Im an ahole - but people like that

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  • docktorfokse
    docktorfokse Posts: 473 Member
    I'm generally pretty civil to people who are civil to me. But a lot of people still consider me to be pretty *****y because I value sincerity (even if it's blunt) over politeness. And even then, I still have a lot of people who adore me despite coming off as an *kitten*. Such is life, it seems.
  • stormieweather
    stormieweather Posts: 2,549 Member
    I'm a nice person, but that doesn't mean I tolerate BS from people who are supposedly my friends. I treat them right and they treat me right, or ...there's the door.

    On the other hand, I don't intentionally hurt people or behave badly.

    I have high caliber friends, although not too many to count.

    And I could not care less what other people think of me.

    Oh and I don't like a'holes. Not purposeful ones and not accidental ones.

    But that's just me.
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    I give up... I'm tired of all the negativity that comes with being a ****. Thanks for the input guys. Now how to repair all the damage I've caused....
  • Notorious_T
    Notorious_T Posts: 384
    Saying you are sorry and genuinely meaning it would be a great start :)
  • WehttamThims
    WehttamThims Posts: 57 Member
    Actually you are an attention *kitten* which is different than a true ahole. You act like an ahole to get attention and you started this message to get attention. There's nothing wrong with either, every one is free to be whom they like, but let's just get it straight.
  • getsixpack
    getsixpack Posts: 49
    Well I'm not that much of an attention *kitten*... but maybe.
    Actually you are an attention *kitten* which is different than a true ahole. You act like an ahole to get attention and you started this message to get attention. There's nothing wrong with either, every one is free to be whom they like, but let's just get it straight.
  • FlaxMilk
    FlaxMilk Posts: 3,452 Member
    I think people can be drawn to the novelty of someone who will act outside of the norms.
  • susjan
    susjan Posts: 105
    So im an ahole. I wasn't before - I used to be the nice guy that would go out of his way to be nice to everyone in college. But - I never made many friends. Since becoming an ahole I've gained WAY more friends and have gotten way more action from the chicks... do people just like aholes? Cuz sometimes I hate myself...

    Girls like *kitten* when we're young... but not as we get older. Too many in the world.

    Be good :-)
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
    depends on your definition of a-hole.
  • Lolli1986
    Lolli1986 Posts: 500 Member
    yeah, gunna need to see some evidence of your @ssholeishness to determine whether you actually are one.
  • annabellj
    annabellj Posts: 1,337 Member
    Saying you are sorry and genuinely meaning it would be a great start :)

    this, what comes around goes around, and eventually it catches up to you
  • missworld95
    missworld95 Posts: 131 Member
    This is a popular troll question..........
    .....But really, you were probably a pushover or atleast acted that way, so people walked over you. Personally I don't tolerate "aholes," so the people who probably tolerate you have low confidence, like someone else said. And even though "90% of the world is that way" (which is a lie), I'm not friends with weak minded people who would want to tolerate people like that anyway.
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
    So im an ahole. I wasn't before - I used to be the nice guy that would go out of his way to be nice to everyone in college. But - I never made many friends. Since becoming an ahole I've gained WAY more friends and have gotten way more action from the chicks... do people just like aholes? Cuz sometimes I hate myself...

    you will find many,many,many friends on mfp forums. like attracts like.
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    danny lives??

    Still?
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    This post made me think of this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGWpRxnyeGg

    I broke up with a guy for being "too" nice, that was 27 yrs ago. I was too young to appreciate it. Now he's an a-hole and an alcoholic, and he blames it all on me. Still. :ohwell: Nice before the point of becoming a doormat is good. I think women with low self-esteem are attracted to the a-holes.
  • barbielovesgym
    barbielovesgym Posts: 43
    So, skull fractures induce ahole behavior? I think you may be more of a dbag than a real ahole .:).
  • Jani2416
    Jani2416 Posts: 275 Member
    been there, done that! Don't like the a-holes at all!
  • InnerFatGirl
    InnerFatGirl Posts: 2,687 Member
    Nah I was super nice to people - never even cussed.... then I got into a car accident where I suffered a skull fracture and I just stopped caring abotu what people think
    Only a true ahole would use a phrase like "way more action from the chicks", so I totally believe you.

    But the part about being a nice guy before? That's bulls.

    Did you suffer a frontal lobe injury? This is a serious question, btw ..
  • megsi474
    megsi474 Posts: 370 Member
    As with anything, there is a balance. Being confident, selective and having high standards for who you let into/keep in your life is not necessarily assholery. Being a total jackwad to the people in it is, as is having the delusion that you are meaningful, when in fact you're just cheap entertainment to them.
  • headlock_lynn
    headlock_lynn Posts: 79 Member
    I was an A hole once but all I could smell was *kitten*

    That about says it all I think. Well done. I wonder about the quality of the friends you are with. Perhaps you need some new ones and a new perspective while you are at it.
  • ChaseAlder
    ChaseAlder Posts: 804 Member
    Charming.
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    Why not just become awesome instead of being an a-hole ?

    That pretty much sums it up there...see? Bacon really does make everything better :bigsmile:

    Had to.....


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  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    So im an ahole. I wasn't before - I used to be the nice guy that would go out of his way to be nice to everyone in college. But - I never made many friends. Since becoming an ahole I've gained WAY more friends and have gotten way more action from the chicks... do people just like aholes? Cuz sometimes I hate myself...

    Nope............no they don't.
  • sarahlucydaynes26
    sarahlucydaynes26 Posts: 263
    I personally think people who are arseholes are rude, obnoxious, love themselves too much and to put it bluntly too far up their own *kitten*.
    Where I come from I would rather have a handful of close, reliable friends rather than fitting in with the cool ( apparently so ) arses.. they can be good looking, the science geek... But if they were acting an *kitten*... Sorry but no can do. I persona

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