Getting Fed Up! Nothing seems to work!

Hi edjoyce13. I'm in the opposite category as you. I am a male trying to gain weight. Id like to be 20lbs heavier. Ive tried for close to 5 years now. So many different approaches using my own educational knowledge. I believe the only way to find what works for you and your body type is to try different things. Now to address your situation....I'm not familiar with the special K diet, however from the sounds of your weight loss/gain trend, it seems like your "yo-yo" ing. Which means what it sounds like. Your weight is going up and down. Now there are a couple of reasons why this happens. When we limit the nutrients entering our body, our body "steals" calorie energy from our stored reserves. These reserves consist mainly of fat and muscle. So when you take in few calories our body takes from our fat and muscle tissue to meet our energy demands. Now you might think this is what you want, as you will be losing weight. However, your body will generally take from your muscle tissue (including your heart muscle) for readily than your fat stores. the ratio is 60/40 fat to muscle. So when we maintain this diet state for a length of time, at the end we are left with a smaller and lighter version of our previous body. Even worse is our body has lost muscle mass making your metabolism come to a crawl. Metabolism is your body's rate of eating up energy (calories). Muscle is highly metabolic where as fat and bone is virtually not metabolic at all. So now you've successfully "programmed" your body to put on weight, and fast! Solution: Do not deprive your body of nutrients and energy. Instead eat a healthy and balanced diet with emphasis on green vegetables, fruits (berries!), and lean protein. Still eat some fat and carbohydrates though, just not as much. For the most important part...you need to exercise. Not just cardio exercise either. You want to lift weights and build muscle. Because remember: Muscle is metabolically active. Muscle is what burns calories and eats fat. For an example, Micheal Phelps the Olympic swimmer, eats upwards of 8000 calories a day including insane amounts of fats and carbohydrates. My final tip is this.....you need to stick with it and honestly exercise is the key. People tend to gravitate towards dieting because it is "easier" than exercising. But the truth is, exercise is absolutely the key. In your case where you have a history in the medical department, I recommend proceeding with caution when it comes to exercise, or consult a doctor. You'll get there eventually. I recommend checking out www.exercisetemple.com. They have free eBooks and some free information that might help. And don't be afraid of nutritional (vitamins, minerals, protein) supplements. They are very good for you!!!

I am NOT an expert, but I have been doing Weight Watchers for years and learned a few things. These things you already may be doing, but here goes;

1) up your veggies and fruits. Lower your carbs and when you do eat carbs , eat complex carbs. (Rice, oatmeal.)
2) Drink lots of water
3) Have calcium every day (there is something in the calcium that makes you lose weight. I eat yogurt)
4) Limit sweets and soda to bare minimum
5) Take a multi-vitamin every day.
6) Eat your required calorie intake every day, eating less will cause your body to store calories instead of burn them.

Start there, and If I think of anything else I will let ya know! Good Luck! :flowerforyou:

Ok, I have been trying to lose weight...in the last four/five years I have gained about 60lbs. I had two emergency C-Sections, Chemo for Hodgkins Lymphoma, emergency gall bladder removal, and my tubes tied after three misscarriages. While my husband was deployed I managed to go from 250 to 200, then I get put on some new meds after he gets home by my therapist and I have gained 40lbs in 4 MONTHS! I work out, I follow the special K diat, and I cook most of our meals. Do I always eat "healthy" no, I like sweats and sugar and caffine, and I am from the south so you know we love our fried foods, BUT it has been VERY cut back. BUT I can not lose weight...I can not lose inches...I am hating myself for it. I don't know what else to do, I don't want to try supplements but what else is there...It took me a year to get to 200 lbs and only 4 months to get back to 240...I don't get it. Anyone else had problems like this?

Hey by any chance is ur new med a form of anti depressant? Those can make u gain weight like crazy

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Check with your therapist to see if there is another medication you can take. Don't stop taking what you are on, but definitely speak with your doctor about this.

You've had a rough time. Don't beat yourself up. It's not time to turn to supplements.

Most of us grossly underestimate our calorie intake. Start tracking every bite and see if your calorie intake is as low as you think it is, if you're not already. Those fried food meals add up QUICKLY. It's really tough to log a deficit day after day. a few fried meals and POOF a whole week of deficit eating can be out the window. It sucks to look at it all mathematically but you can then make informed decisions. I don't want to know the calories in pizza and beer, but it's better I face the math. Now a slice of pizza or a beer taste terrific but I know I can't have 3 of each and not gain weight. But it's better than "all or nothing". Don't try to never eat your favorite foods. Just eat less of them, less frequently. Much less. ; )

You're body has been through hell and back the last few years. Maybe it just needs a break. Talk to you dr about possibly changing meds. You may need to find your maintenance number and eat healthy, nourishing things for a while. I'm not saying cut anything out, just put the emphasis on the good stuff.

I am no fitness expert (obviously lol), but I agree with what this poster said.
Take some time and give your body what it needs, a rest.
Nourish your body with some good fruits and veggies and a well rounded diet along with some walking.
You have been through a lot and stress can reek havoc on a body.
Taking tender loving care of yourself along with a thyroid check sounds like the route to go.

Good luck again!