Calling all FT Mom's!
bltmgray
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Not sure if this is in the right place but.....
Today is my last day as a part-time employee, I'm leaving my PT job to got to a full-time job. (Yay me!) I'm very scared that I'm not going to find the time to work-out. It's really freaking me out a bit. I'm not a morning person, so I've never worked out in the morning and I won't be getting home until around 6:30. With dinner, kids homework, lunches and everything else I have to do......How do you FT Mom's out ther do it?
Today is my last day as a part-time employee, I'm leaving my PT job to got to a full-time job. (Yay me!) I'm very scared that I'm not going to find the time to work-out. It's really freaking me out a bit. I'm not a morning person, so I've never worked out in the morning and I won't be getting home until around 6:30. With dinner, kids homework, lunches and everything else I have to do......How do you FT Mom's out ther do it?
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I find it's best to go straight from work or else I will get bogged down with everything at home and I won't exercise then. It's all about getting a schedule and sticking to it. You may have to have a little later dinner but that's how I do it! I find that I may be tired before I go but after I'm done I'm more energized to get all my other after work chores done.0
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You will just have to go after they are in bed or after you other duties are done. Do you have 24 hour access? A lot of people have to work out later in the day and you might meet people in the same role as you. Really concentrate on the weekend to get some really good workouts in, that is what I did when I worked 10 hours days. Kill it on the weekend then you can take time off during the week.0
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I don't work *full* time (usually 25-30 hours a week); however, I am going to college in addition to working; and I'm also a single parent of 3 (ages 7, 6, & 3). So I totally understand. Honestly, I've found that getting up early is the best solution for me. Also, creating workouts that are super intense so I can burn more in less time. Basically I just have to schedule exercise just like I schedule everything else in my life. It's tough, but do-able. good luck!0
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I run/walk on M/W/F at lunch and I go home everday after work and do my workout video before picking up the kids. I wish I could workout before work, but I leave the house by 7 each day. Usually, we are all home for the evening by 6.0
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FT working mom here! There are a few options:
1) Wake up early and go for a run/brisk walk before your kids wake up. You could also exercise to tapes or on the Wii Fit.
2) Go to the gym after work and put your kids in the day care if they're young enough. My little one, Ella, is 2.5, and LOVES the day care at the gym. It's a win win for both of us.
3) Use your lunch hour to walk/run or go to a nearby gym (not sure this would work for you, it doesn't work for me..)
4) Up the ante on the weekends. Use Saturday and Sunday to push yourself and up your burn.
Good luck and congrats on the FT position.0 -
I'm not a morning person either, but if you are able to get to bed at a time where you can get your 7-8 hours of sleep, I say really try to get your workouts in in the morning. I used to do it and suprisely, I really learned to enjoy it. I have to be at work by 7:30, so I was up at 4:15 to workout.0
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I'm a FT mom w/ 4 kids ranging from 3 to 17. There are weeks where my only hope for exercise is on the weekend and I accept that. Now that the weather is nice, I've been using my lunch hour at work to take a walk. At least I'm getting in something. There are some nights where I take 10 minutes and do jumping jacks, etc... too knowing that anything is better than nothing. I tried mornings and it just doesn't work for me. Set realistic goals. You'll figure it out! Just give yourself a little slack while you're adjusting and stay aware. You'll make it!0
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I have a 3 year old, So I found a gym that has kiddie care. I tried to do it at home but you will constantly be interrupted. I work till 4:30, pick up my son, go home, change, snacks, and to the gym by 5:30 pm.
I usually plan our meals on the weekend and prepare as much as possible. We usually don't eat until 7:30 pm and than baths, down time, and bed!!!!0 -
I go after the kids are in bed..I havea 24 hour gym (planet fitness) Makes for a SUPER long day ( up @5am for work.. bed 11pm on gym nights ) But you have to find time for YOU and to be healthy for them0
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I have to wait until everyone else is in bed because I am not a morning person either, and if I can sneak in a walk or something at work, even better. Sometimes I don't want to by the end of the day, but I always feel better after0
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What works for me: I go to a Curves fitness Center 4 blocks away from my job on my lunch hour. I try going 5 times a week, this way I could get in all my exercise before I go home and I have the weekends to do house chores and spend time with the kids.
I tried numerous times to exercise after work and even on the weekends, its all soooooo hard. With the kids and the house chores it leaves hardly anytime. If there is no gym by your work try to power walk on your lunch hour. Maybe this can help during the week and try to sneak in vigiorous workouts on the weekends.0 -
You will probably need time to get used to a new schedule first. Once you have gotten used to your new schedule, you will find that you have to make time for working out. I have a treadmill at home, so I usually get on after I put my son to bed. We usually eat dinner around 6:30 or 7 pm, and then we do homework. My son is only in VPK, so his homework is minimal, though. We usually do reading after homework. Then I let him watch a little tv, while I iron for the next day, pack lunch and spruce up. He gets into the bath around 8, so I usually get on the treadmill around 9pm when I am sure he is asleep--because the treadmill can be a little loud. Once you get used to doing it, it will become more natural and you will find that you rest easier after the workout.0
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Well I am a FT worker...PT step mom. But on the days we have Miss 5yo Princess in Training this is how I make it work. I pick her up from school, run any errands we have. Get home by 430-5ish. (yes it seems early...my FT job is teaching so I start earlier and end earlier) She gets some relaxing time after school to watch TV...I go to another room and do about 30 minutes on one of my exercise DVDs. We then make/eat/clean up from dinner and start winding down for bed. Luckily at 5 we do not have homework yet...but when we do that TV time will likely be homework time.
Since you will get home later...maybe try and start dinner and while it cooks squeeze in some workout time 15-20 minutes and then after dinner get the kids started on homeowrk and get in 15-20 more minutes. I have fallen in love with some DVDs (turbo jams and ripped in 30) that I can easily do at home on the fly.0 -
I am a FT single mom...
1. Do things that allow you to take the kids with you (ride bikes, hike, have a silly dance party, etc.)
2. Walk the mall or your work parking lot on your lunch break
3. Make time for a workout video or Wii Zumba at home after the kids are in bed (you will sleep better this way too)
I love that all of this forces me to be an example to my 7-year-old daughter. She sees me making it a priority and has figured out on her own that it's pretty important. To me, this is the plus-side of being a working Mommy.0 -
I am a single mom of two. I work and go to school full time (online). My days are long but i feel very accomplished in the end. Im up by 430 to get a 30 min workout in and then kids get up at 5 and we all start to get ready for the day. by 7 eveyone is out the door to school and im off to work. At night i get home around 530 and i start dinner (which has already been planned out). we do homework after dinner and play and watch a movie. They are in bed by 830-900 and then it is my time until about 1030 -1100 when i go to bed. I usually get things together for the next day, another workout if im feeling frisky and then i do some reading to relax.0
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on the weekends we are out at the park, going hiking and biking. anything to stay active with them hope this helps0
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I don't work *full* time (usually 25-30 hours a week); however, I am going to college in addition to working; and I'm also a single parent of 3 (ages 7, 6, & 3). So I totally understand. Honestly, I've found that getting up early is the best solution for me. Also, creating workouts that are super intense so I can burn more in less time. Basically I just have to schedule exercise just like I schedule everything else in my life. It's tough, but do-able. good luck!0
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I am lucky in the fact that I have a rec center 3 blocks away so I walk down there on my lunch hour and work out.0
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I work full time and have been a slacker about the gym bc my fiance is deployed so i have more on my plate than my normal schedule but normally it helps that my fiance and i both like to go to the gym together. we go when our daughter is at swim practice and if she doesnt have practice we go right after work and she goes to the child watch. my gym you need to make a "reservation" for child watch so basically if i plan to go i dont think of it as a choice later in the day bc i dont want to call and cancel!0
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I never use to be a morning person----still not actually but I have decided that I HAVE to give myself that 30 min in the morning to take care of me. I am up at 6:15 and get a Jillian workout in (I rotate between 30 day shred, ripped in 30, Biggest Winner) I do this 2 times during the week and on the weekends (both Sat/Sun).
good Luck---make sure to make time for yourself! You deserve it!!!0 -
I try my best to workout in the mornings while everyone is sleep. So I get up at 4am and workout. Yes, I know that is extremely early but if I don't do it at that time then I will have a hard time doing after I get off. I am a single mom of 2 babies that works 8-5. So I can't leave the house to go to the gym. The workouts I do are Turbofire and P90X. Sometimes if I am lucky I can get a 30 minute workout in after I get off before their dad brings them home. So you are going to have a trail period at first to see what time is going to work best for you. Good Luck and Congrats on the Job!!0
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I hit the gym before work. Hit the bed by 9:00 and up at 3:15 AM to go to the gym. I am lucky to have my husband who stays home while our son sleeps. That way I get in my workout and dont miss a second with my son because hes sleeping!0
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Most of the time the only exercise I get in is a walk at lunch! I sometimes try to get up in the mornings and get some Wii time in, but I really count on those lunch time walks.0
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I am at the gym everyday at 5:30 am, at work by 9 am. I'm usually home by 5:30 at night, kid in bed by 8 and I chill for a bit b4 crashing!!
You might not like to wake up in the morning but after a while this is what will give you the energy. I thought I would be more sleepy, but realy i'm WIRED all day! Not only this, but my gym is practically empty at the crack of dawn!!0 -
I'm not a morning person either, but if you are able to get to bed at a time where you can get your 7-8 hours of sleep, I say really try to get your workouts in in the morning. I used to do it and suprisely, I really learned to enjoy it. I have to be at work by 7:30, so I was up at 4:15 to workout.
Same as me. I have to be at work before 7:30, but I get up at 4:20, get to the gym about 15 minutes later. I spend just over an hour there, get home and get in the shower. I'm lucky, husband gets our son up while I'm in the shower and feeds him breakfast while I finish getting ready. Then, I leave with my son at about 6:45 to get to work/school on time. My husband works at a restaurant, so after work/school, my son and I are alone. I cook dinner while he plays around me, then he's in bed by 7:45 (he's 4) and I try to get in bed at 9 to read and turn the light out by 9:30-10pm. It's not hard, once you learn to not bother watching tv! I'm sure this will be harder when my son is older and will start asking to watch shows his friends watch, but I find I don't miss tv. I watch it with my husband when he is home in the evening, but it's rare. I'd like to get a little more sleep, but for now, I nap on the weekends to make up for the slight lack. Oh, sometimes I throw in a yoga dvd at night to help unwind and stretch out any soreness I have (this happend 2-4 nights week).
I was never a morning person, but this starts my day so much better. I don't have to worry about fitting the workout in. I have so much more energy and am definitely addicted to morning workouts now! I could have worse problems, right?
Good luck-it's worth it! You, your spouse and your kid(s) will all benefit from you taking care of yourself.0 -
I work full time with 2 kiddos. What has worked for me is getting the kids and husband taken care of when we get home in the evening, then getting my workout in. It might be 9:00 when I start it, but I feel great once I'm done! I would love to do workouts in the morning, but, like you, I have a really hard time doing anything in the morning, especially working out! :-) I also do TurboFire and LOVE it! I'm a Team Beachbody coach. I'd be happy to help you find something, like TurboFire, that you could do from home and enjoy. Plus, I'm part of an amazing group on Facebook that helps to motivate and support. Shoot me a message if you are interested.0
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Wow! Thank you everyone for the wonderful idea's and support! I know I will figure something out and will have to in order to keep this lifestyle change and new body! You are all wonderful inspiring women! Thank you so much!0
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I'm a single mom and work full time. Since its gotten warmer, I take my daughter for walks when we get home and when she is with her dad, I use that time to get a full workout out in.0
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During my lunch...I can usually get at least a good 30 minutes in. Or right after work- although I don't like that as much because it rushes the rest of the night.0
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