Future Trophy Wives Wanted...Apply here

mrsjs140
mrsjs140 Posts: 15
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I am married to the absolute best man and he deserves so much more than what I've been bringing to the table lately. Now, I know that I have let myself go over the years but I didn't realize how much so until tonight when I looked at pics of myself on my mother-in-law's camera. OMG! What in the world happened to me? My skin is gray, I look pregnant, and I have more than two chins. More importantly when did that happen to me? Sad? Yes. Something to cry about? Yes...maybe a little, but I attend to correct it ASAP!
I've browsed this site and it seems like a great place. I would love to meet other wives who are looking to do some natural lifting, tucking, pulling, and snapping things back into place. If any of you are out there please send me friend request. Here's hoping to be a future Little Black Dress wearing Trophy Wife.
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  • dreamer9096
    dreamer9096 Posts: 2
    I totally agree! Not only do I want to lose the weight to be sexy for my husband, I want to feel sexy for ME!! We will get into that little black dress. :)
  • laurynmcl
    laurynmcl Posts: 13
    Yes we will!
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  • bgator1985
    bgator1985 Posts: 16
    1) Good luck on your goal! :)


    2) I need to make a duplicate post just like this, with a different purpose :):):)
  • bhayes82
    bhayes82 Posts: 37
    Well, that's it, I'm never getting married.
  • specialkyc
    specialkyc Posts: 384 Member
    That's me!! Friend request coming your way.
  • leomom72
    leomom72 Posts: 1,797 Member
    i hear ya..i knew i was fat before, but i never knew how much until it was pointed out so much i felt like dying..i too wondered how i let myself get that way..im almost to my goal, but after i get there, time for me to tighten up the saggy skin..good luck to you
  • Blessedmommy_2x
    Blessedmommy_2x Posts: 419 Member
    I love this post... Who doesn't want to look good for their hubs?

    Honestly though for a while I got quite frustrated with myself seeing how badly I had let myself go... I wanted to lose the weight for ME, to look good for the hubs AND be a good example for my kids... SO I can TOTALLY see where you are coming from! Feel free to send me a invite, I have already reached my goal weight... but now I am working towards my goal body! :wink:
  • dvisser1
    dvisser1 Posts: 788 Member
    Welll....even as a guy I'm no trophy....

    Just wanted to say welcome! No one got fat overnight and you can't get fit overnight, but if you make every day a step forward you will get to your goal.
  • livinfitanfun
    livinfitanfun Posts: 122
    You can add me as well!! My husband is in super great shape and want to look just as good too! Serious about losing weight and being healthy!
  • cupcakelou383
    cupcakelou383 Posts: 19 Member
    LoL, hey now.. we get back to our former sexy selves! I was married for 6 years and had 3 kids.. and look at me now! Hard to believe I used to be overweight.
  • k2quiere
    k2quiere Posts: 4,151 Member
    I thought this was a thread paying homage to Sass...:ohwell: *backs out quietly*
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    I thought this was a thread paying homage to Sass...:ohwell: *backs out quietly*

    ^^^ this.
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    I want my future man to be proud of me. I want to show him off in the best ways, and give him the best best best fantasies in the bedroom!

    Im online often, and support as much as I can :)
  • jvelasquez28
    jvelasquez28 Posts: 21 Member
    I feel ya! I feel so bad for mine cuz of how I let myself go, BUT NO MORE!
  • missymuffet459
    missymuffet459 Posts: 162
    Amen!! The thought of buying sexy lingerie and modeling for my husband is a HUGE motivator. I can imagine his jaw dropping when I first come out!!!
  • TDGee
    TDGee Posts: 2,209 Member
    Most of us are really quite simple, here's a few tips.
    1. Learn to cook what we like and be ready with a sammich and a beer.
    2. Do not have any items on your "Do Not Do" list. Yes, I'm talking about intimate stuff here.
    3. Don't nag. You might think you are being helpful by reminding us we need to do something, but it's nagging. You could look it up.
    That's pretty much it, I think.
    Good luck on your journey. :flowerforyou:
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    If you were to look at April. it would pretty much clean things up.
  • mrsjs140
    mrsjs140 Posts: 15
    Most of us are really quite simple, here's a few tips.
    1. Learn to cook what we like and be ready with a sammich and a beer.
    2. Do not have any items on your "Do Not Do" list. Yes, I'm talking about intimate stuff here.
    3. Don't nag. You might think you are being helpful by reminding us we need to do something, but it's nagging. You could look it up.
    That's pretty much it, I think.
    Good luck on your journey. :flowerforyou:

    :laugh: My husband doesn't have any complaints.
  • Lillyeatslillies
    Lillyeatslillies Posts: 78
    Here here, I'm getting married August 2013 and I'm trying to get hot for the dress in my closet!
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    I thought this was a thread paying homage to Sass...:ohwell: *backs out quietly*

    lmao, yes. i was going to say 'MEEEEEEE'. XD
  • littlemiss5foot1
    littlemiss5foot1 Posts: 75 Member
    Most of us are really quite simple, here's a few tips.
    1. Learn to cook what we like and be ready with a sammich and a beer.
    2. Do not have any items on your "Do Not Do" list. Yes, I'm talking about intimate stuff here.
    3. Don't nag. You might think you are being helpful by reminding us we need to do something, but it's nagging. You could look it up.
    That's pretty much it, I think.
    Good luck on your journey. :flowerforyou:

    hmmm 1. learn to cook we arnt your mothers..
    2. dont put ridiculious things on the list and there wont be a list.
    3. Remembering stuff.... we wouldnt have to nag if u just did it.
    4. theres always more... ahhaha

    ;)-
  • julesw734
    julesw734 Posts: 100
    Love this post also.. I would love to join for a little black dress of my own
  • Bealach_Bug
    Bealach_Bug Posts: 52
    Friend request sent, I've a black dress in my wardrobe I'd love to get into and you've reminded me about it - Fantastic post btw
  • kykykenna
    kykykenna Posts: 656 Member
    I can relate! Yes, doing it for me. Yes, doing it because he likes it.:bigsmile: I was always fit. Got pregnant, and things went haywire from there....lol.....I once asked him "Why didnt you say anything when I was heavy?" (DUH.....haha).......and he said "Well, I thought you were still beautiful, first off. And secondly, I just had to wait it out as I knew you were the type of person that wouldnt be able to stand it for very long. Now look at you.". :bigsmile: I may not be a trophy wife by some standards, but he walks around saying "I always said I was going to marry a MILF"....LOL (And good luck to you! You can do it.)
  • lynnetted43
    lynnetted43 Posts: 252
    i would be glad to help. i have been there. 316 the day i delivered my 2nd child. there no more and never will be again!! thank goodness!! friend me please!!:smile:
  • sailorsiren13
    sailorsiren13 Posts: 460
    I want to make sure i will still be wife number 2 for another 20 years we have been together for 18 already !!!! so anyone feel free to add me!
  • foxie247
    foxie247 Posts: 5
    Love it!!!!! I am trying to get better for me for once which I know the trophy wife will come in the process w/ confidence- ;)
  • TrophyWifeSass
    TrophyWifeSass Posts: 490 Member
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    Trophy Wife here. Best thing I did was transform.

    :heart: Sass
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    When we got married, my husband told me that he looked at my mom and asked himself "Will I want to hit that in about 40 more years?". When he decided he would, he knew I was The One.

    I just stay in shape in case I ever need to take him down in hand-to-hand combat. Then, I will buy myself a trophy with his money.

    Is that what you meant? It probably isn't. I never answer these things correctly...
  • saracatherine89
    saracatherine89 Posts: 291 Member
    LMAO! I love this!!

    I've been dating my boyfriend since I was a sophomore in college. When we first met, I was the lightest I had been since 8th grade, and I will admit it.... I looked SEXY. My boyfriend was in a fraternity and is very athletic, but he was an "engineer"...need I say more? All of his friends were commenting on how lucky he was that he had a 'hot girlfriend'. His own AUNT told him that 'she didn't expect him to get such a pretty girlfriend'. I was flattered. But, this was short lived. We both gained a lot of weight during school, but he was 6'9 and barely 200lbs when we first met, so his weight gain only made him look even more attractive. By the time I had graduated college, I had gained over 60lbs. Being 6'0 myself, it was not the end of the world, but I was no longer that smokin' hot tall blonde girlfriend he had snagged...I looked like Miss Piggy! (and I have been called that once or twice).

    Anyways, being an engi-nerd and all, he naturally got an INCREDIBLE job right out of college. I always worried that he would find a more attractive girl since there are a fair share of golddiggers out there and he is quite an attractive and successful man. That is one of the things that inspired me to lose weight- because I wanted to always be that 'hot girlfriend' and hopefully someday that 'hot wife'. And for the record- he still loved me just as much when I was at my heaviest. I've lost 30 lbs since and I am halfway to my goal and I definitely am on the way to being a trophy-wife!

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