Getting frustrated and discouraged
Sooze_1975
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Good morning,
I posted this yesterday, but did not get many responses. I feel like I should have lost much more weight than I have based on the amount of working out I am doing. Below is a slightly edited version of my post from yesterday; if anyone has any insight or words of encouragement I would greatly appreciate it.
Hi everyone,
I just now calculated the calories I should eat in order to lose weight using the TDEE method, but it seems really high to me. Can some confirm if I am on the rigt track? Below are my stats and calculation.
37 year old female weighing 243. I work out five days a week for approximatley 1.5 hours each time. I do 30 min strength training and usually 55-60 min of cardio. I average a 750 cals per gym session.
I calculated my BMR at 1834.
Multiplied by 1.55 for activity level = 2824
2824 - 20% = 2256
This seems like a lot of calories, but I am thinking that my problem has been that I am not eating enough because I have not lost much weight in three months; 7lbs. I am getting discouraged, therefore the request for some opinions. So far I have been sticking to the number of cals given to me by MFP, 1710 and usually not eating back any of my work out calories.
Thank you to anyone that replied!
Sooze
I posted this yesterday, but did not get many responses. I feel like I should have lost much more weight than I have based on the amount of working out I am doing. Below is a slightly edited version of my post from yesterday; if anyone has any insight or words of encouragement I would greatly appreciate it.
Hi everyone,
I just now calculated the calories I should eat in order to lose weight using the TDEE method, but it seems really high to me. Can some confirm if I am on the rigt track? Below are my stats and calculation.
37 year old female weighing 243. I work out five days a week for approximatley 1.5 hours each time. I do 30 min strength training and usually 55-60 min of cardio. I average a 750 cals per gym session.
I calculated my BMR at 1834.
Multiplied by 1.55 for activity level = 2824
2824 - 20% = 2256
This seems like a lot of calories, but I am thinking that my problem has been that I am not eating enough because I have not lost much weight in three months; 7lbs. I am getting discouraged, therefore the request for some opinions. So far I have been sticking to the number of cals given to me by MFP, 1710 and usually not eating back any of my work out calories.
Thank you to anyone that replied!
Sooze
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Would you open up your food diary? That way people can see what you are eating and possibly offer up some helpful info.0
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Sure let me see if I can figure it out. You'll have to disregard yesterday as I got in a funk and went a little crazy :-( First time in a while that I did that tho.0
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I changed my setting, can you see it? Does it show you my excercise too?0
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Well, using these numbers you're creating a deficit of 568 calories a day. That's 3,978 calories a week, which means you should lose just over a pound a week if you are consistent.
That said, the numbers can be deceiving. Take measurements, too, and keep your chin up. I busted my butt for two months and never lost a pound, but I shrunk like crazy. It's kind of hard to deal with mentally, but stick with it. Eventually the weight will start falling off. ;-)0 -
Try cutting your calories to about 1800 per day and be sure to drink lots of water...............about 120 ounces per day(Not all at one time). Now I am sure there will be plenty that disagree with what I am saying but I have lost 114 lbs since Feb. this year. If you are working out like that 5 days per week and your diet is right and you should be losing pretty quick for a while. Just an idea for ya0
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I am new to this, but I took a look at your diary for food, and it seems like your sodium on average is high going over my a thousand sometimes. I agree to do measurements also. You maybe losing inches.0
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Thank you for that MNmommyjosie. It's good to know that I'm not the only out there working hard, but not losing. I guess everyone goes thru it. I am just so into the working out now and loving the gym that I don't want to let myself give up because I'm not seeing any changes on the scale. I have a session with my trainer on Thursday and he is going to take my body fat %, the first time in over a month. I really hope there is a change, even a small one would help.0
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That seems like a high amount of calories, but then again I have a sedentary job and don't work out. How tall are you? From the "quick" calculators online, it seems like 2000-2200 would be an appropriate range. From most of the posts I've seen, it's more about the quality of the food, than the quantity, though I'm not an ideal coach on that. I would check the boards for someone with similar weight loss goals and age, and see their diary for examples of what worked for them. 7lbs seems low for 3 months, even though the MFP goals are 12-15lbs for that time period on 1 lb a week weight loss. You also might want to consult with a nutritionist/doctor to make sure that you're getting the correct nutrition to loose weight rather than just adding and subtracting calories.0
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I can see your diary now.
I'm on the side that a calorie is not a calorie. You seem to be high in sodium most days. Have you considered trying to eat cleaner? Really cut down on processed foods, thus cutting back on sodium, and see what happens? The added benefit is that you get a lot more food for your calorie buck when eating clean. Lean proteins, whole grains, fruits and vegetables.0 -
You are right on the sodium, I usually do go over. I am trying to make a concious effort on the sodium, I didn't realize how much sodium is in everything. I will def try to keep a better eye on that. Thank you!0
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Actually, I'm having the same problem. But after a personal post of my own, I think I figured it out. I wasn't eating enough. I'd lowered my calories too much. I'd gone into nearly a 1300 calorie a day deficite, making me (technically)anorexic.
I'm pretty fairly active and added on workouts on top of that. Lost maybe 2 pounds in about a month so far. So, I'm gonna see what the difference is in, let's say, 3-4 weeks.
But make sure you take measurements. One of my buddies has some serious muscle right now and looks like she lost a lot of weight, but she only lost abuot 6 pounds so far. Keep your chin up! You're doing great. And you must be feeling great. It'll take awhile for you to start "seeing" a difference.
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i understand completely how you feel i worked out like a dog this weekend and watched my intake and i did not lose one pound. i feel so discourage and that is what makes you want to give up. I'll encourage you if you encourage me maybe we can beat this thing together0
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Really watch your sugar and sodium intake. Drink more water throughout the day and try to cut down on the snacks. If you are going to have a snack eat veggies or fruit. I like yogurt with fresh fruit in it. It takes about 30 days for your body to get used to change.
You may want to measure yourself instead of weighing. You are probably loosing fat but gaining muscle at this point.0 -
Thank you to everyone for the suggestions and encouraging words. I am going to make an effort to lower the sugar and sodium intake and up my calories to 1800 -1900 to see what happens. My trainer is going to take my body fat % on Thursday, so fingers crossed that it has gone down even just a little. Good luck to everyone out there!0
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Its unlikely thats shes gaining muscle unless shes doing a lot of strength training and consistently eating excess calories.
What kind of workouts do you do (sorry if you've already said).
From your diary it seems you eat quite a bit of processed foods, Im with cuting back and eating more good quality food, more protein and good clean sources of carbs, such as sweet potatos, brown rice and oats. You seem to be fueling yourself well in terms of calories for workouts, how do you estimate your burn, do you have a HRM?0 -
Be sure to post the results on your body fat...and after a couple weeks of more water, less sodium and sugar. I think you are going to be very happy with the results of both!0
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I usually do 30 minutes of strength training using workouts given to me by my trainer. I rotate workouts of legs, upper body, and core. The workouts usually consist of free weights and machines. For the cardio, I use the programs on the treadmill, bike, or elliptical that let you enter in your weight to calculate calories. I have done compared the results given to various websites and the machines seem to be accurate based on everything I've found.0
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What is HRM?0
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Its unlikely thats shes gaining muscle unless shes doing a lot of strength training and consistently eating excess calories.
What kind of workouts do you do (sorry if you've already said).
From your diary it seems you eat quite a bit of processed foods, Im with cuting back and eating more good quality food, more protein and good clean sources of carbs, such as sweet potatos, brown rice and oats. You seem to be fueling yourself well in terms of calories for workouts, how do you estimate your burn, do you have a HRM?
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Heart Rate MonitorWhat is HRM?0
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What is HRM?
A heart-rate monitor, it will give you a more accurate estimate of calories burned, sites tend to over estimate quite a bit sometimes. If it seems accurate though fair enough .
Personally Im more of the lifting persuasion, I started lifting heavy 9 weeks ago and have never looked back, my body shape is changing and Im getting stronger. I eat well to fuel it and stick to mainly eating clean, unprocessed foods that taste amazing. I'd highly recommend compound stength workouts including large movements such as squats, deadlifts, bench press, etc, over split routines, as it works larger muscle groups.0 -
Okay, thank you. I'll look into getting an HRM. Do you have any suggestions?0
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Ive heard good things about polar, but theyre very expensive, I'd google around for one, see what deals you can get. A friend got one for £12 at Aldi, so sometimes you can get them really cheap.
Keep up the good work, and dont feel discouraged, you're making an effort to be healthier amd fitter, that in itself is awesome0 -
Tis is the first time I'm going to say this but I think you're eating too much. Try cutting 200 calories a day and see how you go.0
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Its unlikely thats shes gaining muscle unless shes doing a lot of strength training and consistently eating excess calories.
What kind of workouts do you do (sorry if you've already said).
From your diary it seems you eat quite a bit of processed foods, Im with cuting back and eating more good quality food, more protein and good clean sources of carbs, such as sweet potatos, brown rice and oats. You seem to be fueling yourself well in terms of calories for workouts, how do you estimate your burn, do you have a HRM?
i agree with Amy. I've cut down on processed foods and started reading ingredients lists a lot more. It's hard to increase the amount of veggies for me, but I've been slowly adding more and trying to disquise them, like in healthy smoothies in the morning. Adding spinich and mushrooms to an omlet, making vegetable soups. I've tried a couple of new things like Avacado slices added to my salad, never had them before. Tried mangos for the first time and Quinoa is great in place of rice or added to soups or even as a breakfast cereal of sorts. I started out around the same weight as you and have lost 33 pounds since the end of January. I started out just walking, but now I'm going to a fitness place to do some strength training, however, I have reached a plateau myself and I am going to use the measurements to see how I progress as well.0 -
I was the same in that I didn't seem to be losing so much, mainly because I was trying to eat less than my recommeded amount of calories per day. But when I started eating within 100 of the recommended amount, and drinking more water, the weight started to come off. I have had a couple of blips, but now weigh myself 1st thing, with just my boxers on, and I can guarentee I have lost my expected amount
The hardest part will be keeping it off!!0 -
I just bought groceries yesterday and bought a bunch of frozen dinners for my lunches, doh! I will try to eat healthier suppers starting this week tho and see how things go from there. Thank you for the post!0
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