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strandedj
strandedj Posts: 128
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
How did your last relationship break up? Did you have a face to face breakup or text, fb, phone breakup- be honest it seems like lots of guys don't believe in confrontation. Just going from my daughters and their friends. Maybe they don't choose right.

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  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    Grown "men" do it, too. Frankly, I think if a guy (or girl, for that matter) ends a relationship over the phone, text, or e-mail, you should consider yourself as having dodged a bullet. It shows a weakness of character. The only exception is if it's a long-distance relationship and it simply isn't feasible to see each other in person. In that case, pick up the phone and call. Text and e-mail break-ups are never okay.

    But this is what cell phones and social media have done to society. Guys ask women out via text message all the time, and women seem to be putting up with it, so why should they handle break-ups any differently? Personally, I think it's ridiculous, but I have very traditional values when it comes to male/female relationships.
  • the_journeyman
    the_journeyman Posts: 1,877 Member
    It was phone, initiated by the other party. However, we were able to maintain a friendship and we're both are happily married to other people now so it was supposed to happen.

    JM
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    In person. Every significant relationship of mine has broken up in person.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Have you ever broken up with a woman? They can get kinda crazy!


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  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I purchased advertising space on a billboard.
  • _David_
    _David_ Posts: 476 Member
    Have you ever broken up with a woman? They can get kinda crazy!


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    NOJOKE! They dont mess around
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    My 42 year old ER doctor boyfriend did it via text message.

    I consider that a blessing in disguise.
  • MrsLVF
    MrsLVF Posts: 787 Member
    How did your last relationship break up? Did you have a face to face breakup or text, fb, phone breakup- be honest it seems like lots of guys don't believe in confrontation. Just going from my daughters and their friends. Maybe they don't choose right.

    I moved, & he was served with an order of protection.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Have you ever broken up with a woman? They can get kinda crazy!


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    NOJOKE! They dont mess around

    LOL...I resent this....
  • Spinelli2288
    Spinelli2288 Posts: 188 Member
    I broke it off with the last guy via phone. He worked out of town the last 6 months of our relationship, things started to change, I was positive he was cheating, he said up and down that he wasn't. I broke it off anyway, didn't want the hassle. He tells me two months later that he was going to be a father in four. Apparently he lied about getting his GED too. lol
  • reedkaus
    reedkaus Posts: 250 Member
    i told her face to face that i considered myself single after the way she acted (won't get into details).

    she's still been calling and won't let it go after nearly six months. had to tell her over the phone that we were done for a second time. after 12 ignored calls and 2 voicemails left over the course of 60 minutes i blocked her number
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
    Always has been phone
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