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WelcomeToWonderland
WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
edited December 20 in Motivation and Support
Someone asked me what i was looking forward to most when i got better (disease) and lost the weight and i've been really thinking about it and i think what im looking forward to the most is going on a REAL date and to get my confidence back. I've never been asked on a date before so im really looking forward to that. Oh, and to wear my high heels again, god, i miss my heels :tongue: And to be able to say this to everyone who has been cruel about my weight.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3umaLe37-LE


So what are you guys most looking forward to when you get to your goal weight?
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  • skinnyminnay
    skinnyminnay Posts: 20
    I hope everything goes amazing for you! I think for me its wearing cute clothes.Actually,more like looking cute in clothes.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I'm looking forward to wearing a single digit size again. It's been a long time for me, and I am hoping to be able to share clothes with some of my friends again.

    I'm also looking forward to being in the best shape of my life.

    I wish you all the best with your struggles. I'm dealing with some serious health concerns as well, and I admire your ability to look forward. It's hard sometimes when your body just doesn't work the way it should. :hugs:
  • milleric
    milleric Posts: 25
    Ill be looking forward to looking/feeling better in tight shirts and being more agile and able to use my body better in climbing/riverboarding/mountain adventuring. Im also liking the more attention I get from girls lately, Ive always been confident, but now its working better.
  • aleham
    aleham Posts: 44
    Hm... intellectually, I'm really excited about not being tired and lacking in motivation because I'm feeling depressed/lazy. I'm not only looking forward to the benefits from my better health but the mental benefits from making a commitment to something really important to me and then following through with it.

    I'm hoping that the more I try to focus on my health as opposed to "being skinny" the less insecure I'll be. I know that losing weight won't relate to how I actually feel about my body and my self esteem, but I want to transform that through this journey.

    On a completely superficial level, I'm looking forward to having a really nice *kitten* and those sexy oblique lines on my stomach. I'm hoping that I'll be able to lose enough fat and build enough muscle to have the kind of body I've always envied and wanted.

    See what I mean? Heh.
  • amyram
    amyram Posts: 108 Member
    Wow I just read your bio and I would say your an insperation to all of us that only have a little weight problem to overcome. Great job and keep it up, I would say someone that has overcome everything you have can probably accomplish anything you want to.
    I will quit complaining about missing a few calories out of my day now.
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    @amyram Thank you so much. A little complaining every now and then is good for us. besides we all have our own things in life that we have to overcome, whether its an illness, a tragedy, or even an eating disorder (over eating or under eating) so a compliant here or there is always good to get rid of carrying it around. =]
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    Get in line, old man! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    Get in line, old man! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I'd say 'Race your *kitten*!' but that would be dating suicide (for you...I'm not stupid enough to do it on foot...I'd use my bike lol). So we'd have to wrestle for her =p.
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    I nearly hit my goal weight, but switched to maintenance for running and lifting. Now it's all about dropping the little extra fat while putting on a few more lbs of muscle, and running faster.
  • Elf_Princess1210
    Elf_Princess1210 Posts: 895 Member
    Someone asked me what i was looking forward to most when i got better (disease) and lost the weight and i've been really thinking about it and i think what im looking forward to the most is going on a REAL date and to get my confidence back. I've never been asked on a date before so im really looking forward to that. Oh, and to wear my high heels again, god, i miss my heels :tongue: And to be able to say this to everyone who has been cruel about my weight.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3umaLe37-LE


    So what are you guys most looking forward to when you get to your goal weight?

    Going to my 20th high school reunion looking fabulous! :)
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    hahahaha 18 years aint that much, my parents are 22 years apart :p
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    hahahaha 18 years aint that much, my parents are 22 years apart :p

    Ok...now if we could just figure out the ten billion miles thing...we'd be set!
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    hahahaha 18 years aint that much, my parents are 22 years apart :p

    Ok...now if we could just figure out the ten billion miles thing...we'd be set!

    HAHAHAA nahh ya'll couldnt handle me i'm too much of a wild child ya'll couldn't keep up with me ;) lol
  • MyNewZen
    MyNewZen Posts: 101 Member
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    Get in line, old man! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    I'd say 'Race your *kitten*!' but that would be dating suicide (for you...I'm not stupid enough to do it on foot...I'd use my bike lol). So we'd have to wrestle for her =p.

    Look at you guys fighting over a pretty girl.... *Jumps into the fray*

    Wonderland, you will get to do all that and more :smile:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    hahahaha 18 years aint that much, my parents are 22 years apart :p

    Ok...now if we could just figure out the ten billion miles thing...we'd be set!

    HAHAHAA nahh ya'll couldnt handle me i'm too much of a wild child ya'll couldn't keep up with me ;) lol
    Lol...that would be an interesting proposition =p.
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    This topic rocks lol. If you weren't ten billion miles away, and 18yrs younger than I am...I'd take you out in a heartbeat.

    hahahaha 18 years aint that much, my parents are 22 years apart :p

    Ok...now if we could just figure out the ten billion miles thing...we'd be set!

    HAHAHAA nahh ya'll couldnt handle me i'm too much of a wild child ya'll couldn't keep up with me ;) lol
    Lol...that would be an interesting proposition =p.

    P.s. i'm stealing your bike. it's look better on me anyways :wink: ......
  • Twilightsunflower
    Twilightsunflower Posts: 324 Member
    i really want to take my husbands breath away... there was a moment when we got married when i heard him take a breath it was deep and sounded like he hadnt in a few moments i want to do that again...
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    i really want to take my husbands breath away... there was a moment when we got married when i heard him take a breath it was deep and sounded like he hadnt in a few moments i want to do that again...

    Omg, That is like so romantic. We all need more romance in our lives. ahhhh so sweet.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    i really want to take my husbands breath away... there was a moment when we got married when i heard him take a breath it was deep and sounded like he hadnt in a few moments i want to do that again...

    That...is absolutely wonderful...seriously.

    You Miss...are on a roll tonight.
  • Cgirlish
    Cgirlish Posts: 263 Member
    You go girl ... stay strong it sounds like you been thru alot...

    Connie
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    @CaitlinPatton P.s. soo in love with your wedding dress <3
  • Twilightsunflower
    Twilightsunflower Posts: 324 Member
    thanks it was a gift from my mom..she only got to see me in it when we got it.. i moved 3000 miles away to get married...and we couldnt afford to fly our whole familys out here...
    romance is nice but love is something we all need more of...it make me sad how little love is vauled... it is a great gift
  • viannee
    viannee Posts: 52 Member
    I love this topic!

    I have a lot on my list. lol
  • bonogul
    bonogul Posts: 96 Member
    when i read about you i thought of this video :
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TRUSTEKRp0
    I hope all goes well, no scratch that. I know all will go well with you, you seem to be very motivated and strong.
  • Twilightsunflower
    Twilightsunflower Posts: 324 Member
    i think this needs a bump to start some positive moving around
  • WelcomeToWonderland
    WelcomeToWonderland Posts: 89
    I agree. I want to hear some more good things! there's been so much negativity on the boards lately
  • TXPaul
    TXPaul Posts: 74 Member
    I want two things. First, I want to retake my health and second to be comfortable in my own skin again. This heart thing has held me down too long and I’m going to win!

    You have an amazing attitude Wonderland and I take inspiration from you. I know you will put on those heals and go out on that date soon! As far as confidence goes….I think you’re okay with that now.
  • Cgirlish
    Cgirlish Posts: 263 Member
    lol read this last night when i couldnt sleep, it was still on my computer when I got up this morning so watched the video... My hubby asked, since when did you go country on me ...
  • lucy0326
    lucy0326 Posts: 54 Member
    I'm looking forward to wearing cute clothes that are off limits right now due to my weight... on top of that Im looking forward to the look on everyone's face when I go back and visit my home town where Im known as the "fat" girl :D But most of all I'm looking forward to being healthy and living my life normally. Like you've never been asked on a real date due to the fact that Im shy because of my weight, but thats all slowly changing :D
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