Anyone Else not Lost since Joining??

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Joined in March and not lost anything.. I am true to my diary and on 1200 cals a day.. Once a week I tend to go over to more like 1500-1800 I exercise 2 - 5 times a week (depending on shift patterns etc). I do Cardio and strength training and the off Zumba class. Everyone else around me is loosing and not me.. So hard to stay motivated.. Feel like giving up on this.. :cry:
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  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
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    winners never quit
  • leigaia
    leigaia Posts: 9 Member
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    Maybe its the muscle you are gaining. Do you feel better and have you kept measurments?
  • 10goal13
    10goal13 Posts: 54
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    I'm going on to day 4 tomorrow and haven't lost yet, i haven't overeaten and i have exercised once (still sore would have been more) but im also time of monthing so maybe after thats gone progress may show
  • _trickpie
    _trickpie Posts: 87
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    First step - don't give up. Second step - take measurements! Third step - open up your diary so we can have a look.
  • cai_mee
    cai_mee Posts: 2
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    You're not alone. I lost 3lb's, then gained it again and cannot seem to budge. Also count each and every calorie, work out etc, but nothing. I'm close to giving up because I work so hard but not seeing any results.
  • eight6eleven
    eight6eleven Posts: 11 Member
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    First of all, do not give up! Giving up is the worst thing, and might lead to further weight gain, making it ever more difficult the 2nd time around to lose. Vicious cycle, I know, I've been there and done that. I'm not an expert by any means, but I'm wondering if maybe your daily caloric intake is too low? Sounds crazy, but I read different places (including here) that if your calories are too low, your body actually hangs on to what it has, b/c it thinks you are starving. Maybe try going above 1200 a couple days a week, just to give your metabolism a little boost?
  • lizsmith1976
    lizsmith1976 Posts: 497 Member
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    At 1200 calories a day you are not gaining muscle.
  • sailorsiren13
    sailorsiren13 Posts: 460
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    I have been stuck for 2 months at the same weight fluctuate btwn 150-154 very frustrating going to the doctor to get referred to a nutrionist for help so no your not alone.
  • ashiggins
    ashiggins Posts: 144 Member
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    I'm sure plenty of people are going to say this, but you do not have a lot of weight to lose (according to your ticker), so 1200 calories is likely too low for you. You would probably be better off eating a high calorie amount consistently--that number will depend on your height and whatnot, but I have about 20 pounds to lose and have been losing slowly at around 1800-2000 cals a day while exercising. Also, it will be much easier to maintain your loss if you lose it eating a higher number of calories.
  • MinkyMoo13
    MinkyMoo13 Posts: 354 Member
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    No not gaining muscle clothes still as tight as ever..
  • bdl10238790
    bdl10238790 Posts: 4 Member
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    I know exactly what you mean. I haven't even weighed myself in about 3 weeks. My food diary is not the greatest but I try and stay within my calories, but I like carbs too much and don't like fruits and veggies so.....I know it's my own doing.
  • amercer09
    amercer09 Posts: 28 Member
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    try upping your calories and see what happens. Drink as much water as you can.....just plain water. I have been on here for about 240 days I just started losing. down 20 lbs.
  • MinkyMoo13
    MinkyMoo13 Posts: 354 Member
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    You're not alone. I lost 3lb's, then gained it again and cannot seem to budge. Also count each and every calorie, work out etc, but nothing. I'm close to giving up because I work so hard but not seeing any results.

    How many calories a day are you having?
  • changeofideas
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    i haven't lost anything either. but i don't do a very good job. i have done ok on staying 1200 calories but only work out like twice a week... and my 1200 calories are usually not good calories. but i am frustrated too that i haven't lost. have you measured yourself? maybe you are just toning up a bit.
    edit: MFP recommended i eat 1200 calories, is that too low for me? i only want to lose 10-15 lbs but ASAP of course so it suggested 1200
  • ashiggins
    ashiggins Posts: 144 Member
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    At 1200 calories a day you are not gaining muscle.

    Agreed--don't fool yourself into believing it's muscle gain :)
  • lmelangley
    lmelangley Posts: 1,039 Member
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    Personally, if I eat 1200 cals a day I can't lose anything, either. I have to eat at least 1350. I'd say try to consistently eat a little more, just not one day a week.

    Plus, as others have suggested, take measurements and see if there are changes there.

    Third, measure everything you eat if you aren't already. That's my biggest pitfall.

    And, lastly, take a deep breath. Are you in this just to lose weight, or also to become healthier? Which is more important to you? Try focusing on the overall health aspect instead of a number on a scale. Helps me when I'm down.
  • niftyafterfifty
    niftyafterfifty Posts: 338 Member
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    Don't give up! It may take a little time to figure out what works for your body. I have some info that you might find helpful. I merely copied and pasted Helloitsdan's OP on the subject of figuring out calorie goals. Here it is:

    This is the best I can do!

    I'll hand you the tools for a successful and sustainable diet that you can use and manipulate to achieve your goals.
    If you are looking to lose weight, you just eat the calories given by doing the simple math and following the directions on the page.
    If you are looking to maintain weight, you add 20% to the number given and youll know approximately what your TDEE is.
    The link is at the bottom of this grand post!

    I've said it several times here on this forum and i'll say it again and again:

    True dieting needs the knowledge of 3 very important numbers.

    1) TDEE or Total Daily Energy Expenditure.
    This is the amount of calories you burn all day.
    From before you wake up in the morning and pee to the time you lay your head down at night to sleep and into the night.
    One of my biggest pet peeves is seeing a post on the forum or on someones Diary "Ugh! I feel sooo guilty because I went over calories today!" when the person went over a few cals over a 40% cut from TDEE.

    Knowing TDEE allows you to understand that anything above TDEE is a surplus and you will "eventually" gain weight.
    Anything at TDEE you maintain weight.
    Anything below TDEE you lose weight to an extent. (see BMR)

    2) BMR or Basal Metabolic Rate or RMR Resting Metabolic Rate.
    If you were in a coma and in the hospital, the doctors would feed you your BMR in calories.
    This ensures you have enough nutrients for vital organs to function.
    http://www.brighthubeducation.com/science-homework-help/107443-ten-essential-organs-in-the-human-body/
    This is just a small list of vital organs in the human body.
    Eating at BMR and staying in bed should maintain things as long as you do nothing at all.
    Most people who start using MFP dont really understand the importance of this BMR number.
    They jump in with both feet thinking "I'm going to lose soooooo much weight and be fantastic!"
    What they dont understand is by not eating back calories from working out, they are netting below BMR.
    The only people who should be eating below BMR are folks who have had Gastric Bypass, 500-700 cals/day, or people who are morbidly obese and only for an extremely short time and only prescribed by their "Nutritionist".

    Most people who eat at or below BMR will lose weight for a short time.
    20-50% of most weight lost on a Very Low Calorie Diet is from Lean Mass.
    This is the opposite of true dieting.
    Most people who diet want to have better looking bodies and live a healthy life.
    They want to reduce fat mass and raise lean mass.
    Eating at BMR or lower actually maintains fat mass while dropping lean mass.

    If the body does not get enough energy from calories in, it will seek ways to slow itself down.
    Leptin levels drop, cortisol levels rise.
    Anabolism stops and catabolism begins.
    The body switches gears hormonally and tries to maintain fat, a non active tissue that stores energy, by burning lean mass, an active tissue that uses calories.
    So in essence fat mass starts to stay the same while lean mass drops.
    You can see how this can extend your dietary lifestyle right?

    Eating at or below BMR with intentions to eat back calories from working out is a convoluted way of thinking.
    We should be eating the proper amount of nutrients first, then creating a deficit with our workouts!
    That way if you miss a workout, you still have the proper nutrients in your system.
    Youll actually have more energy eating right and sleeping right than if you jumped into a VLCD.
    This has been proven!

    3) Body Fat%
    So many people dont really know what their body fat% is.
    I'm shocked every time I ask a member and they dont have a clue!
    Some people dont even know what a safe BF% should be!

    Athletes (6-13% for men, 16-20% for women)
    Fitness (14-17% for men, 21-24% for women)
    Acceptable (18-25% for men, 25-31% for women)
    Obese (25%+ for men, 32%+ for women)

    A good way to diet correctly is to set a body fat% goal as opposed to a weight goal.
    The human body fluctuates up to 5lbs on average daily!
    That would drive any person crazy who likes jumping on the scale every 30 mins!
    Measuring body fat is a more sane approach to the diet.
    Expecting a 2-5% change in a month is certainly acceptable in the lower ranges.
    In the higher ranges it really depends on your BF%, macronutrients and workout routine.
    An interesting paper written by Martin Berkhan, creator of www.LeanGains.com talks about the amount of fat the human body can burn in a day. After reading it I started working out 3 times a week and had better results than working out 5 days a week.
    https://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=160054937436250

    Understanding body fat and how you lose it will certainly keep you from hopping on the scale every day and probably have you running up to GNC for a handy set of calipers $20.

    So now that I have given you the 3 most important numbers to always know while dieting, i'll give you a good source to figure all this information out on your own.
    This was the first source I used to help myself and countless others to lose weight.
    Once you have this link you can keep using it as you drop weight and body fat to recalculate your numbers.
    Remember that as lean mass rises and fat mass drops, youll have different nutritional needs!

    To truly benefit from a FAT BURNING program you will need to have some type of resistance training.
    If you are not lifting weights or doing body weight workouts, you will have a very hard time maintaining lean mass while in a caloric deficit.
    I always suggest for gym goers, the Stronglifts 5x5 or Starting Strength programs.
    Both teach basic compound moves and can help catapult your strength.
    I'm sure you can find many other lifting programs but do keep in mind, if you lift Minnie Mouse dumbbells youll have Minnie Mouse muscles. =D

    Cardio is great for accelerated fat loss but if you are overweight or obese I would only recommend a brisk walk.
    Every pound of fat on your stomach is 8 on the knees and 10 on the upper back.
    Once you get down to an acceptable BF level then run to your hearts content.

    So here is the link.
    Use it in good health!

    visit http://www.fat2fitradio.com/tools/
    Do the Military Body Fat Calc first, then the BMR tool.
    The Military BF calc is accurate up to about 2%.
    The BMR tool will give EXACT calories to eat on a daily basis.
    This number is static and I only recommend eating back so your NET is at least 200 above BMR.
    Add 20% to suggested calories to know your TDEE.
    Use the Katch McGardle BMR number to know your BMR.
    Never eat at or below BMR.
    For Fat loss plans set up macros at 30% Protein/Fat.
    This % is only because MFP wont allow single %.

    For more fine tuned macronutrients.....
    1g Protein per lean body mass or total goal weight.
    .35-.60g Fat per LBM or total goal weight.

    Most of the time these numbers are close to 30% of total daily cals.

    If anyone has any questions feel free to ask.
    If I missed something important please let me know.

    Hugs!
    =D

    "Great bodies are built in the kitchen and while we sleep! Everything else is secondary."
  • MinkyMoo13
    MinkyMoo13 Posts: 354 Member
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    I have been stuck for 2 months at the same weight fluctuate btwn 150-154 very frustrating going to the doctor to get referred to a nutrionist for help so no your not alone.

    Thanks Same as - Hoping to get reffered to a dietician soon
  • pinkita
    pinkita Posts: 779 Member
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    Ditto to eating more. And if you haven't already done so, change your weekly weight loss goal on MFP to "lose 0.5lb per week."

    ETA: Calculate your Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR). Do NOT eat below that number because you'll slow down your metabolism eating that way. And measure yourself once a month rather than just focusing on the # on the scale.
  • headlock_lynn
    headlock_lynn Posts: 79 Member
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    Perhaps you're not eating quite enough for the amount of calories you are burning? Remember that you need a certain amount and if you are exercising well then you will be making muscle and that weighs heavier than fat. Stick with it. Don't give up. Slow and steady weight loss if far more effective than a quick jump. But I know how discouraging it is when you don't see those pounds coming off. They will eventually so don't worry. Stay with it.