Do you follow a certain diet or do you just track calories?

Since I started my weightloss journey I have followed two different "diets"

1. Low Carb/High Protein
2. Ashy Bines Clean Eating Plan: Basically low carb, no diary, no processed food, no sweetners etc.

I have hit a point where I am binging every other day and always thinking about food. I think it is because I feel so deprived. I have dropped 3 dress sizes and although I would like to lose some more weight, it is no longer my major goal over overall fitness and health.

I also feel that I have formed an unhealthy relationship with food, and view things as either "good"or "bad". For instance, I really want to eat oats for breakfast but they fall under "bad"as they are carbs, so instead I eat egg whites with spinach and onion and sometimes tomato but tomatoes have high sugar so only sometimes. It is such an unhealthy mindset and I am really worn down.

I'm thinking about just eating what I want, but tracking my calories to make sure i'm eating the right amount.

Example:
Baked blueberry and apple oats
Protein shake (if hungry)
Rye sandwich with tuna, lettuce, carrot and onion with light mayo.
0% Chobani
Quest protein bar (no sugar/sugar alcohols)
Peanut chicken skewers with sweet potato and steamed greens


That is just under my calorie goal + I will be exercising. I am really nervous about eating intuitvely and what I want.. I don't know why I have such issues with food. Am I the only one?
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  • pg3ibew
    pg3ibew Posts: 1,026 Member
    I just track calories. I eat what ever I want when ever I want. Check out my Diary if you want. Today was a real bad day though. LMAO.
  • saraann4
    saraann4 Posts: 1,296 Member
    I just track calories. If you want to eat oats, then by all means eat oats. Carbs are not the enemy. If it's in your calorie intake, go for it. Don't limit yourself. It's all about maintaining a calorie deficit. The only thing I refuse to eat now is fast food. Maybe every once in awhile.
  • saraann4
    saraann4 Posts: 1,296 Member
    Since I started my weightloss journey I have followed two different "diets"

    1. Low Carb/High Protein
    2. Ashy Bines Clean Eating Plan: Basically low carb, no diary, no processed food, no sweetners etc.

    BTW, are you going to do low carb/high protein or Ashy Bines plan for the rest of your life? I'd hope not. Just track your calories.
  • angrodriguez92
    angrodriguez92 Posts: 193 Member
    I think it is more satisfying to simply track calories and try to eat as healthy as possible, lots of whole foods. Oats are not bad, ha. You just have to make sure you balance the day. If what you are doing now wears you down and makes you unhappy, you should change it. Health isn't just about diet and fitness. It's about being happy, playing, and doing things that please you.. also.

    My diet is, a salad a day with lots of raw veggies in it, sometimes hard boiled egg/s.
    Omelets with veggies.
    I eat a smoothie in the morning with fruit and nonfat chobani/fage yogurt.
    Some kind of cooked veggie dish with nuts in it or a carb protein combo like Quinoa.
    I eat junk too. Coffee with cream, occasionally small servings of pudding or jello.
    Stuff like that... I just try my best. I don't way breads or pasta (gluten intolerant) so my diet is sorta low carb, high protein. Kinda too high in fat...
  • wgn4166
    wgn4166 Posts: 771 Member
    Calories
  • peachyxoxoxo
    peachyxoxoxo Posts: 1,178 Member
    Neither. I just eat healthy. I do estimate my calorie intake though to be sure I'm eating enough to fuel my exercise.
  • TheVimFuego
    TheVimFuego Posts: 2,412 Member
    I just eat real food.
  • Eve23
    Eve23 Posts: 2,352 Member
    No specific diet for me the first time I joined and lost 45 lbs nor this time. I do have to stay away from certain foods but that is because of allergies not because I don't want them.
  • Your idea of a daily plan sounds perfect! Carbs are not bad, but try to have wholegrain as much as possible, brown rice, whole wheat/meal bread etc. But be kind to yourself, oats are great for lowering cholesterol, they are filling etc, a great choice in the morning. You don't have to deprive yourself, I can't stand brown rice, so I eat basmati, it's better than white, and tastes a lot better than brown! I try to have only 1 cup cooked and figure that nobody got obese just from eating white rice!
    Check out http://www.thegraciouspantry.com/oatmeal-recipes/ it's clean but nice food ideas with oats.
    Your intuition sounds fine to me, so go with that! try to stick to 80% "clean food" and have 20% to enjoy yourself! Exercise, and you'll be laughing all the way to the scales! Good luck!
  • Since I started my weightloss journey I have followed two different "diets"

    1. Low Carb/High Protein
    2. Ashy Bines Clean Eating Plan: Basically low carb, no diary, no processed food, no sweetners etc.

    BTW, are you going to do low carb/high protein or Ashy Bines plan for the rest of your life? I'd hope not. Just track your calories.

    I thought I could.

    I don't know.. I wish I didnt care what I ate and just followed a strict pla but I need to get out of this äll or nothing mentality.

    So If I know one night I am going out with friends, I should just try and eat low calorie foods throughout the day so I have more calories at night?

    Is that right?
  • inlander
    inlander Posts: 339 Member
    I do the low carbohydrate thing. (Not no carb, just no grains, lots of veggies, moderate protein, high fat, periodic fruit.) I tried counting calories and eating whatever I wanted as long as I was at a deficit, but my body doesn't respond well to a higher-carbohydrate diet, and it never has.

    It's hard to stay on the low-carbohydrate bandwagon if you don't enjoy the food you're eating - if you have a sweet tooth, I just made some killer low-carb ice cream. If you want the recipe, send me a message (I'll forget to check back here).

    I think that if counting calories works for you, you should do it. Restricting your intake of anything can be difficult, but unfortunately some people only do well with a low-fat diet and some only do well with a low-carbohydrate diet. Just depends on your body.
  • airangel59
    airangel59 Posts: 1,887 Member
    Always had done WW when wanted to lose weight. This time I'm just tracking calories/carbs (not sure how with the WW point plan I can control carbs, just dx'd with type2DM) and seeing how that works out for me.
  • freerange
    freerange Posts: 1,722 Member
    Just IMO you are not getting enough healthy fats in your diet, this can and will lead to binge and feeling unsatisfied.
  • ShrinkRapt451
    ShrinkRapt451 Posts: 447 Member
    I've done the South Beach Diet in the past, but it's impossible to stick to if you like to eat out (and I do, and do it often).

    So now I count three things:
    1. Calories
    2. Carbs (keep 'em below 200 if I can)
    3. Protein (keep it above 100)

    There are days I don't meet those goals. By having carb/protein targets, I am MUCH less likely to gorge on stuff that is nutritionally worthless. Most of those things have too many calories and too many carbs. I know that if my carbs get over 200 for more than a few days in a row I start craving sweets like crazy. If I meet these targets I can take or leave sweets. And I can usually meet these targets even when I eat out.

    As for "banking" calories for a planned splurge evening: lots of ways to handle that. You can put in an extra workout. You can drop your calories by 100 for a few days to "cover" the extra. You can eat light in the morning to allow yourself more in the afternoon.

    I usually do #2 (reduce other days by 100 or so) because I pay more attention to my calorie intake v. goal for the week, rather than the day. So I often have a day where I go over goal. But as long as I'm where I need to be for the WEEK, I still lose.
  • irisheyez718
    irisheyez718 Posts: 677 Member
    I eat what I want, and work it into my calories.
  • annahiven
    annahiven Posts: 177 Member
    I eat what I want. I don't do low-anything except I try to control my sodium. Else than that, I just try and stay under my total calories. It has worked fine so far.
  • nz_deevaa
    nz_deevaa Posts: 12,209 Member
    I just track my calories, but I do try to cook as much food as I can, and not buy 'pre-prepared' food.
  • contingencyplan
    contingencyplan Posts: 3,639 Member
    I eat what I want. I just make sure to cook it all myself, from fresh, whole food ingredients. Non processed, whole grain, etc.
  • Robin_Bin
    Robin_Bin Posts: 1,046 Member
    I track calories and fiber... check the macros (carbohydrates, protein and fat to make sure I'm not way off), but don't worry about minor deviations. Also tracking exercise. And trying to eat more "whole", organic, fresh foods, staying away from GMO, artificial and extra sweeteners, and some other "healthier" food choices, but not tracking those. For me, oats for breakfast are fine. I would probably combine them with milk, so I'd be getting some protein too. If there's going to be a long time between breakfast and my next meal, I might go for something with more protein like the eggs, but otherwise... either is fine.

    Keep in mind that too much of almost anything is not good for you. Good luck finding what works for you!
  • stupidloser
    stupidloser Posts: 300 Member
    I like to carb cycle. I eat very little carbs on days I don't have a very high energy expenditure like mon-thur. Then on friday I increase my carb intake to sustain the all-nite partying i like to do on the weekends.
  • KJCJAJB
    KJCJAJB Posts: 3 Member
    My friend and I are both " carbaholics", We got the " Type two diabetes weight loss book", FOURTH edition... it's important to have this newest one as they keep making changes according to what they find works with folks who are their patients/ clients. It is low carb, but gives you many choices and variety to choose from for all daily meals, plus two snacks per day, also you get into mild ketoses ( it's all explained in the book) and your cravings pretty much disappear, your are content and not craving all hours of the night and day. my fitnesspal ... which our adult children found on line for us and loaded onto our mobile phones.... is about 50% of the success we're having with our healthy life style program though :).... helps keep us aware and on track. One of the things that the book notes, is, that they've found the highest success rates among their patients to be folks who do certain things and one of them is to keep track or a journal and my fitness pal is doing exactly that, right? !
    We are exercising too, but are older ladies with arthritis, so we do some cardio... just walking, and light weights, a streching move or two and one or two pilates moves... if we hurt ourselves by going to hard at it, it takes quite a while to heal muscles, tendons and ligaments when you're older lol, then you miss out on all of those weeks of exercise!
    We also chew our food completely , putting our fork/ spook down between bites, don't watch TV or read / text/ cell phone game etc. while eating... just savour the flavour. We DO weigh our protein portions and stick to them... it's enough to satisfy we've found, if you're eating your recommended amt. of cooked/ counted veg. and big portion of free veg. salad... mmmm. I don't even use the low low low cal home made salad dressing that they recommend, I don't ike it and that makes me not want to eat my nutritious salad! so I just use less of regular Kraft dressings and steer clear of the creamy ones.
    Hope this is of some help, we feel so much better on this program and are both doing great with between 25 and 30 lb. losses each since May first.
    Good luck with your feelings of deprivation/ food fixation, if you are addicted to carbs, this should work nicely for you :)
  • Ilovejacks
    Ilovejacks Posts: 153 Member
    Just track calories.I find that if i stay under the recommended #'s across the board,I don't have cravings.I think if you just Give your body what it needs,it all balances out.No gimmick's, just eat healthy:)
  • Robin_Bin
    Robin_Bin Posts: 1,046 Member
    Also keep in mind that no one food will supply all your nutritional needs. While it's good to have some daily eating plans in mind, I've never heard of anyone who could eat the same thing day after day for the rest of their life. And even if you could, it probably wouldn't be healthy because it would be missing some micro-nutrients.

    I remember hearing about a woman who found a daily meal plan that worked for her (in WW with a leader I knew, but it really wouldn't matter which plan). She ate the exact same things every day for an entire year. Lost all the weight she wanted. But at the end of the year, she still had no idea how to eat for the rest of her life to maintain. She gained it all back in less than a year.

    Learning which things work for you may require some trial and error, and that means you might have some minor set-backs. However I propose that it's worth that in order to learn what will work for you as part of a long-term lifestyle change.

    Good luck!
  • If you are just maintaining, would find out what your basal metabolic burn rate is and set your net goal as 2-300 cals below that. That means your total cals with exercise factored out and planning in some exercise will help to add muscle where you want it. If you want to still lose, that make your net cals 3-600 below bmr. I have notice a big difference when I have eaten whole foods, and it is surprising how many you can fit into a reasonable diet. Fruits and veggies can add alot of fill for not that many calories, so make sure you eat at least 5-6 servings each day. If you decide to binge one day, double your exercise for 2-3 days and your weekly totals will average out. Lastly, find some exercise that you like and get used to calculating how long you have to do it to reach a given calorie burn. That way you are not guessing. P90x, insanity, and 30 day shred are all high intensity, 400-800 cals burned per hour. Even jogging is about 500-700/hour. This kind of exercise gives you alot of cal burn for your time spent, and they can give you definition in your muscles.
  • MalloryCurrent
    MalloryCurrent Posts: 62 Member
    I track calories. I don't think of it as dieting. Just eating the way I should have my whole life. I have really expanded my cooking skills since starting mfp too. I find healthy alternative and recipes to foods I love. And they usually taste just as good or better =)
  • jfa002
    jfa002 Posts: 54 Member
    :bigsmile: I just track calories, but I try to eat as healthy as I can. Yet, I do watch my sodium intake and try to manage that as best as possible. Don't worry about sugars as long as they're natrual plant based sugars. My sugars are sometimes high because of the fresh fruits that I eat, but it gives me pep in my step for a prolonged time. Do your best to not eat refined sugars, but treat yourself once in a while if you're okay with that. Carbs, as long as they are good carbs, are good to have before a workout to give that extra boost. However, try not to load up on them for dinner, that's unless you plan on working out after the evening meal. Grains, fruits, vegetables, and nuts are always an excellent source of nutients that the human body needs, but remember moderation is the key and a balanced diet.
  • kmm7309
    kmm7309 Posts: 802 Member
    I went through the good food/bad food cycle. I also went through this cycle of "I'm going to diet tomorrow so eat whatever the hell I want... oops! I started the next day bad, so I will eat whatever I want for the day and start tomorrow... oops!"

    I have tried a life of substitution and it works for me. Substitute whole wheat bread for white bread. Substitute a spinach salad for french fries. Substitute a fruit juice or water for a soda. Bake my desserts at home and substitute low fat ingredients. Substitute vegetable pasta for enriched pasta. I don't even count my calories. I just exercise every day and substitute (and watch my portions). If I want more to eat, I wait 30 minutes. Usually by then, the second helping has lost its appeal. I'm either full or the food is cold or it doesn't smell as good as when it was cooking, etc.

    I don't believe in diet pills or protein bars or anything. I believe that your body has all of the right tools available at your disposal if you give it the right fuel. Good luck!
  • jyuubi
    jyuubi Posts: 109
    At the moment, trying to just track calories. I stay under carbs and fat anyways. I eat whatever I want, even fast food, it it fits and doesn't make me go over.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    Calories... with emphasis on ensuring adequate protein.
  • delilah47
    delilah47 Posts: 1,658
    IMHO If you start following a certain "diet", you may not be learning to fix healthy meals and change your lifestyle. Many times, what happens when you go on a particular diet, you end up eating their prepared food or buying frozen entrees. Then when you reach your goal, you have no idea how to maintain your new weight, so usually a person ends up just gaining it all back. When you manage your meals every day, you learn how to lose weight, then it's easy when you reach your goal. You just start adding back calories until you find your balance. When I reach my goal, I will still be using MFP and using the scientific approach.