can be later this year.

    GREAT JOB by the way!!!!!!
  • DataBased
    DataBased Posts: 513 Member
    That's so great - you are completely right, too. When people who love you say nice things, we do tend to think "They're just being nice." The confirmation you got by dropping a few jaws is absolutely priceless, and should put a smile on your face whenever you're sweating through your next workout and keep you from thinking about letting up. Well done!
  • JoeD1968
    JoeD1968 Posts: 167
    bravo, nice story!! good motivation
  • MindyG150
    MindyG150 Posts: 1,296 Member
    Love your story, thanks for sharing. And WTG for the hard work!
  • Dixietrink82
    Dixietrink82 Posts: 33 Member
    Awesome! You are an inspiration.
  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    FYI, I should also mention that I have been at a plateau since mid-November due to slow thyroid and insulin resistance. I haven't lost an inch or an ounce since before Thanksgiving.:grumble: Last Wednesday, my PA put me on meds (Synthroid and Metformin) for both conditions. Hopefully, I'll start seeing some results in the next few weeks. I'm really excited. :happy:
  • cantjustcant
    cantjustcant Posts: 1,027 Member
    YOUR STORY MAKES ME HAPPY! XOXO NOW GO GET THAT FIRE DOG!
  • femme62209
    femme62209 Posts: 327 Member
    Congratulations!! I am sure that made you feel so amazing :) Thanks so much for sharing and way to go on your awesome loss!
  • becoming_a_new_me
    becoming_a_new_me Posts: 1,860 Member
    I have always loved the jaw drop reaction! Way to have an awesome warm-fuzzy that will last for DAYS!
  • ResetJen
    ResetJen Posts: 124 Member
    What a wonderful affirmation of all your hard work...and congrats in advance for what is still to come!
  • bethhyg
    bethhyg Posts: 209
    Thanks for sharing your story. I am looking to drop a few jaws myself. I only see my Mom about once a year. So this year, I am wanting that kind of reaction from her as well as some others.
  • Debsredsox
    Debsredsox Posts: 5 Member
    I had a Dr appt today and we were just talking following me weighing in and then it hit her... "wait a minute.. you have lost.... 14 lbs since 6 weeks ago!" Yay... I will be happy when I notice... then again I hear of people who always see themselves bigger... hoping that is not the case. I must say I am thrilled my arms no longer can be confused for thighs... baby steps! Way to go and congrats! Thanks for sharing. Love that about this site... so much inspiration when you need it. :)
  • Gottastop
    Gottastop Posts: 67 Member
    If you have a low thyroid it will take a while for the medicine to kick in (think 4+ weeks) & it might need to be adjusted until your tests are in the 'normal' range. Also if you don't feel right you need to tell your doctor your symptoms so s/he can treat those. I had to find another doctor because I wasn't myself on synthroid but my doctor only wanted to prescribe it. Also there might be a difference for you between synthroid & generic so that is something else to watch for.

    & I Love your dedication!
    FYI, I should also mention that I have been at a plateau since mid-November due to slow thyroid and insulin resistance. I haven't lost an inch or an ounce since before Thanksgiving.:grumble: Last Wednesday, my PA put me on meds (Synthroid and Metformin) for both conditions. Hopefully, I'll start seeing some results in the next few weeks. I'm really excited. :happy:
  • thelassiemickyjames
    thelassiemickyjames Posts: 197
    Great job!!!
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