Creeper ex boyfriends

I do! He actually stalks me on Facebook too. Didn't realize he was like that until years after we connected through that site. He messages me constantly and finally admitted he wants me back. Dude, it's been 20 + years, I'm happily married and just had my 5th child with the same man. I'm in no mood for a new relationship. I'm quite happy... I've had to block him.

I do! He actually stalks me on Facebook too. Didn't realize he was like that until years after we connected through that site. He messages me constantly and finally admitted he wants me back. Dude, it's been 20 + years, I'm happily married and just had my 5th child with the same man. I'm in no mood for a new relationship. I'm quite happy... I've had to block him.

EWWWWW... Seriously Creepy. Guess I've been lucky, but my 20 year HS reunion is next year... guess I cant rule it out :noway:

He'll constantly check up on me on facebook and comment on guys he sees popping up assuming I'm dating them. He's finally stopped calling recently since he went home to India but he would constantly call me every day and when I did not pick up, he would call 2 seconds later. That would continue until I picked up or turned my phone off. =/ Really glad he went back to India because I couldn't really be too mean since he was a manager at the hotel I worked for and once the guy who hired me left, my ex took his place.... So I needed him to be able to be a good reference for my job applications since moving to my new place..

Even after I broke up with him and moved, he would constantly call me and still called me by endearments and talked about the future. What the heck..

ex gf broke into my house and wrote a note for my gf at the time saying "I am f***ing your man *****"......btw she wrote this note in my daughters coloring book.......yikes. funny thing was is that i worked the same shift as my gf so i wonder when this was suppose to be happening...lol

I have the pleasure to work with my creepy ex. We work on the same campus lucklily not the same building. I still have to go passed him everyday because he does security. Anyhwo he was my bf in highschool, and i hadnt seen him in years. He now is married and a beautiful son and yet he always asks meout on dates. Im like WTF!! He always tells me how his wife is so sweet an dwonderful, yet why do u keep trying to cheat on her??!? I will never understand. I just hope his advanceds stop soon before I have to let his wife know!!!!!!!!

I have a creeper ex as well. Although I've tried to tell myself 100x that he "means well," its honestly getting a little out of hand.

He calls at least once a week to "check-in," drunk dials me at 2am, facebook messages me, and invites himself into plans that weren't supposed to include him. The tough part is, we have a ton of mutual friends. Some I met through him, some I knew all on my own, but I still hang out with them. Unfortunately, many times this social interaction also includes seeing my ex.

I have worked very hard to be friendly, but I get the feeling that my friendly disposition is being mistaken for feelings I'm supposedly hiding.

Whenever we happen to cross paths he always insists that I call or text when I get home safe. Now, don't get me wrong, its a nice gesture, but on the off chance that I forget, all hell breaks loose. He'll up and call me 12 times until I answer the phone, then he'll yell at me claiming he was worried. Again, I appreciate the sentiment, but BACK OFF.

I ran into him on Tuesday when I went out to karaoke with some friends, and he pulled the same "call when you're home safe" phrase, and I kind of cracked. I turned to him, and (rather *****ily) said "No! I do not have to report to you anymore."

I'm one of those girls who "cares too much" about everyone and am definitely the "mother hen" of my friends, so i have a hard time being deliberately mean to him in order for him to get the picture that we really are through, but it has been 2 YEARS since I broke up with him, and he's still holding on.

Props for dedication, but its just not going to happen!

Ugh.

Yeah, my ex boyfriend got arrested earlier this year for downloading child pornography...including pictures of babies in sexual acts. I dated him nearly 17 years ago, but the news was still shocking.

my partner has one of those. She started stalking us. Even went as far as to tell the police that he was the father of her 5 yr old little girl when we went to the police over harassment. they then classed it as domestic so did nothing to stop her. we ended up forking out over £600 to see a solicitor and paying for a private dna test so that she would leave us alone. They broke up almost 7 years ago and she is still obsessed.
i think its sad when people cling to something they cant have any more. Im lucky that I have a few ex's that are great. we talk all the time and are just friends. But this girl is just messed up crazy!

Yea, this has happened to me. I actually deleted my facebook because I wasn't really using it anyway, and he ended up messaging my friends about me because he couldn't contact me directly. The funny thing is that he was the one who dumped me, and now he wont leave me alone. Hilarious. And we dated over two years ago, so it's not even like it's recent! Even when one of my friends told him I was dating someone he still didn't stop. Weirdo.

Yeah...had some guy from his school try to add me. No mutual friends, not from the same city, don't go to the same school. I have the ex blocked/had a court-ordered communication block on him, so when this kid added me I searched to see if they were friends and ... well, look at that!

Like, are you really that dumb? I know you want to see what I'm up to, but no, you may not.

Yes! Me and my ex broke up in Novemeber, it was his choice and after 3 years, I don't love you anymore. Ouch. So I cried for about a week, picked myself up and carried on.
Lately, he's been pestering me to see him, asking if we should go out and 'be friends'. I said I didn't want to speak to him and a month later he messages me. He doesn't seem to want to leave me alone. I've had to block his phone number and facebook.

bump..these are too good to miss :laugh:

I had a boyfriend when I was 16, we broke up after a year and seven months after he cheated and ultimately left me for his ex. I then moved town after being accepted into university, and that's when the calls started. The texts. "I miss you, it's not the same without you, my new gf reminds me of you so much" blah blah.

I was able to ward him off for a long time, then one night he just went full throttle and pulled the most embarrassing trick I've ever seen.

He pretended to get hit by a car.

No, I'm not kidding. We were in a call, and he was getting upset, crying, etc. then was like "Oh **** a car AAAAH!" and then hung up. I cried there and then because 1. I was worried incase something actually happened 2. I was responding poorly to the stress he was putting me under.
He called later to apologise but he was "was desperate to win me back". He's a professional wrestler now, so hopefully he's living a decent life.