I'm new and need some support

Hello to all! I'm new and need some support to keep me going. I have two girls under 3 and sometimes I just dont know where to find the time. lol My husband trys to support me, but he is a soldier in the army. So alot of time we never know when he will be home. (Which is why it is hard to hit the gym...) Anyone willing to give me some moral support and maybe a little push here and there? Please I need it and need to lose some weight before we transfer up to Alsaka...