New Here! - Mom looking to lose weight!

Hello I am new here! I have a daughter who is 14 months old and I am finally motivated to work out and diet. I actually started about a month ago and have continued working out and eating better/less the entire time. I am pretty proud of myself. I was 195 before I had my daughter. I got up to 230, it probably would of been less but she was not growing and I was told to double my calories while on best rest :X blah. Any way she was 4 lbs at birth and I lost 10 lbs. That was IT. Nothing was budging. I did weight watchers and got down from 220 to 200. I have been stuck here for a while and about a month ago I started doing the 30 day shred (about 3-4x a week) plus running/jogging 2-3 miles (2-3x a week). I am now down to about 195. It's been almost a month and I hate how the lbs are dropping so slowly. I guess because I am building muscle? I am back to my pre pregnancy weight but I want to be at least 165 (I am taller so this is a perfect weight for me) and anything less would be a bonus. Based on Lose It! app and on here I should be eating about 1400-1500 calories a day which I do. I also eat all my exercise calories. Should I be eating those calories or not so I lose weight faster? I also recently in the past week have added in ab ripper x 3x a week. I fit in most of my pre pregnancy clothes but not all of them which really bugs me. Does all this sound right? Am I doing the right things to get toned, lose weight and fit into my old clothes (and then some!)? Thanks for any advice!