Im an ahole - but people like that

getsixpack
getsixpack Posts: 49
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So im an ahole. I wasn't before - I used to be the nice guy that would go out of his way to be nice to everyone in college. But - I never made many friends. Since becoming an ahole I've gained WAY more friends and have gotten way more action from the chicks... do people just like aholes? Cuz sometimes I hate myself...
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  • Genem30
    Genem30 Posts: 431 Member
    Only a true ahole would use a phrase like "way more action from the chicks", so I totally believe you.

    But the part about being a nice guy before? That's bulls.

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  • thebaconbeast
    thebaconbeast Posts: 560 Member
    Why not just become awesome instead of being an a-hole ?
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    Why not just become awesome instead of being an a-hole ?

    That pretty much sums it up there...see? Bacon really does make everything better :bigsmile:
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    a-holes and as$hats never win
  • sz8soon
    sz8soon Posts: 816 Member
    Because some people can't handle being awesome- so they become aholes instead. Only truly awesome people can be awesome- you've either got it or you don't! But if you want to try and prove me wrong then by all means..... nothing wrong with a world of awesomeness
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    Nah I was super nice to people - never even cussed.... then I got into a car accident where I suffered a skull fracture and I just stopped caring abotu what people think
    Only a true ahole would use a phrase like "way more action from the chicks", so I totally believe you.

    But the part about being a nice guy before? That's bulls.
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    When I was "awesome" and nice to everyone, people ignored my *kitten*.
    Because some people can't handle being awesome- so they become aholes instead. Only truly awesome people can be awesome- you've either got it or you don't! But if you want to try and prove me wrong then by all means..... nothing wrong with a world of awesomeness
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    Doesn't seem to be the norm in politics and business...
    a-holes and as$hats never win
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    This is gonna turn into a troll post - very fast with me trolling. My question is - why does acting like a **** make me have more friends compared to when I was nice? I'm being serious - don't make me start trolling because I just want to know why aholes get more attention.
  • Nerdy_Rose
    Nerdy_Rose Posts: 1,277 Member
    People like confidence, not doormats.
  • jaygregz
    jaygregz Posts: 104
    This is gonna turn into a troll post - very fast with me trolling. My question is - why does acting like a **** make me have more friends compared to when I was nice? I'm being serious - don't make me start trolling because I just want to know why aholes get more attention.

    Because the peoples whose attention you are seeking have about as much depth as the inside of a thimble. If you enjoy the company of moronic fake people and like women with low self esteem then all the power to you and you should continue doing what you are doing. Otherwise, if you want to actually surround yourself with people who matter and who won't make your life miserable you may want to start being genuine. What comes around goes around and believe it or not there are plenty of nice people out there that are worth putting an effort in for.
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,871 Member
    Thanks for the warning. I'd seriously reconsider the quality of the people you're attracting by being an *kitten*.
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    Hmmmmmm true.... when I was nice I had few friends but they were high quality - had goals in life (my best friend in college is at a top med school and he stopped talking to me when I turned into a ****) and were nice also....
    This is gonna turn into a troll post - very fast with me trolling. My question is - why does acting like a **** make me have more friends compared to when I was nice? I'm being serious - don't make me start trolling because I just want to know why aholes get more attention.

    Because the peoples whose attention you are seeking have about as much depth as the inside of a thimble. If you enjoy the company of moronic fake people and like women with low self esteem then all the power to you and you should continue doing what you are doing. Otherwise, if you want to actually surround yourself with people who matter and who won't make your life miserable you may want to start being genuine. What comes around goes around and believe it or not there are plenty of nice people out there that are worth putting an effort in for.
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    Yeah - actually the people I attract now are way way stupider than when I was nice...
    Thanks for the warning. I'd seriously reconsider the quality of the people you're attracting by being an *kitten*.
  • Notorious_T
    Notorious_T Posts: 384
    All I read was ahole and people like that...totally bummed that this isn't about sex...my dirty mind just assumed it would be...

    *kicks rocks*
  • sz8soon
    sz8soon Posts: 816 Member
    Being Awesome- is not the same as "being nice"

    As Nerdy_Rose stated: it's all about confidence, but you don't have to be a d*ck head to be confident. But I would imagine the aholes get more attention because they are "trolling" for it so to speak- putting oneself out there to be heard, seen etc but doing it in a way that demeans and can be found offensive by others. But in all seriousness, you are probably doing or saying things that your "friends" just didn't have the balls to say or do themselves- doesn't make it right though. Some things are better left unsaid and undone

    It may be getting you more a@@, but is it the type you really want to be getting if you yourself state you hate the way you act sometimes? Kind of contradictory don't you think?

    "Because the peoples whose attention you are seeking have about as much depth as the inside of a thimble. If you enjoy the company of moronic fake people and like women with low self esteem then all the power to you and you should continue doing what you are doing. Otherwise, if you want to actually surround yourself with people who matter and who won't make your life miserable you may want to start being genuine. What comes around goes around and believe it or not there are plenty of nice people out there that are worth putting an effort in for."

    Totally this ^^^^^^^^^
  • chris1816
    chris1816 Posts: 715 Member
    I'm a crass, endearing motherf*cker.
  • Expialidojess
    Expialidojess Posts: 441 Member
    I say whatever comes to my mind whenever I f'ing feel like it and it seems to work for me!! :D
  • Anayalata
    Anayalata Posts: 391 Member
    It's weird but I'm genuinely an a-hole and I have a handful of friends.

    Much better than having 100 acquaintances.
  • mary34reilly
    mary34reilly Posts: 59 Member
    Why not just become awesome instead of being an a-hole ?

    That pretty much sums it up there...see? Bacon really does make everything better :bigsmile:

    Awesome is awesome...and believe it or not....being an ahole won't get you very far, in life I mean. Being an ahole isn't really socially acceptable....least not in places where the grown ups are.

    Besides, if you hate yourself...or how your acting, that's surely a sign. Who knows why you get more friends as an ahole. Definitely quality plays into it. That and maybe it's just easier to be an ahole then be awesome...

    Yay Bacon! As in Kevin :)
  • jaygregz
    jaygregz Posts: 104
    I was an A hole once but all I could smell was *kitten*
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    I think it's just your attracting the people with no self-confidence.
  • alyssa_nicole
    alyssa_nicole Posts: 32
    All I read was ahole and people like that...totally bummed that this isn't about sex...my dirty mind just assumed it would be...

    *kicks rocks*


    Hahahaha you are definitely awesome.
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    Yeah but that's like 90% of the worlds pop haha so is it bad?
    I think it's just your attracting the people with no self-confidence.
  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    If you hate yourself for being an ahole, why are you being one? Just to say you have more "friends"? I'd rather love myself for being a good person and have fewer friends.
  • mary34reilly
    mary34reilly Posts: 59 Member
    I was an A hole once but all I could smell was *kitten*

    Hah! And lived in a nutty neighborhood right...HA!

    Besides....people may say or act like they are your friend....but really...they're probably a holes too!
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    danny lives??
  • Hendrix7
    Hendrix7 Posts: 1,903 Member
    Cool story OP, and when I say cool story I mean, terrible.
  • TheAncientMariner
    TheAncientMariner Posts: 444 Member
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  • sisierra
    sisierra Posts: 659 Member
    Nah I was super nice to people - never even cussed.... then I got into a car accident where I suffered a skull fracture and I just stopped caring abotu what people think

    ahhhh, caring about what people think should always be kept to a minimum. At least for strangers. But I'm a personal fan of bro's with a spicy 'tude.

    If you insult people and are totally serious about it, yet call those people your friends= not cool
    if you give and receive and it's all for funsies =riotous

    buuuuuuut, if you hate yourself sometimes, then you have to change something. I've been there, done that, still return for a conjugal visit sometimes. Do what makes you happy...as long as it's legal (or just don't get caught). :wink:

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