Been Cheated? Want Revenge? Go Get It... Yo!!!!

Feel like you got a raw deal? Then vent ...............
This summer I had a friend staying with me who was in a bad situation with his apartment. He helped me with a lot of things, but he was interested in me and became a little controlling. He made me existing depression so much worse.

Why did I put on weight?
He insisted we order take out almost every night. I was working all day, it would be late, and disagreeing wasn't worth it anymore. 18 Pounds. He also likes "thick" girls and I think he liked me putting on more weight. And I also think he liked me a little sad and self conscious because he thought then I would stick with him.

Why am I unhappy?
I hate being a victim. I hate throwing away the weight loss I had in the spring over this man.

I'm not ugly .................He just tells me I am.............

I CAN lose weight

I am my own person

Etc.......etc....etc.......

Go girlfriends ..................GO................................much love heart A

I like your attitude. My ex started to make comments when I gained some weight. He should accept me thick or thin. But its good to be healthy and happy on your own terms, not for someone else. Goodluck!

Wait, I thought we were all supposed to vent! How come I'm the only one who did? LOL

Feel like you got a raw deal? Then vent ...............
I've been with my man for five years. We started hanging out when I was 19. This past February we got engaged for the third time, started planning the wedding, bought THE dress told all the family and we both lost our jobs. Now with six months left until the date he has called off the wedding. "I'm not ready" he says, "We don't have the money" he says If I wait for the day that we do have the money and he is ready I'll be 40 years old.

Why did I put on weight?
I don't complain much about loosing the job I hated it to be honest but I was on my feet eight hours a day running up and down steps lifting heavy things an fighting sheet metal. Now all I do is clean the house and cook and eat.
Why am I unhappy?
Everything is falling apart around me and my butt is too big for his hands.

I'm not ugly .................He doesn't tell me I am.............

I CAN lose weight

I am my own person

Etc.......etc....etc.......

Go girlfriends ..................GO................................much love heart A

Feel like you got a raw deal? Then vent ...............

My guy and I had been together for eight years. High school sweethearts. We were both working hard and had a little place together. He struggled with depression being very overweight and control issues. His issues became my issues until I had enough. I said goodbye to an eight year investment because he wasnt willing to change for the better or get help.

Why did I put on weight?

He encouraged us to eat out as much as possible. Eating was what made "us" feel good. His bad habits became my own.

Why am I unhappy?

Can't say that I am now. Down 57lbs and ready to lose another 90!

I'm not ugly .................He just tells me I am.............

I CAN lose weight

I am my own person

Etc.......etc....etc.......

Go girlfriends ..................GO................................much love