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messymutt
messymutt Posts: 24
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I had this older man, whom I'm assuming has no idea how society works, step way over the line. We were talking about races, and I mentioned I'm going to do one in November, just not sure if I'll do a 5k or 10k, walk, run, whatever. It just depends on if I can convince someone to do it with me. (I really want to do the 10K. That's only 8 miles, and I can walk that. 3 miles is easy for me.)

Anyway, this older man tells me I should keep at it because "flat is good" AND GRABS MY STOMACH!

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  • FitBlitz
    FitBlitz Posts: 146
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    Did you punch him in the chotch? I would have. Then yell "BAD TOUCH" and flee.
  • mjterp
    mjterp Posts: 655 Member
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    OMG...yes..definitely over the line.
    He deserved to be slapped!
    Pretty standard social rule is dont' touch without asking first.
    YOU OK?
  • kazzari
    kazzari Posts: 473 Member
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    Yeah, I'd say that's stepping over the line! OMG...what did you do?
  • kazzari
    kazzari Posts: 473 Member
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    Did you punch him in the chotch? I would have. Then yell "BAD TOUCH" and flee.

    ROFL!
  • EpiGaiaRepens
    EpiGaiaRepens Posts: 824 Member
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    Wow. Just....wow. Its not OK for people to do that.
  • ArtGeek22
    ArtGeek22 Posts: 1,429 Member
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    Oh my goodness! That was extremely rude. People have no morals and don't think about how their actions can affect someone. People should maybe look up this thing called PERSONAL SPACE!!! :mad: :angry: :explode: :grumble:
  • messymutt
    messymutt Posts: 24
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    I was too stunned.

    Plus, I was at work.

    He's European, I think. I don't mean that as an excuse, but I don't think he understood what is and what isn't okay. By that point in our 5 minute conversation he'd already started touching my hands and kissed the back of one. I was already getting creeped on and then that happened.

    Yes, I'm okay. Luckily, I have decent self-esteem. I could see how someone else could be messed up over that.
  • kazzari
    kazzari Posts: 473 Member
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    Oh yuck, that is really creepy. Making my skin crawl.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
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    I can not stand stuff like this! I have regular customers and the middle age gentlemen feel like because they are regulars in my store, that we have some buddy-buddy kind of relationship and they'll go as far as hugging my shoulders. Some squeeze my shoulders and others touch my hand. It CREEPS me out!
  • messymutt
    messymutt Posts: 24
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    Thankfully, this guy was only there to register for a race we're having tomorrow. (I work at a community center gym.)


    I'm glad he's not a member, so I don't have to see him again. (I hope.)


    As for punching and yelling "bad touch," I wish.
  • soulynyc
    soulynyc Posts: 302 Member
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    i am so glad i don't have to deal with men! yeah you should have socked him in the head.
  • kazhowe
    kazhowe Posts: 340 Member
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    I'm sorry that you had that experience - being European is no excuse! You need to practice your 'steely eyed' look - then in future you look them in the eye and in a firm voice say ''That is inappropriate behaviour if you repeat it then I will have to take action!" ... I find that it works for me. It amazes me how many people think that it is okay make pointed personal comments about - and to - a person who is overweight!

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