looking for support and new friends

I'm so glad I found this place.. or at least my husband... Its so hard to find people that are going through the same struggles as I am. I have my husband and a few friends at work doing this with me and that makes it easier for me. There are others not as helpful. They think i'm fine the way I am. I am not very happy the way I look. I have long legs and arms but a short mid section with extra meat around the middle. My husband loves me know matter what.. He has seen me thin and thick after my children.. I would just like to loose enough weight that will make me feel comfortable. One of my goals is when I get to a decent weight is, I would like to wear a swim suit for the summer. I always feel uncomfortable in a swimsuit because all the skin it shows I normally wear a big T-shirt and shorts over my swim suit... So far I have lost 9 lbs..!!

Hope to meet some new friends soon!!!