New to MFP-Looking for friends/support

Hi! I'm Amanda and recently joined MFP (yup I'm a newby). My husband and I found out we where expecting and I was 16 weeks when I lost my baby boy (Nov 1, 2011). Ever since my miscarriage I can't get myself motivated. I have 20+ pounds I need to lose and looking for support/friends to motivate myself. I know I can do this but it's hard especially if you feel like your on your own. I'm on everyday and log my food/excercise. Thanks for adding me if you decide to and God Bless!!

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  • hikerchic
    hikerchic Posts: 23
    I had a similar experience. I lost a baby at 24 weeks, a little boy too. Part of the problem with getting back into weight loss was that I was depressed and it is hard to find the will to loose weight when you are depressed, even if just a little. It is worse because you may even eat more when you have emotional eating problems, which I do. Time is actually your friend. The lose will always be there, everyday thought of..but you will come to a time when you can focus more on other things that make you happy. You are not on your own in any trail you are forced to overcome. It is the human experience,.Someone has been through it too and many can relate and give true compassion. I am one....
  • mygrlz02
    mygrlz02 Posts: 32
    Sorry for your loss but so happy you have decided to join MFP. There is nothing better than to have a good support system in any endeavor. Much luck to you and I'll be adding you on here.....we can motivate each other. :flowerforyou:
  • mmsilvia
    mmsilvia Posts: 459 Member
    Sorry to hear about your loss :frown: But, on a happier note welcome to MFP :happy:

    Please feel free to add me for support
  • 2befit2
    2befit2 Posts: 58 Member
    so sorry, I'm glad you are here and you can add me:smile:
  • nikkibello
    nikkibello Posts: 64 Member
    I'm so sorry about your baby, that's terrible:-) You can feel free to add me to your friends list!
  • nikkibello
    nikkibello Posts: 64 Member
    Meant to do a frown face...