Creeper ex boyfriends

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Phoenix1401
Phoenix1401 Posts: 711 Member
Are the dumbest people you'll ever meet!
My creep made several fake profiles in the past year on Facebook trying to add me. Uh like I'm really going to add someone with no friends and no mutual friends but they're from same city where I'm from.
Finally he was bold last night contacting me through Fb messaging thing.
"How are you?" "We should meet up" "I think about you all the time everyday all day" "I know you can see this!" "You look amazing!"
Anyways I blocked him because he's creepy af
Anybody have creeper ex stories?
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  • spicypepper
    spicypepper Posts: 1,016 Member
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    I do! He actually stalks me on Facebook too. Didn't realize he was like that until years after we connected through that site. He messages me constantly and finally admitted he wants me back. Dude, it's been 20 + years, I'm happily married and just had my 5th child with the same man. I'm in no mood for a new relationship. I'm quite happy... I've had to block him.
  • thebaconbeast
    thebaconbeast Posts: 560 Member
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    Are the dumbest people you'll ever meet!
    My creep made several fake profiles in the past year on Facebook trying to add me. Uh like I'm really going to add someone with no friends and no mutual friends but they're from same city where I'm from.
    Finally he was bold last night contacting me through Fb messaging thing.
    "How are you?" "We should meet up" "I think about you all the time everyday all day" "I know you can see this!" "You look amazing!"
    Anyways I blocked him because he's creepy af
    Anybody have creeper ex stories?
    WOW and I thought my ex was bad :laugh:
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
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    I do! He actually stalks me on Facebook too. Didn't realize he was like that until years after we connected through that site. He messages me constantly and finally admitted he wants me back. Dude, it's been 20 + years, I'm happily married and just had my 5th child with the same man. I'm in no mood for a new relationship. I'm quite happy... I've had to block him.
    EWWWWW... Seriously Creepy. Guess I've been lucky, but my 20 year HS reunion is next year... guess I cant rule it out :noway:
  • MashaSK
    MashaSK Posts: 142 Member
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    Mine stalks me on FB too, 4 years after break when he has a wife and a child already and my picture is with my current bf
  • aproc
    aproc Posts: 1,033 Member
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    He'll constantly check up on me on facebook and comment on guys he sees popping up assuming I'm dating them. He's finally stopped calling recently since he went home to India but he would constantly call me every day and when I did not pick up, he would call 2 seconds later. That would continue until I picked up or turned my phone off. =/ Really glad he went back to India because I couldn't really be too mean since he was a manager at the hotel I worked for and once the guy who hired me left, my ex took his place.... So I needed him to be able to be a good reference for my job applications since moving to my new place..

    Even after I broke up with him and moved, he would constantly call me and still called me by endearments and talked about the future. What the heck..
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
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    My ex went as far as requesting games against me on words with friends and chatting so that so that his fiance....yes fiance wouldn't find out...he would be also text me and when she wasn't around....always telling me how he missed the awesome "fun" weve had....he is married now. But still contacts me.....he really needs to lose my number.
  • tinytubbs
    tinytubbs Posts: 54
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    ex gf broke into my house and wrote a note for my gf at the time saying "I am f***ing your man *****"......btw she wrote this note in my daughters coloring book.......yikes. funny thing was is that i worked the same shift as my gf so i wonder when this was suppose to be happening...lol
  • Mhaney
    Mhaney Posts: 467 Member
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    I dated a guy in HS, when I dumped him he stalked me that entire summer, he came to my summer JROTC camp and everything. Followed me and my mom into the underwear section at Sears. He 3-way called me one day with his new gf cause he wanted to introduce us. I guess he was trying to make me jealous.

    Last I seen him in walmart he was still creepy as ever with a wife 3x my size and her thighs were eating her 2-sizes-too-small shorts.
  • ShannanLaNae
    ShannanLaNae Posts: 434 Member
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    I have the pleasure to work with my creepy ex. We work on the same campus lucklily not the same building. I still have to go passed him everyday because he does security. Anyhwo he was my bf in highschool, and i hadnt seen him in years. He now is married and a beautiful son and yet he always asks meout on dates. Im like WTF!! He always tells me how his wife is so sweet an dwonderful, yet why do u keep trying to cheat on her??!? I will never understand. I just hope his advanceds stop soon before I have to let his wife know!!!!!!!!
  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
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    Yeah, my ex boyfriend used to stalk me. He used to call me all the time, message me on facebook, bug my friends to get me to go out with him again, etc. He did my head in, AND I was (and still am) in a relationship!
    He would send me messages like 'Hey sexy, you should come to mine and have some fun' and all that. He'd call me when I was with my boyfriend and ask me to leave him.
    He just didn't get it! So I blocked his number from my phone, and blocked him from facebook, and all of my friends basically threatened him to leave me alone.
  • saduffy913
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    I have a creeper ex as well. Although I've tried to tell myself 100x that he "means well," its honestly getting a little out of hand.

    He calls at least once a week to "check-in," drunk dials me at 2am, facebook messages me, and invites himself into plans that weren't supposed to include him. The tough part is, we have a ton of mutual friends. Some I met through him, some I knew all on my own, but I still hang out with them. Unfortunately, many times this social interaction also includes seeing my ex.

    I have worked very hard to be friendly, but I get the feeling that my friendly disposition is being mistaken for feelings I'm supposedly hiding.

    Whenever we happen to cross paths he always insists that I call or text when I get home safe. Now, don't get me wrong, its a nice gesture, but on the off chance that I forget, all hell breaks loose. He'll up and call me 12 times until I answer the phone, then he'll yell at me claiming he was worried. Again, I appreciate the sentiment, but BACK OFF.

    I ran into him on Tuesday when I went out to karaoke with some friends, and he pulled the same "call when you're home safe" phrase, and I kind of cracked. I turned to him, and (rather *****ily) said "No! I do not have to report to you anymore."

    I'm one of those girls who "cares too much" about everyone and am definitely the "mother hen" of my friends, so i have a hard time being deliberately mean to him in order for him to get the picture that we really are through, but it has been 2 YEARS since I broke up with him, and he's still holding on.

    Props for dedication, but its just not going to happen!

    Ugh.
  • ImKindOfABigDeal40
    ImKindOfABigDeal40 Posts: 807 Member
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    When my ex and I split, I deactivated my facebook account. After a month or so, I received a welcome back message from facebook. The only way this happens is if you sign back into your account and I hadn't. My ex was the only other person on this planet that knew my password.
  • Tristis
    Tristis Posts: 288 Member
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    Yeah, my ex boyfriend got arrested earlier this year for downloading child pornography...including pictures of babies in sexual acts. :( I dated him nearly 17 years ago, but the news was still shocking.
  • Tristis
    Tristis Posts: 288 Member
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    Forgot about this other guys. I never dated him...we hung out. About 6 years after we stopped hanging out, a myspace account with my name popped up. Apparently, he uses it to store photos of me so his girlfriends don't find out. Weirdo!
  • honeyrose25
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    my partner has one of those. She started stalking us. Even went as far as to tell the police that he was the father of her 5 yr old little girl when we went to the police over harassment. they then classed it as domestic so did nothing to stop her. we ended up forking out over £600 to see a solicitor and paying for a private dna test so that she would leave us alone. They broke up almost 7 years ago and she is still obsessed.
    i think its sad when people cling to something they cant have any more. Im lucky that I have a few ex's that are great. we talk all the time and are just friends. But this girl is just messed up crazy!
  • 76pounds
    76pounds Posts: 31 Member
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    omgosh.
    That sounds terrible, exes can be a real pain in the *kitten* ! :p
    Mine wasn't really creepy but he was clingy after the breakup. -___-
    Never texted me until he needed something (aka someone to cry with)
    Pathetic.
  • BVannillie
    BVannillie Posts: 140
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    Yea, this has happened to me. I actually deleted my facebook because I wasn't really using it anyway, and he ended up messaging my friends about me because he couldn't contact me directly. The funny thing is that he was the one who dumped me, and now he wont leave me alone. Hilarious. And we dated over two years ago, so it's not even like it's recent! Even when one of my friends told him I was dating someone he still didn't stop. Weirdo.
  • bathsheba_c
    bathsheba_c Posts: 1,873 Member
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    Unfortunately, women are taught to be polite and nice, even when it's dangerous. The only thing to do with creepers is to tell them to never speak to you again, and then follow through on that until they [hopefully] get bored and give up. Also, it's best to have a written record of that to take to the police.
  • thetrishwarp
    thetrishwarp Posts: 838 Member
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    Yeah...had some guy from his school try to add me. No mutual friends, not from the same city, don't go to the same school. I have the ex blocked/had a court-ordered communication block on him, so when this kid added me I searched to see if they were friends and ... well, look at that!

    Like, are you really that dumb? I know you want to see what I'm up to, but no, you may not.
  • thetrishwarp
    thetrishwarp Posts: 838 Member
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    Unfortunately, women are taught to be polite and nice, even when it's dangerous. The only thing to do with creepers is to tell them to never speak to you again, and then follow through on that until they [hopefully] get bored and give up. Also, it's best to have a written record of that to take to the police.

    EXACTLY THIS.

    I had to say explicitly "I never want you to contact me again" - and then kept a log of all subsequent attempts at communication that were then taken to the police. He did 1.5 years of probation.