Discouraged and in need of some serious help...

I have been on stall mode for about 6 weeks now. No weight lost, no inches changed. Despite drinking all my water, staying under my calories, and making a point to get in exercise at least twice a week, nothing is working. I upped my calories 2/3 weeks ago and started doing more strength training (lots of leg squats and a little bit of arms). I even started cycling my calories to try and boost metabolism. But still, nothing.

If anyone has any ideas that could help me, I am all ears. Because as of late...well I am just about ready to accept my fate.

Here's my background:
Female
19 yrs old
About 5ft 4
Currently 140 lbs
Goal 120 lbs (which is on the lower end; ideally I want to be 130lbs, but set it lower to push myself more)
Current calories are 1,380
I have asthma (so no jogging/running/sprinting for longer than about 5 mins)
My arms hyper-extend (With my hand palm down, I can flip my elbow almost all the way around) which makes arm exercises such as weights and push-ups difficult
My legs also hyper-extend, but is less problematic because my leg muscles are stronger

If you look at my diary (I'm not sure if it's open or not), the past 2 weeks have had a lot more fast food (being home from college and constantly traveling will do that), but even before the barrage of sodium nothing was changing.

If somebody can help me, I would be so grateful. I'm just very, very discouraged right now :cry:
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  • Bumping this in the hopes someone will see it and help me out.
  • crudd123
    crudd123 Posts: 244 Member
    Your diary is not public! But what I did to break a plateau is I cut my carbs down to 60 a day for a week and I lost 3 pounds! Try playing around with how many carbs you eat a day and see if that helps! Good luck to you!
  • Try taking a week off from working out. Sounds crazy, but that got me through a couple of plateaus before (it was recommended by a nutritionist I met with). Good luck!
  • mcarter99
    mcarter99 Posts: 1,666 Member
    You are at a healthy BMI now so any loss is going to take extreme vigilance and patience. I'd cut out the fast food 100%. The calorie counts on those are based on spec portions and I think they give you a lot more in reality. I'd cut down to 1200 calories. If you're not losing at 1380 you're burning less or tracking wrong, assuming no body composition changes. If you're tracking wrong, you'll probably still be tracking wrong at 1200 and eating more than that but you'll be lower and should lose. Whatever you try, give it a month before trying some new idea. It's too hard to tell what's working without really giving one thing a good span.

    I've never heard of loose joints barring someone from exercise. Can you dance? Play Wii? Do yoga? Swim? Walk more? Lots of options!

    Good luck!
  • Thanks everyone!

    Mcarter: if course it doesn't stop me from working out. It just makes certain strength training exercises more challenging because my joints are more likely to pop out and become locked or injured. I have actually been doing a lot of exercise lately, as I've been umpiring youth softball (and chasing those kids around the bases is pretty tiring!)
  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
    I stalled for long long time as well. I thought I logged everything honestly but I didn't. Last month I started really logging, I mean truthfully. and I started losing again.

    I am not saying you are cheating...it's hard to get everything accurate even using the database here. But it might be something you can look into?

    Good luck!
  • mcarter99
    mcarter99 Posts: 1,666 Member
    Thanks everyone!

    Mcarter: if course it doesn't stop me from working out. It just makes certain strength training exercises more challenging because my joints are more likely to pop out and become locked or injured. I have actually been doing a lot of exercise lately, as I've been umpiring youth softball (and chasing those kids around the bases is pretty tiring!)

    You look terrific. Most of the world does 'resistance training' without ever touching a dumbbell or barbell. Rock climbing, yoga, cycling (uphill for resistance), squats, lunges, crunches, hiking (uphill), gardening (lifting bags of soil and squatting, etc.), parenting (lifting heavy babies), carrying home the groceries ... Don't feel like you need to pump iron to stay healthy! Good job on the umpiring.
  • Thanks everyone!

    Mcarter: if course it doesn't stop me from working out. It just makes certain strength training exercises more challenging because my joints are more likely to pop out and become locked or injured. I have actually been doing a lot of exercise lately, as I've been umpiring youth softball (and chasing those kids around the bases is pretty tiring!)

    You look terrific. Most of the world does 'resistance training' without ever touching a dumbbell or barbell. Rock climbing, yoga, cycling (uphill for resistance), squats, lunges, crunches, hiking (uphill), gardening (lifting bags of soil and squatting, etc.), parenting (lifting heavy babies), carrying home the groceries ... Don't feel like you need to pump iron to stay healthy! Good job on the umpiring.

    Thanks. I like to do Wii games (Just Dance 3 is awesome!). And with the umpiring, there are lots of squats! I've been trying really hard to make this work, but I can't seem to drop any weight. I was at 150 when I started, which is "obese" for my height. But it seems ever since I hit that BMI of 24 (barely healthy), I just can't get anymore weight or inches to go. And I'm trying to eat better, as someone before mentioned cutting all fast food from my diet, but I have to travel for umpiring and my sister's softball and the only thing around is fast food. I'm never over my calories either.

    And addressing the earlier comment about only eating 1200, I did that about 8 weeks ago and it sent my body into shut-down. I had no energy, got ill easy, and soon wasn't eating even the 1200. I brought it back up to the 1300's because my body needed it. I'm just getting frustrated =(
  • I am definitely in the same position :( I just got into the 24-ish BMI range and now I feel like my body doesn't want to budge! This week even, I decided no carbs and a lot of exercise (3 aerobic sessions, walking dogs for 30 minutes a day) but it made no impact.
  • I am definitely in the same position :( I just got into the 24-ish BMI range and now I feel like my body doesn't want to budge! This week even, I decided no carbs and a lot of exercise (3 aerobic sessions, walking dogs for 30 minutes a day) but it made no impact.

    If you find something that works, let me know!
  • angelashay42
    angelashay42 Posts: 286
    If I were you I would revamp my diet. Cut out all the junk you're eating. No more fast food! That stuff is toxic. It's all chemicals, you might as well be eating plastic. I know you're still within your calories but they are not nutritious calories. You can't get enough vitamins/minerals/fiber on all that junk.

    Try eating 50% fruits and veggies, 25% whole grains (oatmeal, wheat pasta, wheat bread, brown rice) and 25% meat/dairy.

    Believe me, your body will thank you. You will feel better and you'll have more energy.
  • Krys_140
    Krys_140 Posts: 648 Member
    Have you tried actually going over your calories on one day, then staying within your calories for a few days, then going over again? I forget what that's called, but it has helped a lot of people through a plateau.
  • u can try doin aerobics for high impact for 5 minutes then cool down for 2 min and get back to high impact again... play with your body metabolism... try including oats in your food... have oni oats at dinner and have a healthy breakfast...

    try and see...
  • angelashay42
    angelashay42 Posts: 286
    If I were you I would revamp my diet. Cut out all the junk you're eating. No more fast food! That stuff is toxic. It's all chemicals, you might as well be eating plastic. I know you're still within your calories but they are not nutritious calories. You can't get enough vitamins/minerals/fiber on all that junk.

    Try eating 50% fruits and veggies, 25% whole grains (oatmeal, wheat pasta, wheat bread, brown rice) and 25% meat/dairy.

    Believe me, your body will thank you. You will feel better and you'll have more energy.


    From the Taco Bell website:
    Ingredients in just the taco shell:

    Ground Corn treated with Lime, Water, Fumaric Acid, Cellulose Gum, Sodium Propionate, Sorbic Acid, Coloring, Dextrose, Carmine, Maltodextrin, FD&C Yellow #6 Lake. Oil: High-Oleic Low-Linolenic Canola Oil, TBHQ Dimethylpolysiloxane (An Antifoaming Agent). White Corn Flour, Water, Fumaric Acid, Cellulose Gum, Preservatives (Sodium Propionate, Sorbic Acid), Coloring (Dextrose, Carmine, Maltodextrin, FD&C Yellow #6 Lake), Trace Of Lime. Oil: High-Oleic Low-Linolenic Canola Oil, TBHQ (To Protect Flavor), Dimethylpolysiloxane (An Antifoaming Agent).

    You don't even want to know what they put in the meat. Make your own tacos at home with real meat and veggies. =)
  • Christine1110
    Christine1110 Posts: 1,786 Member
    Weightloss if 70% diet.... Building muscle will really help you too.

    If you cut out all processed foods premade & fast foods, sugar, starchy foods, and only eat good carbs ...fruits & veggies. You will lose weight!!
  • 70davis
    70davis Posts: 348 Member
    bump
  • RenitaDeShanne
    RenitaDeShanne Posts: 20 Member
    I have asthma also but I exercise at least 6x per week using the elliptical or walking on the treadmill so far I have not had an attack yet. I think you should increase the cardio and lay off the fast foods ( I know it's hard but It can be done). Also consider watching how much carbs and sugar you intake into your system.
  • IcebergRose
    IcebergRose Posts: 1 Member
    Well - I am about your height - a lot older - and weigh 134kg - I lost just .25 kg last week and I have been careful. I can empathise as it is discourageing.

    Trick is to be honest with yourself and really look at what you are eating carefully - read the packets - weigh your food if necessary and you will find where those tricky calories are hiding. They will be there if you look for them.

    Almost all take away food for me is deadly - any take away in any week seems to stop all weight loss for me and result in weight gain if I am not super careful. While you want to loose weight stay away from take away - eat five to six small meals a day and try to avoid lying to yourself. Pack some snacks in your handbag and prepare your own meals so you know what is in them.

    You have done a great thing by sharing your angst here because we all share similar struggles. My tip - be totally honest with your self so you can face your self denial kindly and gently - the truth will help you see what is hidden from you right now. Then just keep going - you may be eating what you need to stay at this weight so thats nice to know.
  • CrystalDreams
    CrystalDreams Posts: 418 Member
    I have asthma and I can work out and swim. Its not really an excuse.....
  • steph124ny
    steph124ny Posts: 238 Member
    I would start by getting your asthma under control. You should be able to go longer than 5 minutes. If you can't, then you probably need your meds adjusted. My daughter has pretty severe asthma, but she is also a competitve gymnast. We've had to stay right on top of it, but your doctor should be able to help you more.
  • angelashay42
    angelashay42 Posts: 286
    Weightloss if 70% diet.... Building muscle will really help you too.

    If you cut out all processed foods premade & fast foods, sugar, starchy foods, and only eat good carbs ...fruits & veggies. You will lose weight!!

    I agree. Diet is almost everything. I lost my first 20 lbs with very little exercise at all! I just cleaned up my diet and cut out fast food, junk food, soda, and processed sugars. Started buying all my food at the grocery store and making it at home. I felt so much better, I stopped having headaches (which I used to get at least once a week) and had so much more energy. You can do it, it just takes a little extra time.

    Start thinking of healthy food as fuel and processed food as garbage.
  • Mindmovesbody
    Mindmovesbody Posts: 399 Member
    Hi! I suggest checking out the group Eat More to Weigh Less! It saved me through a plateau. There is an excellent read there on plateau as soon as you open up the link to the group. The name of the group can be deceiving. They are not promoting over eating and still losing weight, just eating above your BMR and below your TDEE! Check it out, you won't be sorry. Good luck!
  • MCsAngel2
    MCsAngel2 Posts: 49 Member
    Only one person has mentioned this so far, but I think your carbs are too high. Like, really. Low carb doesn't work for some people, but it does seem to work amongst all the women I know who've done it. I aim for 50g net carbs per day (total carbs minus total fiber), but I *really* try to make sure I don't go over 75g net carbs. The days I come in under 50g net, are really, really effective for me. In fact, I only need 2 days a week that low to see loss.

    Even if I'm under my calories....it doesn't seem to really matter. The carbs matter. Cut out the fast food and sugary stuff. Up your protein and healthy fats (like nuts). The good news is proteins and fats make you feel full longer than carbs do.
  • belinus
    belinus Posts: 112 Member
    Remember to give your body time to reset itself its new state too.
  • Laying off the fast foods is not an option. It's I eat the fast food or I don't eat at all. And that has nothing to do with me deciding that I can't live without McDonald's. I'm not at home most days, I'm on the road traveling every week. Does anyone have any tips for eating healthier at fast food restaurants?

    And, for all the other asthmatics commenting, I understand that asthma does not prevent me from doing cardio. I don't recall ever saying that? I do a lot of cardio actually. I love the elliptical and dancing. I mentioned it because it does limit what I can do. My heart rate is naturally higher than most, even at rest. When I do cardio, it skyrockets. Add in decreased oxygen because of my asthma difficulties, and it rises even further. Then my vasoconstrictor disease kicks in, and my blood pressure drops. I'm not using it as an excuse for anything, I just wanted people who leave suggestions to not be like "oh, you should be running a 6 minute mile." Because, well, I can't. And before anyone calls bull****, my cardiologist would disagree with you.

    Thanks for all the support though. It means a lot to hear from everyone!
  • RuthSweetTooth
    RuthSweetTooth Posts: 461 Member
    Hi Nicolette,

    I'm currently taking a class on health and nutrition at my community college. This would be a really good idea and you can take one online. I too am having problems losing weight. . . and I know that I consume too many calories, and I usually go over by 200 every day which really irritates me if I am not on top of it before it gets in me. So I decided to really give this myfitness pal thing tracking and it helps to join communities to do that.

    So your post caught my eye. I took a look at your food diary. To maintain your weight of 140 without exercising, your basic metabolic rate is 1395 calories per day. You can eat more if you exercise. To reach 120 pounds, you will need to eat only 1304 calories per day without exercising. Fortunately it seems that you like to exercise, because if you don't, you will have a hard time getting enough nutrition.

    There is a big problem with your eating pattern. You are living almost completely off fast food or pre-processed foods. These contain not only high amounts of salt, but they also contain high amounts of fat, which is very hard to avoid getting too much of. You could eat so much more food if you were not eating things like french fries. Just think, how much popcorn could you eat instead of french fries for the same calories? You also don't eat much salad, fruits, or vegetables.

    Also, you need to eat breakfast. . . you have probably heard this time and time again, but like many dieters you're not hungry in the morning so you want to skip it. The reason you must do that is that if you do not spread your calories out through the day, the body will not be able to maintain homeostasis and it will constantly be worried about trying to maintain reserves instead of shedding excess weight. You should also get an afternoon snack, ideally a yogurt and a fruit. You also need to be sure to main calcium intake because your body is still building your skeleton. Did you know that you can view that in myfitnesspal? I just discovered that today in the reports. I take vitamins too to help, and today I entered all of mine and discovered that I can getting way more vitamin C than I need.

    Space out your food, eat better, eat less fat, and since you are short girl, you will always have to be vigilant. You're very wise to be thinking about losing weight now, because you cannot keep eating processed and fast foods. You need to pay attention to the quality of your calories as well. There is a reason it is called junk food.

    I hope this is helpful !
    Ruth
  • belinus
    belinus Posts: 112 Member
    If you're traveling a lot, do some research on your destination. Look at the places to eat and plan ahead. Also, look at places like Applebees and such and use their drive-up service.
  • deadstarsunburn
    deadstarsunburn Posts: 1,337 Member
    Have you tried actually going over your calories on one day, then staying within your calories for a few days, then going over again? I forget what that's called, but it has helped a lot of people through a plateau.

    Calorie cycling is what I call it or others call it calorie zig zag. There are websites that will help you calculate how many to eat each day of the week, so you're not necessarily ever "going over." The goals just change day to day =]

    It actually works really well. I haven't got that much more to go so I really hit a wall a couple weeks ago between calorie cycling and trying IF for a few weeks I was able to break the plateau.

    =]

    ** saw your post above, I have to travel often since I work in an IT department and when I know it will be an all day thing I pack food and snacks. If you're home even once every two days maybe you can make wraps that could last while you're gone?
    I guess I mainly don't like stopping at fast food because I just can't justify spending that much money on food when I can get more from the grocery store lol.
  • Hi Nicolette,

    I'm currently taking a class on health and nutrition at my community college. This would be a really good idea and you can take one online. I too am having problems losing weight. . . and I know that I consume too many calories, and I usually go over by 200 every day which really irritates me if I am not on top of it before it gets in me. So I decided to really give this myfitness pal thing tracking and it helps to join communities to do that.

    So your post caught my eye. I took a look at your food diary. To maintain your weight of 140 without exercising, your basic metabolic rate is 1395 calories per day. You can eat more if you exercise. To reach 120 pounds, you will need to eat only 1304 calories per day without exercising. Fortunately it seems that you like to exercise, because if you don't, you will have a hard time getting enough nutrition.

    There is a big problem with your eating pattern. You are living almost completely off fast food or pre-processed foods. These contain not only high amounts of salt, but they also contain high amounts of fat, which is very hard to avoid getting too much of. You could eat so much more food if you were not eating things like french fries. Just think, how much popcorn could you eat instead of french fries for the same calories? You also don't eat much salad, fruits, or vegetables.

    Also, you need to eat breakfast. . . you have probably heard this time and time again, but like many dieters you're not hungry in the morning so you want to skip it. The reason you must do that is that if you do not spread your calories out through the day, the body will not be able to maintain homeostasis and it will constantly be worried about trying to maintain reserves instead of shedding excess weight. You should also get an afternoon snack, ideally a yogurt and a fruit. You also need to be sure to main calcium intake because your body is still building your skeleton. Did you know that you can view that in myfitnesspal? I just discovered that today in the reports. I take vitamins too to help, and today I entered all of mine and discovered that I can getting way more vitamin C than I need.

    Space out your food, eat better, eat less fat, and since you are short girl, you will always have to be vigilant. You're very wise to be thinking about losing weight now, because you cannot keep eating processed and fast foods. You need to pay attention to the quality of your calories as well. There is a reason it is called junk food.

    I hope this is helpful !
    Ruth

    Thanks Ruth! I've struggled with finding the right balance of daily calories, because when I don't eat enough I feel it but I'm terribly afraid of eating too much. I know that fast food isn't healthy; I don't want to eat it. Unfortunately, as I keep saying, on the road it's all there is (after all, I travel with my family and I don't get to choose where we eat). When I'm home, I make the extra effort to eat healthy, but I'm not home often. =(

    Thank you so much for the advice though! I agree with you about breakfast (it's one of my worst habits; I sleep until noon, then eat my calories in two meals). I'll definitely work on getting my lazy booty up!
  • If you're traveling a lot, do some research on your destination. Look at the places to eat and plan ahead. Also, look at places like Applebees and such and use their drive-up service.

    Oh God, I wish! My dad and sister refuse plans like that. My family makes this so much harder =( Being healthy was a lot easier at college