much needed HAIR advice....
flatbellybella
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I guess this is an appropriate forum to post this question lol
I have naturally very very thick curly hair. I'm 1/2 Ukrainian 1/2 afro-brazilian so my hair is a strange mix between the two.
I haven't put any chemicals in my hair (dye or relaxer) for about 3-4 yrs. So my hair has grown soo much and I'm actually rocking my natural hair color- which is a SUPER light brown lol :sick:
anyways, I'm thinking of getting a relaxer again... but I'm dreading the whole process (the chemicals, the heat, touch ups, the greasy products)
I don't want to damage my hair but I'm really ready to retire these curls. I also personally believe I look my best with straight hair
I have SO much hair. top fo the line straightening irons work... but my roots and everything are still curly.
Are there any other options besides slapping on a relaxer? :grumble:
I have naturally very very thick curly hair. I'm 1/2 Ukrainian 1/2 afro-brazilian so my hair is a strange mix between the two.
I haven't put any chemicals in my hair (dye or relaxer) for about 3-4 yrs. So my hair has grown soo much and I'm actually rocking my natural hair color- which is a SUPER light brown lol :sick:
anyways, I'm thinking of getting a relaxer again... but I'm dreading the whole process (the chemicals, the heat, touch ups, the greasy products)
I don't want to damage my hair but I'm really ready to retire these curls. I also personally believe I look my best with straight hair
I have SO much hair. top fo the line straightening irons work... but my roots and everything are still curly.
Are there any other options besides slapping on a relaxer? :grumble:
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Thankfully, natural is coming back strong because I am over slapping chemicals in my hair. I am White (German) and Black (American); I have course curls that have a hint of a spiral thanks to my mother's thin and stringy hair. I use Carol's daughter for now and I am considering using the brand Mixed Chicks once I finish up this bottle moisturizer. I also count on leave-in conditioners—the brand Motions being one of my favorites because there is no potent scent and it is not greasy at all. I am a member of a Facebook group that gives suggestions and accounts on how to keep hair manageable, healthy and stylish--http://www.facebook.com/groups/embracingnh/. Hope that helps. Don't go back to the hair "crack". Buy a good straighter or hit the salon when you want it straight and let your hair be itself, if you can, I know it's hard.0
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have you thought of getting a keratin treatment? Check out the pros and cons from WebMD http://www.webmd.com/healthy-beauty/features/keratin-hair-straightening-treatments0
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I have super curly hair too when I don't straighten it...it's lovely/gorgeous/etc, but I know what you are going through, sometimes it can be a bit much.
I have my stylist thin mine- they just use a funny sissors that cuts some of the extra hair out so it isn't horse-tail thick. It makes it more manageable and it doesn't take light years to straighten it. Love it because it doesn't damage your hair and it always grows back!0 -
From an absolutely TOO white chick with thin straight hair.....I am soooooooooo jealous right now. : (. I would trade hair with you for awhile if I could! I don't have any advice for you...know nothing on the subject but..... Seriously, your curls look AMAZING!0
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Your hair is absolutely gorgeous!!!!0
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Bump, I'm hispanic and have a love hate relationship with my hair. I'd love to read all the responses.0
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Try a ceramic root straightener or get a Dominican blowout.0
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I have a love/hate/hate/hate relationship with the creature that is my hair. I have tried everything - I am Polish/Scottish and I have 3 distinct hair types on my one head - frizzy spirals in the bang area, large smooth spirals at the back, and wavy, no curls at all around the temples. I have recently re-embraced my curls - mostly because I have little time to straighten it.
I love the CDC products my stylist imports. www.haircared.com/
No heaviness. No grease. And, best of all, they smell like ice cream.0 -
I'm white (German) and black (African American, Native American) and have those spiral curls too. All the way to the small of back which can be a real pain sometimes try to tame it. :grumble: I also use Carol's daughter which by far is the best curl control product I've used. I've never relaxed my hair just from seeing what its done to my mom's hair. Personally, if I were you, I'd go to a salon where the people know how to handle mixed hair. :flowerforyou:0
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Sounds like your my hair twin...I am Afro-latina with very thick 3b/3c curls who shaved off all my hair (like Amber Rose) almost two years ago in order to grow my hair out without a relaxer. Right now I do a lot of protective styling while working out like bunning and Kim K. phony ponys...it works for me. I definitely do not suggest going back to a relaxer because you will be putting unnecessary stress on your hair and to be honest if it is really curly like mines it will still revert. Just get professional blowouts when you want to wear your hair straight and accept the fact that it cannot be worn like that all the time if you intend to work out.0
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I have super curly hair too when I don't straighten it...it's lovely/gorgeous/etc, but I know what you are going through, sometimes it can be a bit much.
I have my stylist thin mine- they just use a funny sissors that cuts some of the extra hair out so it isn't horse-tail thick. It makes it more manageable and it doesn't take light years to straighten it. Love it because it doesn't damage your hair and it always grows back!
Thinning was done to my hair 5-6 years ago and it hasn't grown back so if you like your hair thick then don't do this. once your hair thins trust me you will miss it's thickness.0 -
I've been getting keratin treatments for a few years now and I love it. My hair is healthy (which it wasn't when I was using traditional relaxers), and it still has body and, when I want them, loose curls.0
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I second or 3rd the keratin treatment.
Also a really good flat iron and look up the 'chase method'. This way we get to keep our curls and go straight when we want to.0 -
I also have very thick, curly, frizzy hair and i got a Brazilian Blow Out and it honestly changed my life....For the first time ever, i showered, and may hair air dried straight down my back....such a great feeling!! I recommend it to EVERYONE!!!0
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I have super curly hair too when I don't straighten it...it's lovely/gorgeous/etc, but I know what you are going through, sometimes it can be a bit much.
I have my stylist thin mine- they just use a funny sissors that cuts some of the extra hair out so it isn't horse-tail thick. It makes it more manageable and it doesn't take light years to straighten it. Love it because it doesn't damage your hair and it always grows back!
Thinning was done to my hair 5-6 years ago and it hasn't grown back so if you like your hair thick then don't do this. once your hair thins trust me you will miss it's thickness.
Your hair probably thinned on its own, this happens to many people as they age. It doesn't make sense that thinning it did this, as far as your hair knows you just cut it shorter. So if that were true, every time you cut your hair it would get thinner and thinner until you went bald.0 -
I'm black and dominican. I have very thick curly hair as well.. Two things: keratin treatment & hot oil treatments with extra virgin olive oil. I live in Florida, its been in the 80's for almost 2 months straight.. I straighten my hair maybe twice a week, and that's just to touch it up.0
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I have naturally thick, curly hair and just did a keratin treatment and have loved it. I was able to blow dry my hair straight for the first time in my life (normally I have to spend a good half an hour straightening it!)...not completely perfect, but sooo much easier than before!0
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Not sure, but I think you're hair is gorgeous.0
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i have very thick, curly hair. My hair dresser does a cut where she cuts little short pieces and kind of hides them so you can't tell. It took out so much of the poofyness of my hair. Keritain treatments are also amazing! I have not had one but a Brazilian blow out is really popular.0
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Mine is curly but extremely thin. I'd love to swap with you lol. I don't know how to keep it straight. I use GHDs and it still curls! If its hot or humid forget it! Its hard work! X0
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Hello from a Greek/Canadian mixture. I have super fine, super straight, and SUPER THICK hair. Oh, and it's long too. Can not find anyway to curl it. I love your curls, but like mine, I get many comments, but like to change it up sometimes. I would look on the YouTube sight and see if maybe there is a style you can do without using harsh chemicals on you hair and scalp.
I also 2nd, the Keratin treatment. Hair is Keratin, so it will do a wonderful job of keeping those beautiful curls healthy.
God Bless, Nicolette0 -
From an absolutely TOO white chick with thin straight hair.....I am soooooooooo jealous right now. : (. I would trade hair with you for awhile if I could! I don't have any advice for you...know nothing on the subject but..... Seriously, your curls look AMAZING!
THIS^^^ would love to know what that is like...0 -
My curls are probably tighter than yours but I TOTALLY understand how you feel. I sweat from my head, so straightening is not an option unless I just want to throw some money away lol.
1. PLEASE don't relax your hair. When it's curly, it's gonna curl up anyway. Relaxers stress our hair out unnecessarily, and there's so so so SO much more harm done from them than good. They relax our curls and make them more manageable, but that's where the good stuff ends.
2. I'd go with the suggestion to just get the blow-outs when you want your hair straightened and protective style when you go to the gym.
I wish you much success with it. Hair is a such and such and so and so when it comes to working out and stuff, so I understand!0 -
From an absolutely TOO white chick with thin straight hair.....I am soooooooooo jealous right now. : (. I would trade hair with you for awhile if I could! I don't have any advice for you...know nothing on the subject but..... Seriously, your curls look AMAZING!
;D Yep. Me to. I would kill for your hair. Enjoy it. It's lovely and exotic at least in your picture.0 -
I can understand, but on the other end of the spectrum. I have naturally stick straight hair, and I think I look best with curly hair. I got my first perm last April and my second one this March. I understand wanting to do something to change your hair, so go ahead! I haven't dyed my hair for over a year now, so my hair bounced back to being healthy only about a week after I got my perm!
If it makes you happy to have your hair straight, then do it!0 -
I did a keratin treatment almost a year ago and have had trouble getting my bangs to recover from it. Most of my hair has come back from the treatment but it is a much looser curl. I went from spirals to a looser S curl. My bangs are curly at the root and straight at the ends and look freakish unless I flat iron them out every day. They no longer hold curl at all.
My advice is to be careful with the Keratin treatments. I don't think I will ever do one again. I'm currently trying to grow my bangs out so I can perm them to match the rest of my hair.0
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