Its not a diet its a......

Clarecbear82
Clarecbear82 Posts: 355 Member
edited December 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
..... Life style change!

Am I the only person here who never tells people that? To be honest I would feel like a complete prat if I did! I don't know maybe its just me but I just know that if a few years ago I had asked someone what diet they where on and they said that I would have thought they where a bit up themselves if you get what I mean lol. Either that or I would have been waiting for a lecture on organic broccoli or something.

Sorry this is a bit of an odd question but its been bugging me for the 14months I've been here (plus I'm bored this evening). If anyone ever asks how I've lost the weight I just say calorie counting and leave it at that. Am i alone on this one?

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  • angeldaae
    angeldaae Posts: 348 Member
    The phrase rubs me wrong as well, from all my years on Weight Watchers. If I am restricting my caloric intake for the purpose of weight loss then, yes, I am on a diet!

    I may be learning healthy habits for a healthier lifestyle, but I’m doing that by means of a diet.
  • BrianSharpe
    BrianSharpe Posts: 9,247 Member
    I like to think in terms of lifestyle change only because of the negative association with so-called fad diets and to many people the word dieting connotes supper consisting of 3 lettuce leaves with a tiny dollop of cottage cheese in the centre.

    As someone who has, more times that I'm proud to admit, tried shortcut diets the use of lifestyle change also encompasses becoming more active so, in reality, it is more than just a diet (at least for some of us)
  • TKHappy
    TKHappy Posts: 659 Member
    I tell people Im just trying to eat better....plan and simple...because I am. :) No one questions it really, and if they do like my co-workers who wanteed me to sneak away for some ice cream wiith them I just explain I really can't, most people will not pester you. :)
  • kaned_ferret
    kaned_ferret Posts: 618 Member
    I think for me when I started here, it was a (calorie counting) diet. But them through my time here I have become motivated to run, cycle and generally be a lot more active - so I can't very well just refer to it as a diet now, it actually IS becoming a lifestyle change. Having said that I'm not sure I'd put it that way if people asked me, because it does sound a bit pretentious, even though it's true (almost as if it suddenly infers superiority?). I'd rather bore people with the long story to my (eventual) success ;)
  • lindaamarie
    lindaamarie Posts: 114
    I also just say I'm counting calories. I joined a diet group years ago and they said that it was a lifestyle change and it got on my nerves every time they said it because I knew for most that it wasnt't. Because once they stopped the program they went back to the way that they really wanted to eat and gained it all back. But this way is really fun and addicting to me so I enjoy it :) haha
  • bizgirl26
    bizgirl26 Posts: 1,795 Member
    Well the reason why they use that term is because you cant go back to how you were eating and keep the weight off . So diets where you starve and then go back to your old ways dont work but I know for me there is still a huge difference between the losing weight stage and the maintaining stage and what I eat
  • ChanlynMay
    ChanlynMay Posts: 34 Member
    I am new to this so I don't really have any experience but I am going to just say that I am learning healthier habits. I don't like the negative association that goes with the word "diet". It brings to mind crazy routes to try to lose weight. I am making better choices and becoming more active.
  • Kris1997
    Kris1997 Posts: 241
    Highly irritating hearing that phrase..LOL
  • mes1119
    mes1119 Posts: 1,082 Member
    The only reason I say it is because usually "diets" mean your restrict yourself for a long period of time until you reach your goal-->which typically leads to gaining it all back. I prefer lifestyle change because it means when I hit my goal, nothing will change. I will continue my life, I will just be healthier and happier with my body and I won't have the risk of gaining it back.

    PERSONALLY, I don't have much to lose, so I allow myself healthy but not strict guidelines on the weekends. This makes it more manageable for me, while teaching me to have a normal life and a healthy and ideal body.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    I understand the motivation behind it. It does get annoying, though. Especially when people are just using "lifestyle change" to mean "diet".
  • Everyone is on a diet. A diet is simply a way of eating. A person can have a diet of fast food for instance. So for me, I like explain that I have altered my diet, not that i am on one.

    di·et/ˈdī-it/
    Noun: 1.The kinds of food that a person, animal, or community habitually eats.
  • thomassd1969
    thomassd1969 Posts: 564 Member
    Diet to me is short term for a specific goal. I just say I want to be healthier and be proud of the choices I make for myself.
  • ARDuBaie
    ARDuBaie Posts: 365 Member
    Some of the things that have followed along with this lifestyle change:

    1. Moving toward a more minimalist lifestyle

    2. Eating less meat

    3. Becoming more concerned about animal welfare and the environment

    4. Noticing that I am unconsciously walking to places that I would have normally driven to

    5. Buying less

    6. Cleaning out my house of all those things that I have not used in the last year or so

    7. Wanting to pare down my book collection

    8. Looking at technology in a different way, such as how it will help me get healthier or minimalize

    9. Changes in spiritual aspects of my life/beliefs, etc.

    10. Changes in my aura/chakra energies and opening of chakras that were once closed

    Nope, not a diet. Definitely a lifestyle change.

    Additionally, there is research to support that if one changes the environment around them, they also change the environment within them and how they look at food. In short, a cluttered environment often results in excess poundage. May be why I am driven to wanting to clean out my house and downsize.
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
    Diets, to me, always refer to either a strict plan or something like Jenny Craig where you're limited to precise portions, not a great variety of food, and it's not only expensive but it feels like torture so that when you are "free" from it you go crazy and end up right back where you started. The word just seems to carry the meaning of great restriction, of "I HAVE to do this" not "I WANT to do this."

    If anyone asks I just say I'm trying to lose weight by eating better and exercising. I don't have a strict plan aside from my calorie intake limit every day or some foods I will not eat for anything. I'm not torturing myself in the vain hopes of one day getting in to a bathing suit that's a two piece and shows more skin. I'm making a necessary change to better my health and my body. Though if anyone calls it a diet I don't correct them since most times it's the only word people know what to use in relation to what you're doing so they can understand it.
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    It's not a term I use either, but it really is a life style change if you don't want to go back to piling on the weight!!

    When asked how I lost my weight I say by cutting down on junk, generally eating healthier and working out loads.
  • StephanieDJL
    StephanieDJL Posts: 130 Member
    I wouldn't say it that exact way but something along those lines, it bugs me to no end when people ask 'how's the diet going?' or 'what diet are you on?' to me a diet is a fad, something done over a short period of time for fast results.
  • jadedone
    jadedone Posts: 2,446 Member
    I think this is a good phrase. If you go on a diet, it implies short term and quick fix. If you change your life, then you will do something that will work forever, and you will keep it off.
  • beccarockslife
    beccarockslife Posts: 816 Member
    But a lot of people have changed their lifestyle and aren't just here to lose weight.

    I for example overhauled my whole life from mental health to physical health - eating better has been a side effect of feeling better and happier.
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    I'm not on a diet or changing my lifestyle. I'm just riding out a mid-life crisis is all. I don't have the money for a convertible, so abs it is!
  • coconutbuNZ
    coconutbuNZ Posts: 578 Member
    To me it is a life change because I've had a gutsful of "diets" and all it entails. Each to his or her own.
  • gersoco
    gersoco Posts: 155 Member
    Its not a diet its a Toga Party :-)

    Actually, I'm doing Paleo/Primal and it's a definitely a whole new way of eating and exercising.. Actually it's an old way that's been rediscovered. I've lost my last 20 lbs. After cutting out starchy, flour(y), sugar(y) carbs, I have more energy now that I did when I ate pasta.. Wierd, but it works. oO
  • Raddichio
    Raddichio Posts: 162 Member
    I've never told anyone who asks about my weight loss that it's a lifestyle change. In fact, unless it's someone asking for specific information to help them lose weight, I say very little at all---eating more healthy, watching portion size, something like that. However, I do consider this a lifetime commitment (or lifestyle change, if you want to label it that) and from the very beginning of my weight loss endeavors I have been determined to only employ eating and exercise habits that I would be willing to continue from now on. So if I am allowing myself some chocolate, I eat REAL chocolate, regular cheese not that low-fat or processed stuff, and I don't use artificial sweeteners. I buy very few specialty products (none of those 100 calorie packs, etc.), because (a) I don't want to eat that way forever and (b) I'm not willing/able to pay the higher cost for many of these items. I say I buy "very few," because there are probably some substitutoins I've made for regular products that cost the same or very little more and are just as satisfying (i.e., I've been drinking skim milk for years because I like it better than whole or even 1% milk). I make these choices because that is how I want to eat, even after I've lost the weight, not because I'm making judgments that eating otherwise is inherently bad. We each have to find a way to fuel our bodies and keep them healthy that works for us.
  • Claire594
    Claire594 Posts: 332 Member
    When people ask me I say I'm just trying to make healthier choices and do some exercise.

    All my life I've been on a 'diet' of some sort. This time round it feels different. I'm 13 weeks in, not starving myself and feeling great and motivated.

    It's all semantics but I'm calling it a lifestyle change LOL
  • JoyceJoanne
    JoyceJoanne Posts: 760 Member
    I ABSOLUTELY HATE that term!! To me it sounds rediculious. In my head, I think using the term 'lifestyle change' for 'diet' is like saying freak/fudge/frick etc instead of the real 'F' word. TomAto, tOmato....
    I tell people that I am watching what I eat, making better choices and exercising. I have changed my diet, and my habits. This has resulted in weight loss, me being stronger and more active.
    Ok- yes I HAVE changed my lifestyle and DID actually diet... I just can't stand either of those words. We don't call our exercise area at home a gym either.... again, it's the words that mean something negative in our heads. It's either the fitness center or exercise area.
    We DO realize that the words all mean the same things, however, tricking our brains into thinking it's something else has taken the negative out of it for us. Whatever works for you.
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