Just got to say

AmberJslimsAWAY
AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,336 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
After reading some posts in the forums today, Why are some of yall married? I mean, it seems like there are so many people that b!tch, moan, and complain about their partners, or their partners don't like them! What gives?!

WHY be married if you are so obviously miserable?!

And before I get asked, yes I have been married, yes I have been divorced.

Replies

  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    I dont think the complainers r truly that unhappy, this is just a place to voice their aquabbles and let off steam in a safe environment.
  • BIGJIMMYU
    BIGJIMMYU Posts: 1,221 Member
    I am 100% in love with my wife. She is my best friend. True though. Some seem to be looking for help on that stuff.
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,573 Member
    I truly love my wife but she is a pain in the *kitten* sometimes lol.....and she will say the same about me lol.
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    This song was written for me;
    Thanks Tim....

    Here we are
    What is left of a husband and a wife four good kids (only one)
    Who have a way of gettin on with their lives
    I'm not old but I'm getting a whole lot older every day
    It's too late to keep from goin' crazy
    I got to get away

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

    Our boy is strong the spittin image of you when you were young
    I hope someday he can see past what you have become
    And I remember every time I said I'd never leave
    But what I can't live with is memories of the way you used to be

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

    Twenty years have came and went since I walked out of your door
    I never quite made it back to the one I was before
    And God it hurts me to think of you
    For the light in your eyes was gone
    Sometimes I don't know why this old world can't leave well enough alone

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one Who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

    I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

    I just can't do anything right. I love my wife, but everything I try to do gets fucked up. I am stil there because 1. I do love her and wish that one day I could make her happy, B. Because we have a son who depends on me every day, and if I am not there, he gets the brunt of the anger, and IV. because financially, we can't make it apart right now. (We did separate for a long while, and almost went bankrupt over it all.

    Maybe tomorrow will be better.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,336 Member
    This song was written for me;
    Thanks Tim....

    Here we are
    What is left of a husband and a wife four good kids (only one)
    Who have a way of gettin on with their lives
    I'm not old but I'm getting a whole lot older every day
    It's too late to keep from goin' crazy
    I got to get away

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

    Our boy is strong the spittin image of you when you were young
    I hope someday he can see past what you have become
    And I remember every time I said I'd never leave
    But what I can't live with is memories of the way you used to be

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

    Twenty years have came and went since I walked out of your door
    I never quite made it back to the one I was before
    And God it hurts me to think of you
    For the light in your eyes was gone
    Sometimes I don't know why this old world can't leave well enough alone

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one Who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

    I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

    I just can't do anything right. I love my wife, but everything I try to do gets fucked up. I am stil there because 1. I do love her and wish that one day I could make her happy, B. Because we have a son who depends on me every day, and if I am not there, he gets the brunt of the anger, and IV. because financially, we can't make it apart right now. (We did separate for a long while, and almost went bankrupt over it all.

    Maybe tomorrow will be better.

    Song makes me cry
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    This song was written for me;
    Thanks Tim....

    Here we are
    What is left of a husband and a wife four good kids (only one)
    Who have a way of gettin on with their lives
    I'm not old but I'm getting a whole lot older every day
    It's too late to keep from goin' crazy
    I got to get away

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

    Our boy is strong the spittin image of you when you were young
    I hope someday he can see past what you have become
    And I remember every time I said I'd never leave
    But what I can't live with is memories of the way you used to be

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be angry all the time

    Twenty years have came and went since I walked out of your door
    I never quite made it back to the one I was before
    And God it hurts me to think of you
    For the light in your eyes was gone
    Sometimes I don't know why this old world can't leave well enough alone

    The reasons that I can't stay don't have a thing to do with being in love
    And I understand that lovin a man shouldn't have to be this rough
    You ain't the only one Who feels like this world left you far behind
    I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

    I don't know why you gotta be Angry All The Time

    I just can't do anything right. I love my wife, but everything I try to do gets fucked up. I am stil there because 1. I do love her and wish that one day I could make her happy, B. Because we have a son who depends on me every day, and if I am not there, he gets the brunt of the anger, and IV. because financially, we can't make it apart right now. (We did separate for a long while, and almost went bankrupt over it all.

    Maybe tomorrow will be better.

    Song makes me cry

    I live it, every single day.
  • strandedj
    strandedj Posts: 128 Member
    I love my husband and have for almost 30 years. I have plenty to complain about and we don't have the same interests but there is a love and bond there nonetheless~!
  • mslack01
    mslack01 Posts: 823 Member
    I truly love my wife but she is a pain in the *kitten* sometimes lol.....and she will say the same about me lol.

    ^^^^
    This...only in reverse....
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    My divorce was one of the best things I ever did for myself! Now I get to live my life free from fear and regular beatings!
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,336 Member
    My divorce was one of the best things I ever did for myself! Now I get to live my life free from fear and regular beatings!

    I had a divorce party...
  • HauteP1nk
    HauteP1nk Posts: 2,139 Member
    Just because someone complains about someone or something doesn't mean that they are miserable or unhappy. They are just frustrated or annoyed... They are venting. Better than bottling it up and just one day exploding!
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    My divorce was one of the best things I ever did for myself! Now I get to live my life free from fear and regular beatings!

    I had a divorce party...

    The last two amazing years of my life have been one sustained divorce party!!! :drinker:
  • boomboom011
    boomboom011 Posts: 1,458 Member
    i love my husband to the moon and back but he annoys the crap out of me sometimes. im pretty sure the feeling is mutual though.
    but if I didnt have him annoying the **** out of me I would be lost. he is my rock.
  • ScottyNoHotty
    ScottyNoHotty Posts: 1,957 Member
    Just find a woman who you hate and buy her a house.....
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 890 Member
    To save face...was only able to do that for so long, though!
  • misskerouac
    misskerouac Posts: 2,242 Member
    My husband is the most high maintenance, selfish person i've ever met, but I love him to death and he's also the only person who makes me laugh every day and loves me for everything I am.
  • antoniosmooth
    antoniosmooth Posts: 299 Member
    I assume most people just want to vent. Sometimes it's easier to vent to random strangers rather than someone you know.

    I've been married to the same woman for 21 years, we've known each other for 23 years, we met when she was 19 and I was 21. After all this time, the sex is still amazing and I love her more today after having 4 children than when we had 0.

    Don't get me wrong, we have our issues, what marriage doesn't. But when a man and woman get together and realize someone other than themselves is more important, the result is a happy loving marriage.

    Our rules for happy marriage....
    1. Honor and Serve God First
    2. Honor and Serve Spouse & Kids
    3. Have sex at least twice a week
    4. Never go to bed angry
    5. Communicate
    6. Work to understand
    7. Spend alone time together
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