? ACCEPT ADVICE FROM A "FAD" DIETER????

MY DIET & EXCERCISE PLAN HAS CONSISTED OF EATING RIGHT AND WORKING OUT 5X DAYS WEEK CARDIO,WEIGHTS,JOGGING,AND TBW! BUT A FAD DIETER HAS SAID WHAT I AM DOING IS WRONG AND THE RESULTS ARE IN FAD PROTEIN SHAKES,DVDs,Exct
AS OF 4-2-12 I HIT MY 20LB MARK! BUT WHAT WAS SAID WAS VERY HURTFUL & MADE ME FEEL MY HARDWORKING WAS FOR NOTHING BUT I WILL NOT BE THE ONE TO JUDGE A PERSONS PHYSICAL APPEARANCE,BUT HOW CAN SOMEONE BE JUDGMENTAL ON SOMEONE'S PHYSICAL APPEARANCE TELL YOU DRINK A SPECIFIC BRAND SHAKE,TELL THEM EVERYTHING YOU HAVE WORKED SO HARD IS NOT THE CORRECT WAY AND TELLS YOU THERE IS NO RESULTS SHOWN WITH THE DIET & WORKOUT PROGRAM! FEELING VERY HURT & DISCOURAGED.

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  • TheDoctorDana
    TheDoctorDana Posts: 595 Member
    Is she selling the shakes? That might be the reason she is pushing them. Just saying.
  • the proof is in the pudding! .... meaning that you're obviously doing what you're supposed to be doing. eating right and exercising regularly. the shakes, pills, meals.....none of that teaches us how to LIVE. believe me...i've tried all of it!!! keep doing what works for you, and for me, and when the fad dieter stops the fad, gains back the weight, and comes to you for inspiration, you'll have the best advice! and a nice "I TOLD YOU SO" to go with it!!! :)
  • lizard053
    lizard053 Posts: 2,344 Member
    Obviously, something you're doing is working! No need to cave to a fad to get continued success. Of course you're doing it right!

    You have every right to be hurt, but don't get discouraged. Just ignore the fad freak!
  • tat2dmrsgrimm
    tat2dmrsgrimm Posts: 226 Member
    When in 6 months the other person started putting weight back on and you are looking great, you will have the satisfaction on knowing you were right and they were the victim of another fad.
  • ckmama
    ckmama Posts: 1,668 Member
    Just tell her good luck with that, you hope she keeps it off. Remember not everyone wants you to be successful because it makes them feel bad. :heart:
  • HelloSweetie4
    HelloSweetie4 Posts: 1,214 Member
    She will gain it back and you will stay sexay. Then you can give her tips! lol
  • BlackStarlight
    BlackStarlight Posts: 554 Member
    Hey huni
    I think the proof is right there for you to see you've been eating right and excerising. ANd hit your target. I would really continue as you are if I was you. Your doing so well. Keep going xx
  • angng
    angng Posts: 137 Member
    Some people just love giving their unsolicited advice about everything (for example: if you have a baby, everyone you know is suddenly a pediatrician). I usually just smile and nod and then give the jerk-off hand motion when they're not looking.
  • PaleoPath4Lyfe
    PaleoPath4Lyfe Posts: 3,161 Member
    MY DIET & EXCERCISE PLAN HAS CONSISTED OF EATING RIGHT AND WORKING OUT 5X DAYS WEEK CARDIO,WEIGHTS,JOGGING,AND TBW! BUT A FAD DIETER HAS SAID WHAT I AM DOING IS WRONG AND THE RESULTS ARE IN FAD PROTEIN SHAKES,DVDs,Exct
    AS OF 4-2-12 I HIT MY 20LB MARK! BUT WHAT WAS SAID WAS VERY HURTFUL & MADE ME FEEL MY HARDWORKING WAS FOR NOTHING BUT I WILL NOT BE THE ONE TO JUDGE A PERSONS PHYSICAL APPEARANCE,BUT HOW CAN SOMEONE BE JUDGMENTAL ON SOMEONE'S PHYSICAL APPEARANCE TELL YOU DRINK A SPECIFIC BRAND SHAKE,TELL THEM EVERYTHING YOU HAVE WORKED SO HARD IS NOT THE CORRECT WAY AND TELLS YOU THERE IS NO RESULTS SHOWN WITH THE DIET & WORKOUT PROGRAM! FEELING VERY HURT & DISCOURAGED.

    Ignore, nothing like eating whole foods, exercise and getting the results.
  • watchmelose2
    watchmelose2 Posts: 77 Member
    :flowerforyou: Keep up the good work you are doing the right thing! Tell her to get lost! She is just trying to make a buck!:drinker:


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