Those of you who have lost 40+ pounds

How exactly did you do it?? What foods did you cut out of your diet?? How many hours a day did/do you work out?? Did you ever allow yourself drinks with friends or drinks on weekends????? I need to switch some things up because I am a stand still for over 2 months now... Help
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  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    Ok- I will try my best to answer them all. I didnt cut out food as much as checked the nutritional values/calories when making food choices and I would pick the yummiest thing with the least amount of calories. I eat 6 times a day. I work out 6 times a week. I still drink once in awhile.

    Interestingly enough, I had to add calories into my diet daily to break plateaus. I started eating back some of my exercise calories burned. I only at some because I never trusted MFP exercise burn amounts. The weight started to fall off again and I am never hungry ever.

    I hope this helps
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    Ok- I will try my best to answer them all. I didnt cut out food as much as checked the nutritional values/calories when making food choices and I would pick the yummiest thing with the least amount of calories. I eat 6 times a day. I work out 6 times a week. I still drink once in awhile.

    Interestingly enough, I had to add calories into my diet daily to break plateaus. I started eating back some of my exercise calories burned. I only at some because I never trusted MFP exercise burn amounts. The weight started to fall off again and I am never hungry ever.

    I hope this helps



    how many hours a day did you work out????
  • hapoo100
    hapoo100 Posts: 926 Member
    around 30 minutes if I am running (I do 5k a few times a week)
    around 1 hour if I do strength/job (i do a few times a week)
    around 1 hour-2hours if I am playing basketball
  • kr3851
    kr3851 Posts: 994 Member
    I have lost 65 lbs over the last two years - I haven't cut out anything, just cut back on portion sizes. At the start I was exercising 1.5 hours 4x a week, not eating back calories. Then I started eating them back. Now, I have a fitbit so just eat to maintain a 1000 calories deficit in my day, regardless of how much (or how little exercise) I do. I'm in a bit of a rut at the moment (eating chocolate and then having to work it off) but I'm slowly getting my head around my binge issues, even if that doesn't reflect in my diary.

    I've been consistently losing about 5lbs a month for the last 3 months - which is where I want it to be. Not too fast, not too slow. I have about 40lbs to go.
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
    50 lbs. lost this year. Walking and not much else. Eating a lot better then I was.
  • ipsamet
    ipsamet Posts: 436 Member
    I have cut absolutely nothing out of my diet, I just make sure to meet my calorie goals. If I cut things out then I wouldn't feel like I could sustain this longterm and that's the point of this whole thing! I do drink, again - this is a lifestyle! I pick lower calorie things, and make sure I get a good workout in that day to make up for it and drink lots of water. I work out 5-6 days a week, depending on the week for about an hour a day.
  • rharris86dc
    rharris86dc Posts: 635 Member
    I also didn't really cut anything out of my diet - except soda. I dropped that bad habit first, then started making healthier choices, and really paying attention to portion sizes. I knew that if I made any food "off limits" I would cave and binge, so I just stuck with a serving of what I wanted, and made sure to have the calories for it.

    I worked out 5 days a week - three days of weights and two cardio (usually Zumba). I also found that to get through some plateaus I needed to add calories to my daily intake in order to keep losing. I would eat three meals, and 2-3 healthy snacks a day, that I carried in my bag, and drank a TON of water. It's all I drink now, really. But occasionally I will have drinks with friends, too.

    You can do it! Good luck!
  • aproc
    aproc Posts: 1,033 Member
    It was a while back but I just switched out my lunches and breakfasts for healthier options. Lots of fruits and veggies. I still ate what I wanted for dinner and went out with friends to eat on weekends. I actually never exercised aside from colorguard practice. It was years ago though. I just made sure to keep track of my calories and made most of my meals big from veggies or fruits so I felt more satisfied.
  • moran1917
    moran1917 Posts: 1,133 Member
    i try to net about 1000 calories a day (net is after exercise)....1200 is the goal but on major workout days like today that can be hard. this means i generally eat about 1600 calories a day. it took some time to figure out how many calories worked for me.

    exercise began with couch to 5k for treadmills, then i added bridge to 10k once i could do the 5k. when i was doing bridge to 10k i also was doing 30 day shred. so i started at around 30 minutes a day and worked my way up to about 85 minutes a day. currently i run 10k three times a week, walk 8k with my dogs four times a week and i am doing jillian micheals body revolution. i have developed a love affair with exercise. i eat back what i have to of my exercise calories. sometimes i am so hungry i eat them all back, sometimes i don't eat any back. i listen to my body.

    sometimes....about once every two weeks i do not worry about calories. i just go out for a nice dinner and have a few pints. for food there is nothing i "cut out", but there are many things i have cut back on. i just focus on making my macros and calorie counts.
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    How exactly did you do it?? What foods did you cut out of your diet?? How many hours a day did/do you work out?? Did you ever allow yourself drinks with friends or drinks on weekends????? I need to switch some things up because I am a stand still for over 2 months now... Help

    1) Nothing is cut out. I eat a lot less of some foods (like refined carbs) and a lot more of others (fresh veggies and protein). We cook virtually all of our food, but that isn't a change I made when I started losing weight...we've always done that. I just eat less and plan higher calorie foods into my day. You can look at my diary; it's open. Foods that should be treats finally ARE treats, versus things I have whenever I feel like it.

    2) I am at the gym 5-7 hours a week. I also have more activity in my daily life too...more walks for the dog, bike rides with the family, etc. I love exercise and it's now a very important part of my life.

    3) Yes. I had a very nice vodka soda last night, I drink (good) beer when I go out and there's great stuff on tap, I go out for dinner a few times a month.

    Generally: When I am good I am very very good, and when I am bad I am horrid. Apparently that balance works well for my weight loss; I have lost 113.5 pounds and never once plateaued. I had weeks where I didn't lose but those were generally following one of those horrid weekends I mentioned above.
  • scrang37
    scrang37 Posts: 21 Member
    I cut out as much sugar as possible, cook more at home, and drink lots of water. As for exercise, I have 5 kids and work outside the home so I typically would try to get in 3 days at the gym. However, in the last 5 weeks I haven't made it once, but I am still losing weight:) When I hit a plateau for about 3 weeks I was ready to give up. Instead I had a spike day and ate double my calories then started eating right the very next day. Amazingly enough, that must have helped because I lost 2 lbs that week. After that I also decided to take measurements instead of just looking at my scale. I continue to have success and wish you well:D
  • shamr0ck
    shamr0ck Posts: 296 Member
    I have lost almost 60 pounds, but it took 1.5 years to do it.

    i upped my protein, cut my carbs way back except for one day a week, when i allow myself more. Increased water intake, and i work out about 15 hours a week. That include 9 hours of weight training, and the rest cardio. i've recently started doing intervals on my cardio training, and it released me from a plateau. Just needed to change things up, i guess.

    It seems more likely that the weight will stay off when it comes off slowly, so i'm happy with my progress. And these days i worry more about moving my bodyfat percentage downwards, and less about scale weight.

    I've got from a size 16 to a size 6. :D
  • Kimmer2011
    Kimmer2011 Posts: 569 Member
    I didn't cut anything out totally. I do try to eat as well as I can as often as I can, but I also have splurges sometimes.

    A big thing for me is getting out for a walk. I try to walk at least half an hour every day. I really got away from it over the winter, and I'm glad to be back to it.

    It's a long road, but so worth it!
  • femme62209
    femme62209 Posts: 327 Member
    I don't cut out any foods, I just eat in moderation and I make sure that what I am eating stays within my calorie goals for the day. I have a splurge day about every 2-3 weeks where I don't count anything. I find that this helps to jumpstart my losses again, especially now that I am nearing the end of the losing weight part of my journey (I only plan on losing 12-15 more pounds and it's getting harder to shed those). Next, I plan on moving on to some serious weight training.

    I only drink water and skim milk. But I was that way before I started to lose weight. I just don't like alcohol. My decision to not drink has nothing to do with weight loss. I try to drink 12 cups of water every day.

    I workout 6 days every week and make sure to get my rest day in. I do NOT spend hours in the gym. In fact, I have only been to an actual gym to work out maybe 3 times since I have started to lose weight. I LOVE workout DVDS, especially Jillian Michaels. I also love running and swimming. Truthfully, the large majority of my workouts last between 30-45 minutes except if I'm going for a long run (more than 5 miles). This has worked for me. When I workout, I go hard and I push myself but I don't feel like I need to go for hours to see results. I have lost 82 pounds this way.

    I hope this helps you! Best of luck and congrats on your loss so far!
  • janet0513
    janet0513 Posts: 564 Member
    I have lost 53 pounds so far. I did not cut anything out. If I want something, I work it into my calories (including alcohol). I do find that at this point I don't want much for "junk food" because it isn't worth the calories and I don't have cravings like I used to. I aslo make sure that I eat plenty and I don't feel deprived at all

    As for working out, I go to the gym 3-4x/week and do weights (about an hour) and 30 min cardio. The days I don't go to the gym, I try to walk.
  • Bagman12002
    Bagman12002 Posts: 216 Member
    How exactly did you do it?? What foods did you cut out of your diet?? How many hours a day did/do you work out?? Did you ever allow yourself drinks with friends or drinks on weekends????? I need to switch some things up because I am a stand still for over 2 months now... Help

    I work out 5 days a week 1hr to 1,5 per day, eat normal food just watch the porition size, Drink every now and then, The big thing for me was portion size, and lots of water. Good luck
  • cheermom11
    cheermom11 Posts: 393 Member
    I also didn't really cut anything out of my diet - except soda. I dropped that bad habit first, then started making healthier choices, and really paying attention to portion sizes. I knew that if I made any food "off limits" I would cave and binge, so I just stuck with a serving of what I wanted, and made sure to have the calories for it.

    This is pretty much what I did - soda was my big vice. In addition to exercise, I also started paying attention to macros, making sure I was getting all of the health benefits too.
  • CVALGAL
    CVALGAL Posts: 108 Member
    Hi. I've been losing consistently for the last 8+ months. I haven't really cut out much, I just eat less of everything. Trying to eat balanced meals. But i do have a sweet tooth. I just don't binge anymore, and dont eat quite as many fried foods. My doc told me to workout more days of the week than not, so that means at least 4 days a week. I've been trying to get 5-6 here lately though.My workouts are generally between 30 minutes to an hour. But I also try to be more active in general. I have hit several plateaus along the way but like Hapoo...I found that when i increased my calorie intake, I would start losing again. I don't drink alcohol so I cant help you with that. Hope you are able to find what works for you!
  • LatinaGordita
    LatinaGordita Posts: 377 Member
    Please keep in mind that when I started in january I started at 226, so lost weight quicker than someone who is lighter.

    I exercise 5 to 6 times a week, typically its zumba for 60 minutes. I just started C25K. I try to ride my bike every now and then to shock my body or do a workout video to change it up, but never miss zumba unless I have to work.

    As far as my diet I do not drink alcohol, never did though. I follow 1200-1300 cals a day.

    I also watch nutritional information. I watch my carb intake, I eat carbs but keep it at 100grams or less. My macros are 30% carbs, 40% protein and 30% fat. I try to stay away from fast food, but at least once to twice a month will hit a Denny's, Sweet Tomatoes, Chilli's. Most of those times I am able to stay within my cals, but other occasions when I have to have desert (chocolate is my alcohol) I go way over. But its a rare occasion. I only had 2 weeks since January where I did not have a loss.

    This plan works for me, not everyone may agree with it, and it might not work for them.
  • UrbanRunner81
    UrbanRunner81 Posts: 1,207 Member
    modest calorie deficit (eat above BMR for your net), cardio 4 times a week, lifting weights 3 times a week. Cardio maybe 30 minutes at a time, weights for 30 minutes, too (some days would have both cardio and strength). At least one rest day a week, too. I didn't cut anything out. Everything in moderation. If I could go back I would cut back on the drinking. I am doing that now though..
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
    I did it one step at a time. First thing I did was to cut out empty calories like sodas, alcohol & fruit drinks also fast foods. However I still eat normally. Then when I discovered MFP, that's where the big change came because although I was losing prior to MFP but I plateaued & had no idea that I was eating way too much calories. It actually took me 3 years to lose 50 lbs. or 22 kilos.

    As for my workout, I started out doing 30 min cardio 3x a week & then up the workout days & intensity later. For now I workout 6 days a week, 3 days for heavy weight lifting & 4 days cardio (since I'm on cutting phase so I have to up my cardio).

    Even though I already achieved my weight loss goals, I keep on improving myself. Although I'm very happy about what my body achieved but I don't stop improving my physique.
  • angieleighbyrd
    angieleighbyrd Posts: 989 Member
    I cut a lot out.

    Fast food. Pop. **** like that.

    But....if I had calories left and I wanted something I ate it.

    I've had cheat days. Hell all last week was a cheat week.

    I go to the gym 3-4 days a week and mostly do cardio.

    I also do pilates and yoga twice a week and play a few fitness games on my kinect 3-4 times a week.

    I'm still learning.
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    How exactly did you do it?? What foods did you cut out of your diet?? How many hours a day did/do you work out?? Did you ever allow yourself drinks with friends or drinks on weekends????? I need to switch some things up because I am a stand still for over 2 months now... Help

    How did you do it? - Counting calories, tracking EVERYTHING even a bite of something. Not lying, doing it for myself, but before I could even start, I had to find something I loved about myself and go from there. I Had to find my self worth, I had to believe I was truly worth being better before I could be better.

    What foods did you cut out of your diet? - The only food I've truly cut out is fried foods. I do not allow myself to eat fried and honest I don't miss it...

    How many hours a day did/do you workout? - I work out 4-5 times a week and I work out probably about an hour every day. Not all the time but that's my average.

    Did you ever allow yourself drinks with friends or drinks on weekends? - I drink a glass of wine every now and then, once in awhile my husband and I will go out and I'll have a drink. I don't deprive myself, this is after all a life style. If I deprive myself I won't do it after my weight is off.

    Sounds like a Plateau you are at, I suggest zigzagging your calories, tricking your metabolism.
  • KettleBellHoe
    KettleBellHoe Posts: 161
    I weighed 180 at age 15. Mostly muscle from Mixed martial arts but also way too much fat percentage from all the junk I considered to be food.
    I started dating my Boyfriend Dan at 16, hes all about health and putting good **** into his body so I decided to transform myself .

    I cut out all sodas,all corn syrop/artificial flavor products, nothing in cans or packaged for convenience(so much salt)
    No white flour products,nothing with MSG or Trans Fat, no alcohol, no coffee.

    It's important to take vitamins everyday especially Fish oil because the omega 3/6 fats help you metabolize fat and gives you a higher mood because fish oil niacin and glutamine is what your brain basically eats.

    Green tea,hemphearts,salmon,oats,spirulina,all seaweeds,all fruits and veggies << these were my secrets, Whole Foods

    Lots of cardio(x3 a week or more) plus strength training which is very important because building lean muscle and losing fat percentage go hand in hand.
    So my favorite exercises are using the Kettlebell(1 minute of kettlebell is 20 calories! )elliptical,,jogging,Pilates(for nice bum,lower abs and thighs), And any kind of martial arts training is ideal as it focuses on making you a lean mean fighting machine.

    What I did definitely works because I am just under 130lbs now, Although it did take me well over a year to get there.

    Progress not perfection, your body is undergoing a transformation it can't be rushed.
    It is a beautiful thing so cherish the time you put in with your body to become happy and healthy.
    -Kiera
  • Abrowe313
    Abrowe313 Posts: 189 Member
    i stopped eating fast food except for subway, i drink nothing but water and green tea now , i gave up drinking diet pepsi which was a huge thing for me. and i try to work out at least 4 days a week. i have drank alchohol during my weight loss but try to keep the cal intake under my daily goal no matter what.
  • Civeng1
    Civeng1 Posts: 11
    I'm down 46 pounds. I don't work out at all and have done this with sensible diet. I cut my calories down to the level recommended here. the home run was losing my apetite for sweets and carbs by cutting back. I have some carbs each day, but never feature them with a meal. I don't drink hardly anyway, so that didn't affect me, but I did cut out all drinks except water and green tea, with an occasional cup of coffee unsweetened.
  • PixelTreason
    PixelTreason Posts: 226 Member
    You are going to find that people have many different ways to reach their goals and lots of them work. You can choose your own that woks for you!


    I lost about 50 pounds over 9 months or so. (167 to 115)

    I cut out "white" carbs - bread, pasta, rice, potatoes. In fact, I didn't even have whole wheat bread/pasta, or brown rice for a long time. Only now that I am maintaining have I brought some whole wheat and grains back into my diet.
    Cutting out a good chunk of grains helped a lot, if only because it took away a lot of calories that I then filled with whole fruits, veggies and lean meats!

    I also cut out as much added sugar and processed foods as I could.
    Oh, and I drink only water, almond milk, coffee and tea.

    I always had a "cheat" day (still do) where I still exercised and stayed in my calorie goals for the most part but ate foods I had been missing (pancakes, ribs, cornbread).

    I did a lot of cardio, mostly on the elliptical. Six days a week for 30 minutes to an hour of high intensity work.
    (Now that I am maintaining I have worked in strength training along with jogging. The elliptical sits unused in the corner except for rainy days!)



    That was just my way. There are many others!
  • dovesgate
    dovesgate Posts: 894 Member
    How exactly did you do it?? What foods did you cut out of your diet?? How many hours a day did/do you work out?? Did you ever allow yourself drinks with friends or drinks on weekends????? I need to switch some things up because I am a stand still for over 2 months now... Help

    I didn't cut anything out, I just started following portion sizes and keeping track of how many calories I ate. It helps that I haven't liked wasting precious calories on drinks for years anyway (I drink diet soda, coffee with creamer and sweetener, and water).

    I currently work out about an hour and a half at least 5 days per week (I'm in a challenge) but at first I did 30-45min cardio per day or a session of 30DS.

    I did and do still go out for alcoholic drinks sometimes. Sometimes when I go I limit myself to Diet Coke if I haven't got the calories. It still looks like I'm having my usual rum and diet but no one but me can tell there is no alcohol so I don't feel left out. I'm probably a better dancer without the alcohol anyway.
  • wisebadger53
    wisebadger53 Posts: 382 Member
    I didn't stop eating anything that I wanted. I learned to control my portions, stay within my calorie limits, and eat more of the "healthy" stuff and less of the "junk". As far as food, I eat lots of fruit and vegetables now, probably more chicken, turkey, lean beef, and fish than I ever did before, and have found many ways to make protein shakes that are much more nutritious than the ice cream that I used to crave (and just as tasty).

    I work out 4 - 5 times a week for 45 - 60 minutes with lots of cardio and some strength training mixed in every other day. I started running a couple of months ago, and yesterday I ran my first 5k.

    I am 58 years old, and have lost 84 lbs. in just under 8 months without denying myself much of anything...in fact I had a beer this afternoon, just because it was a beer kind of day. If you make changes that you cannot maintain over time it will be very difficult to maintain any weight loss. This is a lifestyle change - not a diet and exercise program.

    Good luck with your goals - if I can do it anyone can! :drinker:
  • nheilweil
    nheilweil Posts: 82 Member
    I stuck to 1,200 calories a day after exercise (which is 1,000 cal under my TDEE and amounted to a weight loss of about 2 lbs. a week). So, if I burned 400 calories at the gym, I'd eat 1,600 calories (1,200 & 400).

    I do cardio every day for a minimum of 30 minutes. Started out walking (two 15-min. sessions) and progressed to joining a gym and hitting the elliptical machine for a higher calorie burn. Some days I'd go to the gym twice just to burn some extra calories!

    At first, I just tried eating less of everything I normally ate, but I couldn't stand the small portions and feeling hungry. I quickly learned to make better food choices -- big salads with loads of veggies and just a little balsamic vinegar, TONS of broccoli, lean proteins with every meal, drinking lots of water. I would joke "I've never eaten so much food in my life as when I've been on a diet).

    I also got a body fat scale so that on weeks where I might show no weight loss, and I'd otherwise conclude I had stalled, I could see that my body fat was going down.

    OK, so I've shared what works for me, but what about you? How many calories do you eat each day? How often do you work out? Is there anything else besides you weight which has changed over the last couple months -- like less body fat, a smaller waistline, etc?

    Finally, I'd say -- if you're stuck change something...eat less and workout more!