38KK breasts

WelcomeToWonderland · May 2012

I'm about a 38KK bra the last time i was measured. Yes, they're real and i started developing really young and i get its unusual to see breasts so big but im always covered up when i go out, nothing ever revealing but what i dont understand is everyone staring at my chest constantly and then the creeps who randomly come up to me on the street and grab my chest like literally grab a handful of boob!!! like WTF! seriously. and the best part is when they try to tell the police after i hit them in self-defense to get them to let go of me. Once, a girl even came up to me a sucker punched me in the boob for her boyfriend looking at my chest. I dont know if maybe it's just the country im in that this happens but its insane. Don't get me wrong, i love my breasts but if im not putting them on display what gives people the right to touch them or me. Do people really think its okay? this is a regular occurrence too, it's not like its just every once in a while

sorry for the long rant, i'm just so frustrated over this. it feels like theres nothing i can do (the police don't do a hell of lot about anything here) does anyone have any suggestions or funny thing is can do to make me people stop touching me other than hitting them they dont seem to care about words.

Anyone have some stories of similar things happening to you

meshashesha2012 · May 2012

this is where i was (well more like 30J) before i had a breast reduction. best decsion i made in my life at that time. i dont regret it at all

i've definitely been where you were with the creeps grabbing your breasts :flowerforyou: a BIG part of why i gained weight in the first place was because extra weight was a great buffer and helped me feel safe. the breaking point for me was when i lived in paris and was almost raped because some a*hole carried me into an alley. i was able to fight my way out but i couldnt help but think if i weighed more i'd not only be less attractive since my breasts wouldnt be as noticeable, but i'd also be harder to just pick up and carry away.

and that's interestign that you mention the police. i remember (also when i was in paris) there would be times when random creepy guys would follow me on the metro and start talking to me like they were my boyfriend or something. one time there was a guy who was really frightening. i took to the metro to notre dame stop where i knew tons of police hang out since there's a prefecture there. i ran up to the 2 officers, the guy was right behind me. in my best american accent i was like "excuse me but this man has been following me for the past 2 hours. i've been telling him to leave me alone but he still insists on grabbing me. can you please help?" these guys looked at me, looked at my chest and were like "well what do you expect?" and shrugged me off. i couldnt even believe that happened.

even though i gained all my boobs back when i gained weight, i'm still happy about the reduction since at the time i was MUCH thinner (like size 4/6) and really not at a place emotionally to deal with that kind of attention.

what's helped a lot is that i've since taken self defense classes and i'm going to start taking krav maga next month. not like i'm going to be looking for fights, but i do feel safer in knowing that i'll be learning new ways to protect myself that more healthy than extra fat.

keep your head up girly :happy:

my plan this time is to not be so nice when people touch me. if i have to be a biyatch about it then that's just going to have to be how it is. any inappropriate touch will result in a throat job or a knee to groin.

WelcomeToWonderland · May 2012

@meshashesha20

Thats exactly what was happening to me! My dads "friends" were the biggest offenders of all though when i was only 12 until i was 16 and told my parents what they were doing (i'm surprised the guys are even still alive, I've never seen anyone so hurt and angry (at his "friends") then my dad was, in my life) I know when i was a kid i looked a lot older and already had a body on me but they knew how old i was and as soon as i gained the weight i noticed it wasnt as frequent and then all i wanted to do was gain more weight. My mom gets annoyed with me about it, wanting to gain weight so people will stop touching me, though i will fight if i have i prefer not to. but she thinks that everything is solved with a punch so they learn their lesson and don't do it to other people. I don't always like to hit though because even though i'm great at fighting theres always someone better and i'd like to avoid getting my butt kicked

she's also like 6'1 so she doesnt get when you're smaller its a little more intimadating but she wears the same size i do but she doesnt really get this as much people only stare at her i think they're too afraid to even get close to her

Krav maga is loads of fun, big confidence boost. I'm think about getting a reduction and my family thinks its best but i just feel like im so young (19) that i might regret the decision later on. I'm slightly afraid of losing weight because i'm worried that all the touching will get really bad again

Thanks for sharing your story with me. I feel so much better knowing there are other women out there going though it too and listening to their ways of dealing with it.

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