the things that drives me bananas...

so, as my profile says, i live in the uk with my bf, now im going home in 2 weeks, last time i went i was at my highest weight ever and now i went from 220 to 192, so 28 pounds lost, hope to make it to 30 pounds before i go.
so far nobody at home knows, except mom, coz its hard to keeps anything from moms, so out of my excitement i sent her a picture of me while we were talking on the phone, well, the first thing she says was,,, well your face still looks round, ................... and that was it,
i mean, i wouldnt have liked it fom anybody, but from my mom ? the one that is suppose to support me ... could she not have said anything else ? even lie for my morale sake ?
the thing is going home and surprising everybody was a huge motivation for me, i really did my best, nearly had any cheat days or off days from the workout, and its made my whole excitement in question, maybe i just made a big deal out of nothing, maybe nobody will notice. i will not have been in vain because i feel great, and today i went shopping and bought a size 18 (us size 14) thats 2 sizes down and is a miracle, since that i havent been that size since i was 14..lol

something else thats put me down yesterday, i go swimming with my mother in law, everytime she comes she insist to take me out for lunch after, now i prefer to go home and have that healthy homemade broccoli soup that is waiting for me, i tell her that and tell her that shes invited. but she insists and insists to the point where i give up and say ok, so we get there and theres a huge cake counter, and i say, ho gee, those look good, well that was her cue (and my mistake) she started insisting for me to have a cake, she knows i dont eat that kind of things anymore, she knows that i am really trying hard, why does she feels like she needs to sabotage everything ? (believe me, i did not have cake, i promise !!!!!!!!!)
arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

sorry to vent,
whats the things that have been getting on your nerves lately ?
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