I'm sorry I just need to rant...

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  • BeautyFromPain
    BeautyFromPain Posts: 4,952 Member
    I wish I had a daughter like you. What a treasure you are. Yes, I can see how well you are doing and it is exciting. Is there a loving grandparent who you could bunk with until you can afford to be on your own?

    aww thanks (:
    see the problem with staying with grandparents is that that means i would have to tell them why, and last time i went to a counsellor and told anyone of these problems my parents found out and then hell got let loose :/ I just try and stay in my room or not at home as much as possible. I sleep over at friends' houses a lot, planning on leaving when I finish my cert 4 and finding a job.
  • Umeboshi
    Umeboshi Posts: 1,637 Member
    That's downright abusive holy crap.
    You deserve better than that kind of treatment.
  • jjohnboy2000
    jjohnboy2000 Posts: 67 Member
    I know its difficult but you are doing the right thing in being positive. It's your aim & ambition no-one elses. Go for it. Those who know you & really care will support you.
    Be strong & you will achieve it.
  • coconutbuNZ
    coconutbuNZ Posts: 578 Member
    I wish I had a daughter like you. What a treasure you are. Yes, I can see how well you are doing and it is exciting. Is there a loving grandparent who you could bunk with until you can afford to be on your own?

    aww thanks (:
    see the problem with staying with grandparents is that that means i would have to tell them why, and last time i went to a counsellor and told anyone of these problems my parents found out and then hell got let loose :/ I just try and stay in my room or not at home as much as possible. I sleep over at friends' houses a lot, planning on leaving when I finish my cert 4 and finding a job.

    Keep in touch with us, add me as a friend if you want to, we can be like your "online family". In the midst of all the crap you have to live with and that is some major crap where I can only imagine how hard it must be, YOU ARE A SUCCESS. Do you know why? Because you're still strong. You are dealing with the depression and anxiety. You have a plan for the future. Block out the negative words as much as you can, don't believe a word of it girl!
  • Libby81
    Libby81 Posts: 734 Member
    I read this recently on a wise young woman's profile:
    "Don't ever let someone tell you that you can't do something. You got a dream, you gotta protect it. When people can't do something themselves, they're gonna tell you that you can't do it. You want something, you go get it!!"

    One great thing about growing up is that you get to decide who is in your life and who is not.

    So true and I never said I was giving up on my dreams cos of her it just pisses me off.

    The only probem is that I cannot afford to move out right now or else I would. I have moved out once before but due to circumstances had to move back. >.<

    I am in the same position nearly, apart from my parents aren't so bad, they just don't seem really bothered by anything I do at all. I'm also training to be a certified personal trainer and am 3/4 of the way through the level 2 gym instructor course.

    I also live back at home because of circumstances and would give anything to be back in my old house on my own again.

    Feel free to friend me if you like. Either way keep hold of your dreams and follow them, you pave the way for your own future and you don't want to be full of what ifs and if onlys :heart:

    I got the error too, but I will try again a bit later on, I know theres some technical issues today

    Hey, I tried adding you but it wouldn't work because of a maintenance error. :/ Is it ok if you add me?
  • BeautyFromPain
    BeautyFromPain Posts: 4,952 Member
    Any of you feel free to add me, for some reason when I try to add people atm it is coming up with "technical difficulties."
  • coconutbuNZ
    coconutbuNZ Posts: 578 Member
    yep I'm getting the same message, tried to add you but server problem, keep in touch with us though! Add later on when the tech problem is sorted. I have always wanted a daughter like you. I had three sons instead but don't regret any of them. Good luck to you cherub :wink:
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