The best REVENGE is a LIFE WELL LIVED.....

Sonriendo
Sonriendo Posts: 98
edited November 12 in Introduce Yourself
Hello all.....
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3yrs..... Sadly he started talking to other women, and well the relationship turn sour..... He started calling me "FAT" and criticising the way I looked and how bad I looked from when we first met.... Well He was probably right because I know I had gained about 30 or even 40lbs since when we started going out... I still don't think it was necessary for him to turn so bitter....
So after we broke up, about a month ago! I said to myself I am not planning to cry and Suffer for this person whom has hurt me so bad!!!!!! Insted am going to WORK on Myself and turn into the GIRL he "wanted" to have so that when he sees me again he will know exactly What he Lost....
YEs IT might sound stupid but that's what's motivating me to keep on dieting and exercising and taking care of myself....... I have given me 12 weeeks to Make a DIFFERENCE.... :`) It consist of 12K cals per day as that's what MFP recommended and I will be work out 6x a week....using nothing but Home DVD's
I know I wont loose all the weight I want in 12 weeks but I think that's just the START....... :`)
I do need friends to Help ME keep on GOING tho' I have already lost 9YUckY LBS... so AM HappY about that.... Feel Free to add ME.... :`) as I feel that am here to USE and GIVE some advice..... :`)
Enjoy your journey Everyone....... and Thanks for reading....

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  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    I need to make a correction.... I am NOt DIETING ....am simply eating CLEANER and HEALTHIER!!!! :wink:
  • itsthatfatgirl
    itsthatfatgirl Posts: 30
    Sounds great if you ask me. (: Nothing wrong with wanting to rub it in a little. Haha.

    Good luck, girl!
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Thanks!!! :flowerforyou:
  • Vanilladays
    Vanilladays Posts: 155 Member
    You go girl.....but remember don't make it about him. Keep your focus on YOU! You deserve a wonderful and happy life and you are responsible for that. Show him what he has lost but make sure you are the one that benefits through your better health and fitness choices. Like you say this isn't a diet, it's a lifestyle choice. Good luck! Add me as a friend if you'd like.
    Jenni
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    U're totally righ Jenni.... Thanks for ur kinds wise words.....
  • alumpoflard
    alumpoflard Posts: 95 Member
    I like your style! Please though don't take him back when you have lost all the weight and he is begging for a second chance!
  • ekeledo
    ekeledo Posts: 15
    Good luck.. your goals are exacetely like mine (and the story itself a bit too :) )!! i want the same thing and given myself like 12 weeks....
  • NicholeRobb
    NicholeRobb Posts: 166 Member
    I know EXACTLY how you feel :). It is a great motivation lol
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    I like your style! Please though don't take him back when you have lost all the weight and he is begging for a second chance!

    I know right.... hahahaha I think by than I'll have better choices around me.... ahahaha! Thanks tho' that's exactly what my mother would say... I love it! :flowerforyou:
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Good luck.. your goals are exacetely like mine (and the story itself a bit too :) )!! i want the same thing and given myself like 12 weeks....
    OMG really???? Am doing the same thing ... MOndays are my weight in days so that's when my "Week Sheet" changes this monday would be my 4th week and the Sheet will read " 8 MORE WEEK" and I will post my weight and I have a list of things to follow as in Drink more H2O, 3x Days CARDIO, 3X Days Circuit Training, Rest at least 7.5 hrs...etc, etc, Love ME.. and so on.... Good luck sweetie
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    I know EXACTLY how you feel :). It is a great motivation lol
    Oh yeah at least is the "WAKE UP CALL" I needed to get me started.... :heart:
  • traceyjayne64
    traceyjayne64 Posts: 262
    go girl...keep at it and DONT even think about having him back when hes crawling after you when 'hes' decided you are slim enough !!!!!
    You deserve so much better, do it for you !!!! :smile:
  • sc1572
    sc1572 Posts: 2,309 Member
    Most DEFINITELY the perfect revenge! Plus, you will be healthier and happier! :) Just remember...do this for YOU, but use your revenge as a plus! :)
  • Megan5683
    Megan5683 Posts: 47 Member
    Hello all.....
    I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3yrs..... Sadly he started talking to other women, and well the relationship turn sour..... He started calling me "FAT" and criticising the way I looked and how bad I looked from when we first met.... Well He was probably right because I know I had gained about 30 or even 40lbs since when we started going out... I still don't think it was necessary for him to turn so bitter....
    So after we broke up, about a month ago! I said to myself I am not planning to cry and Suffer for this person whom has hurt me so bad!!!!!! Insted am going to WORK on Myself and turn into the GIRL he "wanted" to have so that when he sees me again he will know exactly What he Lost....
    YEs IT might sound stupid but that's what's motivating me to keep on dieting and exercising and taking care of myself....... I have given me 12 weeeks to Make a DIFFERENCE.... :`) It consist of 12K cals per day as that's what MFP recommended and I will be work out 6x a week....using nothing but Home DVD's
    I know I wont loose all the weight I want in 12 weeks but I think that's just the START....... :`)
    I do need friends to Help ME keep on GOING tho' I have already lost 9YUckY LBS... so AM HappY about that.... Feel Free to add ME.... :`) as I feel that am here to USE and GIVE some advice..... :`)
    Enjoy your journey Everyone....... and Thanks for reading....

    Adding you!! I'm kinda going thrhough the same thing but instead it's my husband. We can do this!!
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    go girl...keep at it and DONT even think about having him back when hes crawling after you when 'hes' decided you are slim enough !!!!!
    You deserve so much better, do it for you !!!! :smile:
    U're definetly right... I just kinda used the "pain" to my advantage... .I come to think that it was a Wake UP call I think at the end am going to be telling my ex... .Uhm Thanks!!!! and NO THANKS!!!! ahahaha :laugh:
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Most DEFINITELY the perfect revenge! Plus, you will be healthier and happier! :) Just remember...do this for YOU, but use your revenge as a plus! :)
    That's exactly where am at..... the revenge part is just a "motivation" I mean is only being a month and am laughing and feeling the fat melt off my body and am LOVING IT.... that whole experience served me well because I simply learn to :heart: Me MORE!!!!
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Adding you!! I'm kinda going thrhough the same thing but instead it's my husband. We can do this!!
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    Oh sweetie I bit that must be though.... But it's Ok.... Because when U're looking super hot he'll be drooling for you. I would talk to him and tell him that he is hurting you and to stay off your back because "HIS ATTiTUD IS MAKING U FATTER" lol Good luck in your journey..... :flowerforyou:
  • avk9802
    avk9802 Posts: 84 Member
    Oh, girl. My ex of 5 years was sleeping with my best friend in our home (This was recent.. like 2 weeks ago).
    He told me a few months ago I needed to lose weight. Now, I know why. but I did it anyways AND he doesn't have me anymore! I totally know what you mean!


    <3
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Thank you ALL for the STRENGHT...... I just wish I did this WAY BACK..... BUt it's ok....:flowerforyou:
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Oh, girl. My ex of 5 years was sleeping with my best friend in our home (This was recent.. like 2 weeks ago).
    He told me a few months ago I needed to lose weight. Now, I know why. but I did it anyways AND he doesn't have me anymore! I totally know what you mean!


    <3
    What an A#$ both him N ur friend.... but U're better off without them.... :flowerforyou: THe BEST REVENGE IS A LIFE WELL LIVED.... The better you look the most they will envy you.... :love:
  • butttrffly
    butttrffly Posts: 19
    Stupid boy's!! Get healthy for you! You will feel so much better and will start to think of his faults not yours. I know you will do it! I dated a boy once for many years (highschool) that broke my heart for stripper. Then came crawling back when he found out she would always be just that. By then I had seen his faults and was not interested. Stupid boy! Live your life and find a Man! True Men like my wonderful hubby love you for you and don't question your faults.
  • Sonriendo
    Sonriendo Posts: 98
    Stupid boy's!! Get healthy for you! You will feel so much better and will start to think of his faults not yours. I know you will do it! I dated a boy once for many years (highschool) that broke my heart for stripper. Then came crawling back when he found out she would always be just that. By then I had seen his faults and was not interested. Stupid boy! Live your life and find a Man! True Men like my wonderful hubby love you for you and don't question your faults.
    Thanks.... ya that's all he was.... A Stupid Boy!!!! :flowerforyou: to tell you the truth I am feeling better already... I am doing so much for myself in unveliebable.... lol I didn't know I was such HIGH MAINTENANCE.... :laugh:
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