How to give compliments to women

leanandmean2012
leanandmean2012 Posts: 179 Member
edited December 18 in Motivation and Support
How do you give compliments to a woman that absolutely beautiful without being a jerk? Especially on here
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  • LinFarnholz
    LinFarnholz Posts: 9 Member
    I think honesty is the best policy! Using words like "beautiful" and "sexy" are totally fine! Just keep it simple. :)
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  • TracyJean2012
    TracyJean2012 Posts: 517 Member
    if she is a "friend" of yours just send her a special message and tell her!
  • mrsgoodwine
    mrsgoodwine Posts: 468 Member
    You can also tell her she looks "amazing."
  • smilingchica
    smilingchica Posts: 279 Member
    Just don't try to come off smooth, just be honest and we won't have any bs to sift through! :)
  • leelafit_mtl
    leelafit_mtl Posts: 132 Member
    "Stunning" is a pretty nice compliment!
  • suemar74
    suemar74 Posts: 447 Member
    Be honest and sincere.

    Just don't start with, "Hey, baby..." because it makes our eyes glaze over and we hear that flat-line sound in our head.

    Or maybe that's just me...

    :wink:
  • leanandmean2012
    leanandmean2012 Posts: 179 Member
    tell her you *kitten* to her every night, and that she is dating total losers, so she should change her ways by being with you. you can show her how to smell colors and see sound

    and then send a C**K pic to her inbox

    that's what works for me, at least

    Classic
  • smilingchica
    smilingchica Posts: 279 Member
    Be honest and sincere.

    Just don't start with, "Hey, baby..." because it makes our eyes glaze over and we hear that flat-line sound in our head.

    Or maybe that's just me...

    :wink:


    agreed, any creeper/douchy line is just a waste!
  • thistimeismytime
    thistimeismytime Posts: 711 Member
    tell her you *kitten* to her every night, and that she is dating total losers, so she should change her ways by being with you. you can show her how to smell colors and see sound

    and then send a C**K pic to her inbo x

    that's what works for me, at least

    Classic

    Lol--yep that works! If you want a restraining order! :noway:
  • You can also tell her she looks "amazing."

    Ok...you look "amazing" :bigsmile:
  • LoveActually
    LoveActually Posts: 177 Member
    I'm a fan of "gorgeous". LOL! I think giving a simple compliment will do no harm, most women love to hear it. But after that, leave it alone. Too much adoring can be nauseating.
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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  • tell her you *kitten* to her every night, and that she is dating total losers, so she should change her ways by being with you. you can show her how to smell colors and see sound

    and then send a C**K pic to her inbox

    that's what works for me, at least

    Classic

    I actually laughed out loud to this.
  • cici1028
    cici1028 Posts: 799 Member
    I think sincerity is your best bet. Don't tell a lady that 'heaven must be missing an angel'. Barf! But saying, "You look really nice today" or "I think you are beautiful" is acceptable. I am sure setting has something to do with this as well... I wouldn't want a compliment at my place of work (although an occasional "You look nice today" is fine).

    On MFP, again, sincerity is cool. "Looking good" or "You look amazing/gorgeous/hot" is totally fine! Don't gush. A one liner is good!
  • msprouse8
    msprouse8 Posts: 85 Member
    Honesty is best. Don't go too overboard. You don't even have to use words like gorgeous or sexy at first....start with the simple word of beautiful. Women like to be told they are beautiful. :o)
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I usually go with an FR that says "I don't like it when I see you talking to other guys."
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    I usually go with an FR that says "I don't like it when I see you talking to other guys."

    Pimp! :laugh:
  • Testosterone
    Testosterone Posts: 236 Member
    you dont. ever. It will give them a big head and then they think they dont stank, and then they be dissin
  • myfitnessnmhoy
    myfitnessnmhoy Posts: 2,105 Member
    Lol--yep that works! If you want a restraining order! :noway:

    At least she's acknowledged your existence and that's something!
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    I don't usually do so and mean it either but when I do it usually something like looking good etc.
  • lisakyle_11
    lisakyle_11 Posts: 420 Member
    tell her you *kitten* to her every night, and that she is dating total losers, so she should change her ways by being with you. you can show her how to smell colors and see sound

    and then send a C**K pic to her inbox

    that's what works for me, at least

    lol.... :huh:
  • tell her you *kitten* to her every night, and that she is dating total losers, so she should change her ways by being with you. you can show her how to smell colors and see sound

    and then send a C**K pic to her inbox

    that's what works for me, at least

    dude!!!!! NO........ haha

    dont listen to this guy :laugh: just keep doing what u r sweetie
  • docktorfokse
    docktorfokse Posts: 473 Member
    tell her you *kitten* to her every night, and that she is dating total losers, so she should change her ways by being with you. you can show her how to smell colors and see sound

    and then send a C**K pic to her inbox

    that's what works for me, at least
    WE HAVE A WINNER
  • saintspoon
    saintspoon Posts: 242 Member
    Well personally I like creepy douches on MFP!


    So fill my inbox with compliments & perverted messages... keeps me entertained & reminds me that even if only for just having a vag I am a sexy goddes RAWR! :devil: :heart:
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    Tell em they have an amazing and rear..even if they don't....especially if they don't.
  • thistimeismytime
    thistimeismytime Posts: 711 Member
    Well, to be honest it's gonna depend on the type of woman you're looking for. If you're around skanks, you can pretty much say or do anything and they'll love it...The only catch is they'll be lovin' it from about 50 other guys too. If you want to compliment a real woman, you have to show sincerity and respect...it's more work, but it's worth it. :wink: I've been married 13 years to a real man who compliments me every single day, usually many times a day. It doesn't give me a big head, it just makes me love him more. :love:
  • saintspoon
    saintspoon Posts: 242 Member
    Well, to be honest it's gonna depend on the type of woman you're looking for. If you're around skanks, you can pretty much say or do anything and they'll love it...The only catch is they'll be lovin' it from about 50 other guys too. If you want to compliment a real woman, you have to show sincerity and respect...it's more work, but it's worth it. :wink: I've been married 13 years to a real man who compliments me every single day, usually many times a day. It doesn't give me a big head, it just makes me love him more. :love:

    HEY! I'M NOT A SKANK!

    Ok maybe a lil bit of an MFP skank :tongue:
  • ericarae33
    ericarae33 Posts: 211 Member
    This thread has given me reason to smile today : ) Funny stuff....I agree with, just be sincere and not douchy!
  • torygirl79
    torygirl79 Posts: 307 Member
    Specific compliments are nice, such as "that outfit Is a great shade of blue, it's just like your eyes" (do not use if outfit is red or yellow). It shows you're paying attention to detail.
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