Just joined in honor of my wifey

cllovesdw4eva
cllovesdw4eva Posts: 74
edited November 12 in Introduce Yourself
I woke up early this St. Patricks Day morning and my thoughts have totally moved over from Green Beer and hanging out with friends too how much I love and miss my wife. I embark on this new phase of my holistic health journey to honor her and to continue growing in love with her even though she is no longer on the earth. The biggest part of dealing with this is that when I get caught up in "me" mode all I can think of is how I miss her and cant hold her......when I am able to get out of me mode...I see an opportunity for me to continue proving my love to her and her boys. This is probably the most important part of this opportunity. Please feel free to add me as a friend.....I would love to motivate and encourage and hopefully get the same back.

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  • butttrffly
    butttrffly Posts: 19
    Added you :)
  • pattan59801
    pattan59801 Posts: 142
    added you
  • pholbert
    pholbert Posts: 575 Member
    I am truly sorry for the loss of your wife. I am sure she is happy that you are doing this for yourself and her sons. This is a great tibute to her. And it is ok to have a little Me Mode. You are only human.
  • cllovesdw4eva
    cllovesdw4eva Posts: 74
    THanks for me adding me all of you! I am very excited and looking forward to getting things going!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,996 Member
    If she could she whisper in your ear "you deserve this."


    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • tracy337
    tracy337 Posts: 199 Member
    If she could she whisper in your ear "you deserve this."


    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    This made my eyes tear up, so right though!
  • Leanne_fat2fab
    Leanne_fat2fab Posts: 73 Member
    Added!!
  • funkycamper
    funkycamper Posts: 998 Member
    If she could she whisper in your ear "you deserve this."


    A.C.E. Certified Personal Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    This made my eyes tear up, so right though!

    Feeling a bit teary-eyed myself....

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I was widowed at age 22 married to my high school sweetheart (boating accident). I know how horrible this kind of loss is. We didn't have children so that adds an additional factor in your grief as you help them deal with their loss as well. I'm going to celebrate 30 years of happy marriage to my second, and I'm sure last, husband in April.

    Anyway, when I got back on track with my life after the lowest depths of grieving, I always knew that my deceased loved one was cheering me on every step of the way. Best wishes.
  • jrock317
    jrock317 Posts: 26
    This is the best thing you can do for yourself, your wife, and your children. Your children need to have their dad around a really long time. Congrats and best of luck! :)
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